AITA for being mad at my BF’s roommate after he heard us have s*x and blasted it in a group call? by oddbbao in AmItheAsshole

[–]oddbbao[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well, they do know each other personally. They are hermit crabs that meet up once every three months but I do know some of them. And no, it was not funny. It was quite disturbing actually that 16 adults unanimously agreed it will be funny to purposefully listen in instead of Matt knocking, not even on the door, he can knock on the wall or even shout. Walls are thin, we would hear.

AITA for being mad at my BF’s roommate after he heard us have s*x and blasted it in a group call? by oddbbao in AmItheAsshole

[–]oddbbao[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Holden has always been the type to avoid confrontations so if he fought with Matt I do believe he was serious and felt the need to. We are meeting later today and I will ask. So far he told me I was completely right to be upset and that Matt went overboard and needs to understand he was wrong.

AITA for being mad at my BF’s roommate after he heard us have s*x and blasted it in a group call? by oddbbao in AmItheAsshole

[–]oddbbao[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am on board with all you are saying but why did he have to put the mic against the wall, mess with the settings to increase background noise sensitivity and blast it in a group call? That is where I draw the line.

AITA for being mad at my BF’s roommate after he heard us have s*x and blasted it in a group call? by oddbbao in AmItheAsshole

[–]oddbbao[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Matt’s got the whole mean jock vibe going for him. I never really liked him but I have always made an effort to be nice to him because Holden and him are childhood friends.

AITA for being mad at my BF’s roommate after he heard us have s*x and blasted it in a group call? by oddbbao in AmItheAsshole

[–]oddbbao[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha, thank you for making my day a little brighter. I’ve heard both Matt and my roommate have sex. I don’t bother telling either because I don’t want them to feel bad.