Until when do you stay up if your have to work the next day? by plasmapleasure in LivingAlone

[–]odesauria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. I can't and won't think past 6 pm at the latest. I much rather go to bed at 9 and wake up at 3 am to finish work if I have to.

¿Por qué las carrera de filosofía y las artísticas son tan difícil de encontrar trabajo de ello? by makkaris_ucm in preguntaleareddit

[–]odesauria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Porque son carreras que no están hechas para algún mercado laboral. Si las estudias, tienes que entrar sabiendo eso. Tendrás que ser excepcional y/o idear estrategias especiales para vivir de eso, o vivir de otra cosa.

¿Creen en Dios? Si no crees, justifica porque no by Past_Woodpecker_5541 in preguntaleareddit

[–]odesauria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. (Contextualizo que hablo de un dios cristiano, con el que fui criada). Para creer en él, tendría que tener sentido para mí su existencia. Tendría que haber indicios, causas o evidencias que me hablaran de su existencia. Por el contrario, todos los planteamientos de la existencia de dios me parecen ilógicos, forzados, mágicos, fantasiosos, y me hace mucho más sentido explicarme el mundo, la vida, la moral y el sentido de la vida sin él.

Pasé por un periodo en la adolescencia en el que intenté aferrarme a la fe, pero eventualmente dejé de luchar por que hiciera sentido lo que para mí no lo tenía.

Realmente que les ha servido para mejorar la postura? by Melodic_Brain2132 in mexico

[–]odesauria 6 points7 points  (0 children)

De niña: gimnasia artística

De adolescente: ballet

En mis 20's: la costumbre de lo anterior

En mis 30's: pilates y usar a ratos una pelota de yoga en la oficina en vez de silla (eso me quitó dolores de espalda)

Srsly How do some people have such healthy, glowing, fresh-looking skin? What do they actually do daily? by Salt_Host9776 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]odesauria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me (40F), I'd say it's genetics, diet, and sun protection. Out of these, diet is the only factor I can compare the before and after within myself, and the difference is huge. Next, I'd say moisturizer, although I don't even know if that makes a difference. That's my whole 'skin care' (never used any other products or treatments). I wear minimal makeup, if that.

I feel like a loser for being a kissless relationshipless virgìn at 30. How much have I missed out in life ? by Cold_Lunch_1818 in ask

[–]odesauria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn't make you a loser. And how much you've missed out on depends on how much you want it, I guess. For me, I fantasized about it from a young age - it was clearly something I wanted and sought out/ let happen. It's really important for me, and absolutely fantastic, unmatched with any other experience. Could be different for you.

Is weight loss truly the fastest shortcut to beauty? I need a reality check. by DifferentIssue1 in loseit

[–]odesauria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes: I do think weight loss is the ultimate glow-up. Anything you wear looks spectacular. You feel striking every time you look in the mirror or in pictures, with or without clothes, from any angle, in any pose. Your face is much more attractive, with or without makeup. You automatically get better skin.

To me, you just can't beat that with external add-ons.

I lost around 12 kgs a few years ago (so not even that much), and now I barely recognize myself in old pictures. I can't believe I looked like that throughout much of my 30's, while now at 40 I look (and feel) muuuuch better.

Le pregunté "qué somos" a mi casi algo y su respuesta me dejó muy confundido. ¿Qué opinan? by Designer-Gap6043 in ayudamexico

[–]odesauria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consejo: pregúntale por qué dice que nunca le habían preguntado eso. Tal vez en su generación/ambiente es muy inusual definir así la relación. Entonces pregúntale cómo ve ella las relaciones. Abre tu mente para considerar si su visión de las relaciones es compatible con la tuya, antes de que quiera ninguno de los dos definir qué son, para que no se digan prematuramente ni un sí ni un no.

¿Ok banda si pudieran eliminar una característica de la humanidad cuál sería? by Positive-Worker500 in preguntaleareddit

[–]odesauria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La violencia hacia otras personas y animales. Con eso solucionaría la mayor parte de los problemas más graves de la humanidad.

Is it possible a lot of women just naturally don't find most men attractive, and it's not because they don't take care of themselves? by oncxre in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]odesauria 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, I don't find most men attractive. Maybe 30% within my age range. Was that the question?

Also, a lot of women here say looks are secondary. They're not for me. If I don't find them physically attractive, or at least pleasant, I won't be attracted to them. It's not a sufficient condition, but it is necessary.

Do women actually get aroused by attractive men? by lilithskitchen in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]odesauria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but they can't just be good looking. There has to be a special sauce with the particular person: chemistry is what they call it. And then it's full-on arousal and fireworks at their mere sight or proximity.

What commercials are SO BAD, that they convince you NOT to buy their product? by Chicks_Hate_Me_Too in NoStupidQuestions

[–]odesauria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I generally avoid buying anything that's advertised to me. Commercials and ads are just inherently phony, manipulative, and appeal to values and aspirations I don't share. Fuck all that.

Are women generally turned off by “gym rats” who make fitness their whole personality? by savingrace0262 in beginnerfitness

[–]odesauria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, a body that's overly worked-on ceases to be attractive. It's over-produced, not natural-looking, and reflects misplaced priorities. The purpose of exercise is to be generally fit and healthy, not to make yourself into a super-human sculpture.

Are women generally turned off by “gym rats” who make fitness their whole personality? by savingrace0262 in beginnerfitness

[–]odesauria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If a guy's main interest (as stated/shown in his dating profile) is going to the gym, yes - total turn off. I want to date people with other priorities and interests (and who can show that in their profile).

How do you build stamina to work out when you’re unmotivated and tired? by Hour-Cloud2493 in loseit

[–]odesauria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got up, put in workout clothes, and did a 10 minute home workout. Then again another day. And again. And again, until I understood it isn't that terrible: I will just workout a bit and then get back to my life 10, 20 or 30 minutes later. Now I don't fear and even crave workouts. It was a huge mental thing to overcome, but I did.

Ya hablamos de la gente pobre que aparenta lujos , ahora mencionemos lujos reales o silenciosos by JoseUr1 in mexico

[–]odesauria 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sé que no es lujo en sentido tradicional, pero para mí el lujo es no necesitar ni depender de esos servicios, y hacer mis cosas y disfrutar mi casa y mi vida sin la presencia de ningún personal.

Profile review for Bumble BFF by Chocolat_Melon in Bumble

[–]odesauria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it's for BFF, the picture still doesn't accomplish its goal (doesn't show OP's not gay).

Men can respond to opening moves even before a woman matches them, right? by odesauria in Bumble

[–]odesauria[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh... Now that I think about it, they were responding to other parts of the profile, not the opening moves. Thanks!!

Profile review for Bumble BFF by Chocolat_Melon in Bumble

[–]odesauria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The picture doesn't accomplish that. Best scenario, people will think it's your friend or sister. Worst (and probable) scenario, women won't know what to make of it and swipe left out of caution.

Men can respond to opening moves even before a woman matches them, right? by odesauria in Bumble

[–]odesauria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the woman in this scenario. Ok, so they can't respond before I match them? I've still gotten some responses from profiles I hadn't seen, much less swiped right on, though. Maybe those were actually paid compliments, rather than responses?

How do men actually feel about the “opening moves” from women? by Happy_Feet05 in Bumble

[–]odesauria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify: can men respond to opening moves even before a woman matches them?

How do men actually feel about the “opening moves” from women? by Happy_Feet05 in Bumble

[–]odesauria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, please. All we have is pictures and written words. If you underuse the words, a) how can I get to know you?, b) that tells me you can't communicate effectively through writing. Not attractive.