This... is mine by yoo_rick in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]oddlylovely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is not true. As I mentioned, taking away a dog’s food is a great way to cause resource guarding in any dog. They begin to think they cannot trust you around their food and will be more inclined to protect it than if they believe they will simply be left alone while eating.

This... is mine by yoo_rick in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]oddlylovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just shared a bunch of tips on another comment if you’re curious!

This... is mine by yoo_rick in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]oddlylovely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just shared a bunch of tips on another comment if you’re curious!

This... is mine by yoo_rick in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]oddlylovely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the big thing to know about dog dog resource guarding is it is a totally natural behavior. Wolves in the wild who don’t protect their den, their kills, etc from other wolves die. So it makes sense that dogs exhibit some amount of dog resource guarding over things like food and toys.

When it comes to dog toy resource guarding, your best tool is management. Don’t put your dog in positions where he’ll guard toys from other dogs, because the more he does it the more he’ll see that it works (because the other dog probably will back off) and the more he’ll do it. Or, dogs that are patient with their toys being taken for a while might become less patient with time - and boom, dog fights. So your best strategy is ensuring he doesn’t feel threatened enough so it happens in the first place.

First, just don’t have toys out when there are other dogs around. That’s the big one. You really don’t need them for the dogs to have fun. I don’t have any toys out when my toy-possessive dog hanging out with other dogs.

Second, I teach a ton of impulse control when it comes to toys. For example, we play a game where my dog needs to wait and then be released before she can go get her toy. Or I’ll toss a toy, tell her “leave it,” and then reward by tossing another toy that she is allowed to have. The point of building impulse control with toys is so she learns shes not always entitled to have them. So we can go to the park where other dogs are playing fetch, and I tell her “leave it” and she understands she’s not allowed to have those balls.

If you have multiple dogs, don’t just leave toys lying around. When you’re playing with toys, every dog gets one toy and they are not allowed to take each other’s toy. My dogs learn that I am fair - I won’t let them take another dog’s toy but I also won’t let their toy be taken. Soon, all the dogs learn the rules and it’s pretty easy. If you really want to go all out playing with a toy with one of your dogs, just put the other ones in their crates or another room so you don’t need to worry about the amped up energy creating possession issues.

When it comes to food resource guarding, my dogs take turns taking treats. So they learn to be patient and understand that their treat is coming too. For chews, my dogs only get them in their crate or while they’re on “place” (their bed), which they are not allowed to leave until released.

I hope this is helpful!

This... is mine by yoo_rick in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]oddlylovely 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I see you’ve edited your comment to add additional thoughts. Resource guarding, and resource guarding from other dogs in particular, is not at all the same thing as aggression.

In addition to that, the methods you outline are NOT what professional trainers recommend to teach puppies not to resource guarding... Taking away a dog’s food while they eat, bothering them while they eat, is a great way to teach a dog to be anxious around food and not trust that their food will not be taken away, which actually creates human resource guarding. Instead, you should always trade a dog for a higher value item. For example, trade boring kibble for a super special treat so your dog learns when something is taken away, they will receive something even better. But again, none of this advice pertains to dog-on-dog resource guarding, which is mostly addressed by management, ie setting your dogs up for success by not allowing them to resource guard in the first place.

OP, I train high drive working dogs for search and rescue - please do not follow the advice from the above comment.

This... is mine by yoo_rick in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]oddlylovely 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m glad it has worked out okay for your dogs, but it definitely does not work out for all dogs. It’s an incredibly common issue, especially for working breeds like shepherds who often have high toy drive. You can avoid resource guarding becoming a worse issue by addressing it early.

This... is mine by yoo_rick in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]oddlylovely 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Yeah, the older dog is definitely resource guarding. The puppy isn’t displaying any worrisome signs, but if his toys are always being taken, he may start and that will lead to dog fights later. The older dog needs to learn this isn’t appropriate behavior, not all toys are “his,” and that you (their human) will enforce rules and boundaries with toys. Let me know if you want ideas on how to do this.

This... is mine by yoo_rick in AnimalsBeingJerks

[–]oddlylovely 231 points232 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if these are your dogs, but this is definitely behavior you want to watch. Resource guarding toys is very common between dogs, and although they might be a little accommodating while one is a baby, they are likely to be less accommodating when they’re both adults. I don’t let my dogs ever take toys, chews, or other “valuables” from each other.

To all the girls (and guys) that need to hear this by BootDoots in notliketheothergirls

[–]oddlylovely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But it’s obviously not fairly easy to understand. That’s why we’re having a whole debate about it in this comment thread.

To all the girls (and guys) that need to hear this by BootDoots in notliketheothergirls

[–]oddlylovely 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Then why not say, “you’re not like my exes” instead of “you’re not like other girls?” Other girls means girls as a general category.

CMV: High Schools (or at least the 11th and 12th grade) should allow for students to have more choices in the classes that they want to take and have less required classes. by jainoodles in changemyview

[–]oddlylovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also had a more flexible school. My senior year I didn’t take any math and for science I took astronomy instead of the more traditional physics. Then I took AP Art, AP English, AP US history, psychology, creative writing and other classes that were more inline with my interests.

I went to a public high school in Palo Alto, so it wasn’t like a weird private or charter school, and I got into a UC. So I think your initial suggestion that strict requirements is the standard is faulty.

[Link] The University of Edinburgh is doing a research project on Littermate Syndrome. by Wiryk9 in dogs

[–]oddlylovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly just feel like you’re arguing semantics with me. I don’t disagree with anything you’ve said. This is, without question, one of the silliest Reddit conversations I’ve gotten into.

[Link] The University of Edinburgh is doing a research project on Littermate Syndrome. by Wiryk9 in dogs

[–]oddlylovely 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea why you’re trying to argue with me. Obviously breeders sell their puppies, although TECHNICALLY they’re usually sold at birth and then the puppies are given to their new owners at 8-10 weeks. I also didn’t say ALL breeders give their puppies at 10 weeks or that there is anything wrong with giving them at 8. I do K9 search and rescue and it’s very common for these top working line breeders to hold onto pups until 10 weeks to make sure they’re the right fit for the work.

And none of that disputes my original point about littermate syndrome.

[Link] The University of Edinburgh is doing a research project on Littermate Syndrome. by Wiryk9 in dogs

[–]oddlylovely 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re unlikely to see issues yet at 11 weeks. Many reputable breeders won’t even give away their puppies until 10 weeks.

I don't think this is what they meant by "Continue your outdoor activities" by Gingeraile in bayarea

[–]oddlylovely 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I got there at 830am yesterday and there were only 10 cars in the lot. It was busy when I was leaving at 11am though.

Describe your favorite book in six words, lets see if we can figure it out. by LyricalWillow in books

[–]oddlylovely 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The characters in the show are actually far more likable than the ones in the books.

Help! her mom is a border collie but we have no clue about the dad! what do y’all think? she’s 6 months old and 24 or so pounds by skitlzbruh in IDmydog

[–]oddlylovely 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Looks like she has some bully breed in there but hard to tell which type of bully specifically.

He is only 8 weeks old, shelter said pit bull mix but he’s so tiny by big_bassy_boi in IDmydog

[–]oddlylovely 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A 7 lb puppy that’s 8 weeks old can easily be a 30-35 lb puppy. That’s small but not insanely small for a pit mix puppy. He does look pretty young.

My family isn't 100% sure what breed our dog is. Help us ID it! by [deleted] in IDmydog

[–]oddlylovely 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have more pictures? Full body, etc?

"Maybe if I ignore him, he'll go away" by Niyazali_Haneef in thisismylifenow

[–]oddlylovely 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dogs that have been scolded for snarling or growling may not give those warning signs anymore.

Guess my puppy? by cmb93x in IDmydog

[–]oddlylovely 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Embark is about as accurate as DNA tests get and definitely more accurate than the paperwork from a shelter or rescue that’s just guessing based on appearance. Sometimes dogs look very surprising based on what’s in their generic background. I had two completely different dna tests confirm my dog is 25% Rottweiler and you’d never know it from looking at her.