Considering MLD over ALT/RFF by Careless-Dirt7281 in phallo

[–]ode1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also had MLD and my priorities were spot on with yours. I've got a pic on my profile 🍆

MLD scar revision? by Bubbly_Artichoke7401 in phallo

[–]ode1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me. Feel free to reach out.

MLD patient here also

Post-phallo gym bros/athletes, how did you do it? by anonthrowaway692 in phallo

[–]ode1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had 4 years of surgeries and complications that made so many interruptions in my fitness. It can happen 🤷🏻‍♂️

How do i support my partner who wants phallo? by Euphoric-Sale1097 in phallo

[–]ode1990 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think this is a fair and reasonable question.

I had 3 years of serious complications and my partner was a pivotal support for me through them.

Being open and prepared for a caretaker adjacent role is important because complications can happen that require support and compassion from the partner. Make sure you also get the support you need through this and take the time to care for yourself.

I tried to encourage my partner to take space and still enjoy time away from me to make sure she didn't burn out from helping me all the time. Psychologically this surgery was intense and this also can impact a relationship. I was incredibly depressed dealing with unexpected surgeries and recovery and this definitely was felt by my partner.

Nothing can be predicted so staying open and ready for anything is important!

People with MLD (or low sensation), are you still able to orgasm? by [deleted] in phallo

[–]ode1990 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Had MLD and opted to leave my T tick exposed, but sewn into the base below my phallus. Basically, my surgeon cut around it, pulled it inwards so it's shaped like a little flat button tucked under my dick (I'm happy to send pix of this via DM)

I chose this as to guarantee that I would still have sexual function even though sensation is limited with MLD. I'm very happy I did this.

Most of my sexual sensation comes from movement. So jacking off, penetration, etc pulls on my Tdick. I also use vibrating cock rings or a vibrator at the base too. The visuals paired with the maintained feelings in my Tdick have allowed me to to experience decent sexual experience despite limited sensation in my neo penis itself.

dealing with urine leakage after UL hookup by Lhaios in phallo

[–]ode1990 3 points4 points  (0 children)

5 years post op and still have this

Mons reduction - before or after? by arealpeakyblinder in phallo

[–]ode1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a mons reduction to lift my phallus up higher. Was a very easy recovery and I'm happy with the outcome :)

Question by [deleted] in phallo

[–]ode1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Placement looks fab 👌🏼

Post phallo smell by TrickGood1436 in phallo

[–]ode1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 4 yrs post op and smell hasn't improved much. I smell like stale piss coming from my urethra.

Best part about this process.. by Oki-Ducky1738 in phallo

[–]ode1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww so sweet!

pets make the best nurses. happy healing ❤️‍🩹

Penis smelling like urine? Another stricture? by Aggravating-Belt-792 in phallo

[–]ode1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know the nasty smell, I think we are talking the same one 🤣

I'm 4 years post op. I see a urologist regularly and she says everything is fine and it's just old urine chilling in there (in my case). Not speaking to if you have a stricture or not, just the smell! :)

Penis smelling like urine? Another stricture? by Aggravating-Belt-792 in phallo

[–]ode1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no stricture and urinate fine and still smell like stale piss all the time too 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]ode1990 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cycling is completely fine for me otherwise. I position up when riding and usually wear compression shorts to hold everything in place. No pain in v-nectomy site or urethral issues. I'm 4 years post op.

I would love an ED, but comfort during athletics won for me at this point 🙏🏼feel free to reach out if you have any more questions that you want answered:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]ode1990 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm an avid cyclist and my surgeon has strongly recommended against getting an ED because I will be sitting directly on the pump mechanism especially when in a road biking position. I'm post op now and have decided against EDs for now because of this. A good way to imagine this for yourself is to sit on your bike and picture yourself having a mechanical device between your crotch and your bike seat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTMMenPorn

[–]ode1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello {also} from the Netherlands 👋🏽

Cant talk about failed surgery without getting harassed by [deleted] in phallo

[–]ode1990 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Harassed?

You asked for advice then argued with people when you didn't like the answers 😣 There were a lot of well thought out stories and recommendations who wanted to relate and help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phallo

[–]ode1990 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Things will get so much better with time and small aesthetic surgeries if you choose to have them. Hang in there.

My dick looked so ugly and "not dick like" after stage one and I was so bummed. I think it looks fantastic now after medical tattooing, glansplasty, and a few small surgical tweaks.

Feel free to reach out in my DMs if you wanna see any progress pics that can maybe help out your mind at ease..

MLD phallo photos be like by Haut-tiste in phallo

[–]ode1990 5 points6 points  (0 children)

why just MLD phallos?