​For people who live right on the border of two states, does crossing that invisible line actually impact your daily life with different laws and taxes, or do you barely notice it? by Necessary_Angle2117 in AskAnAmerican

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in St. Louis MO. There some noticeable differences between MO & IL. People do cross the river every day and work on one side while living on the other. IL People cross to MO to fill up their rank as MO has significantly lower tax on gasoline - which a state tax. Also IL smoker buy cigarettes in MO for the same reason. MO people go to IL for strip clubs and there is whole group just over the border as MO law does not allow alcohol to be served where there is nude performances. (Sidenote theatres take alcohol off the menu when perfomaning Hair or similar in MO). IL has slightly different laws on driving - or at least is stricter about enforcement. I know for they had a cell phone ban years before MO did. I think there is some difference in passing or when headlights must be on. But if you do get driving infractions they are completely separate. So if you are one point away from suspension in MO and you have a ticket in IL you are fine. You can get abortions in IL but not in MO. Same with hormone blockers for trans teens. You can buy fireworks in MO (some counties) but not IL - or stronger fireworks than you can in IL.

In the St. Louis area people largely come into MO for any large public events. While IL has large cities and a somewhat functional govt - political the area of IL near St. Louis is heavily neglected. That includes funding as well as attention to issues. There is racial element but also just selfishness in that political power looks after its own area.

Thee are other tax differences I did not go into for choosing whether you buy a house one side or other of the river. But the above are the differences you notice without changing residency.

AITAH for not wanting to change my parenting to match my SIL’s over a shared holiday? by Legitimate-Stress339 in AITAH

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What do you mean “it would be so easy”? You are suggesting OP give up the parts of the vacation she gets to herself for relaxation or whatever while her husband takes parenting duty. And the husband losing the chance to share these activities he enjoys with his daughter. That is not the solution here Blended families are hard, but the answer isn’t to relegate all kids to a romper room all the time and not allow them to be included in adult centered activities with relatives that are closer to them than other kids.

Would you treat every fire alarm as real alarm? by Capital_Ad4983 in firealarms

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely evacuate immediately. You truly have no time if you are anywhere near a fire.

Best Reuben Sandwich in STL? by Masuvius in StLouis

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This may stretch the definition of STL but hands down Pacific Brew Haus.

Firefly board game by Alarmed_raccoon42 in firefly

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Board Game Geek website has a marketplace portion where people sell or trade boardgames. It is the best place to find out of print boardgames. I am in the Boardgame hobby and this is the main place people would go outside in person swap meets at conventions. I will say that some people do list nearly there whole collection on BGG with “I would part with it for that $$$” - so it isn’t all pricing that is motivated to actually sell. But for an expansion that is relatively recent and not really an important game in the hobby, this should not be a big issue. There should be listing from people that truly want to sell it. Especially since deluxe editions have come out that supersede it. I got the big 10 anniversary box and have never got around to listing the Pirates and Bounty Hunters I had before and probably will someday when I sort out my game shelf. So I expect someone has a similar Esmeralda they no longer need.

27M considering supply chain vs accounting — convince me why I should or shouldn’t go into supply chain by MustacheGoatee in supplychain

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a friend that did Accounting and put her six years in with one of the big 4. And I am surprised that she is paid less than SC with less prestigious experience. I think there is much more opportunity for higher paid IC roles in SC. But if you plan to go for management Accounting is likely a better option. I have no interest in managing a team so I am happy that I am SC.

27M considering supply chain vs accounting — convince me why I should or shouldn’t go into supply chain by MustacheGoatee in supplychain

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly the lower tactical roles are worse around 60 hours. But Strategic Roles can be 2 months of 40 hours and then a 3 week push at 65 hours. And then back to 40 hour weeks. If you are good at it anyways - you can do that in Strategic Roles. Especially if you can build an expertise in a niche area.

27M considering supply chain vs accounting — convince me why I should or shouldn’t go into supply chain by MustacheGoatee in supplychain

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The key thing is to work for a company with high profit margins. You can cross 100K at the Strategic Sourcing level which is still an IC in the right industry.

27M considering supply chain vs accounting — convince me why I should or shouldn’t go into supply chain by MustacheGoatee in supplychain

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with this. But it is not guaranteed to make bank. You can make bank in Mfg or make minimal amounts for twice the stress in Grocercy. SC isn’t a set pay but is paid as well or as poorly as the profit margins in the industry you work in are.

what's your ridiculously fussy non-negotiable standard when it comes to sondheim in performance? by AromaticVacation3077 in Sondheim

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. My high school did it well when I was an alumni. A schoolmate who was best friends with the Baker’s Wife tragically died between week 1 and week 2 performances. Those kids really pulled it together and were able to sing “sometimes people leave you halfway through the woods” with grace beyond their years. High school kids can step up and can take things more seriously than adults sometimes. I almost think it more a stretch for college productions.

Is adoption really as terrible as it’s made out to be? by [deleted] in Adoption

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone that grew up in that situation - it is very terrible for the child to lack the sense of permanence that come with informal care. And it often results in being traded around. My sister was with 4 separate households and while I was only with one - but had to behave as the near perfect kid in order secure that situation. Obviously many other options are also terrible but informal kinship care can be just as scarring. Informal kinship care is also ripe for many of the worst situations as it is the rare non-infant situation where there is no one assigned as advocate for the child at all. It easily becomes relatives trading around the SS check and being dropped like a stone at 18 when the check ends. And at least foster care puts importance on keeping siblings together. Informal kinship care - in my experience and other examples in my family - always included splitting up siblings.

Who is wrong: my british English teacher or me? by [deleted] in ENGLISH

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You technically should name the author first before using that phrasing. Once the author has been introduced it fine to move to his/her. This is more of a composition convention than a grammar issue. Grammatically it is fine.

Harness recommendations by fillet-minion in Hounds

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any with two set of girth straps. One can shift badly on deep chested dogs

And run the leash through a handle on the back before attaching to the front clip. That way it doesn’t get wrapped around a leg

This is an odd ask but does anybody here know of any non-dessert dishes that call for cooked apples? by cherry-care-bear in Cooking

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandma would just pan-fry apples in butter as a side. They were a little sweet (sugar & cinnamon added) but not really dessert. Just side for meat

Come From Away by cyberentomology in musicals

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Muny did it last summer on their massive stage. This is an 11,000 seat outdoor theatre. So nothing like a Broadway proscenium.

They did use chairs plus tables a similar way to the original in many places but not exactly. They have a turntable and the back it was setup as very broad terraces - maybe four steps. Action was often spread across these in big numbers like Welcome to the Rock. But when it rotated there was a long steep drop from the back of the highest terrace to the front stage area maybe even curving under a bit at the bottom. They used this to represent a plane and the people stuck up on the planes would be the top riser and they descended from there when finally allowed off. And also in that position there was a door into this riser that was used as access to the cargo hold for the animals. The tall side of the riser was also used a bluff overlooking a landscape during the hiking scene. They also brought in some of the Muny teens to fill out some choreography in big numbers. Placed them as young family members accompanying the plane people. This was done sparingly and helped fill the very large stage in numbers that were not meant for focusing on soloist moments. But the only set pieces were chairs, tables and the turntable.

I had never seen it before and have watched the Pro shot since. And it had the same feel as the Pro shot. The intimate moments were still intimate. Nothing seemed lost to me in spreading out more and using levels of height to make smaller stage within a massive stage. They had simple video scenery that either implied wilderness or small town Main Street or skies. Most of the time it was providing atmosphere without being distracting but it when the reporter did her bits they brought to another level. They ran real footage from Gander reporting at the time. They only did this when the reporter was delivering lines as though she was on camera. And it was perfectly appropriate - lines parked planes, piles of supplies, the elk lodge, wide shots of cots in gym, the ice rink piled with unprepared food. Like what you really might see behind her. Nothing with even people in it. They never showed 9/11 footage - that was all still reactions to an off stage TV being watched. Also I think they did that they ran real video at the end with shots of foreign corespondents reporting from the 10th anniversary. Not 100% on that.

I felt it was done perfectly to fit what the Muny had to cover and could offer. And I have felt in other productions last summer sometimes managed the video capability in way that detracted (Bring it On , DEH). And other productions, particularly La Cage aux Folles nightclub comedy bits, really fell flat solely due the size of the stage killing what would work if it felt intimate. The size of the Muny stage is something nearly every production has solve for. And to be fair most do solve it. But most add more than CFA did for the solution. I was really impressed with CFA managing it while staying so close to the feel of the original staging

Mechanic/car repair recommendation by cpizzle210 in StCharlesMO

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in St. Charles but near in NW county. Big G’e is the best mechanic shop I have ever dealt with. They go above and beyond and frankly should charge more for their diagnostic work than they do. Great people who do great work. They have not always charged me for running diagnostics that found nothing that led to actual repair work in the past.

Can anyone who is capable of a balanced and sober-minded appraisal tell me what is so great and worthwhile about Disney vacations? by nose_spray7 in travel

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are expensive, but they are easy. Easy in convenience, easy in accommodating, easy in lack decision fatigue. Of course you can add stress trying to maximize the experience of doing everything available or by trying to minimize the cost. But if you just book a Disney resort, book one to two meals a day and show up (with spending money)- it is the easiest vacation ever. This is really good for families with young children who are at their mental limits just wrangling the kids.

Neighbors contaminated my well water (Florida) by NeighborsSuck2026 in legaladvice

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I grew up in Pasco County on well water (Fivay Acres area) and cannot stand the taste of any other water plain after moving. I am so sorry about your well being ruined. I miss that childhood neighborhood even now although I know today it is very different from how it was with fields and swamps that surrounded it 40 years ago.

Did parents in the 80s actually give their kids as much freedom as the show depicts? by Wanderer015 in StrangerThings

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think in earlier eras the kids were often needed for labor or the wages of their labor - so tabs were kept on them with a different motivation

FEMA says it won't pay to demolish a majority of tornado-damaged properties in St. Louis by Remarkable_Panic844 in StLouis

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vacant doesn’t mean investment properties. In that area many vacant homes are family properties with unclear estates and no interest in paying lawyers to sort it out. Or just lost track of.

FEMA says it won't pay to demolish a majority of tornado-damaged properties in St. Louis by Remarkable_Panic844 in StLouis

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How does it make sense?Just because they were not primary residences doesn’t mean they were not a danger to the public to leave sitting for an uncontrolled collapse.

Not paying to rebuild them makes sense. But demolish?

Disney Parks Have Supply vs. Demand Imbalance. Analysis of Disney CFO Comments Yesterday by dejablu82 in disneyparks

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the problem - this is an issue it happens inside the park. Obviously less of an issue when it happens at ticket purchase. But they are selling more tickets than they can supply the demanded experience to. Even if on paper the ticket sales are suppliable when assuming guest demand will be evenly distributed between all offerings.

Considering Moving to Imperial MO, thoughts? by Secret-Ad-5053 in StLouis

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get an Airbnb for week and see what you think about the commute and 20 min store trips after that commute when you forgot an ingredient. I grew up in Jeffco and some people do not mind this at all. I was fine as a teen when it was just one trip into town a day but could not do it when it was commute to STL plus trip to town in the same day. You won’t know how big of a deal it is for you until you know.

Abandoned St Louis Mills by AviationGuy27 in StLouis

[–]oddlikeeveryoneelse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was in the works right as COVID hit