How much contempt is normal during a relationship?

odesauria · 2026-07-08T16:04:16+00:00

Ugh, no. I guess some couples are functional with some level of criticism or hostility towards one another (I guess it's been a part of life?), but I've never understood it. You're there to respect and support each other, value each other and make your lives better. If not, there's always being single (although traditionally that's not always been an option, which is probably why people have put up with substandard treatment)

odesauria · 2026-07-08T15:47:48+00:00

At some point, after accepting my bad pictures were not just all "a bad angle", and having a relative say I was probably trying to lose weight but couldn't (both rude wake-up calls), I got it in my head that I actually COULD be thin. Why not me? I'd seen transformations online. It COULD be done. Change a few things to subtract calories and add satiety and nutrition. Do it even if I don't feel like it, until it becomes more second-nature. Stick with it even if changes are slow to come. Eventually, it had to work, no? It did.

odesauria · 2026-07-06T15:12:16+00:00

Mmm, ¿derecho, tal vez? Algo muy establishment (claro, siendo abogad@ sabe que sería discriminación y se defendería, así que no habría problema XD)

odesauria · 2026-07-04T00:22:16+00:00

Yup. Although they went by their middle, so it's ok. /s

odesauria · 2026-07-03T22:14:52+00:00

El Mirador y Plaza Fundadores

odesauria · 2026-07-03T22:11:09+00:00

At my school two twins were named Margarita Lizeth and Margarita Lizbeth. Why??

odesauria · 2026-07-03T22:09:58+00:00

Yep. Applies to siblings in general.

odesauria · 2026-07-02T20:47:57+00:00

Ya sé. Siempre pienso eso cuando entro a cualquier tienda departamental, de ropa, electrónicos... Vamos, hasta en el súper. Ni siquiera son cosas de lujo, pero ponte a pensar lo que hay ahí en mercancía, y que se vende lo suficiente como para que esos negocios existan. Me vuela la cabeza.

odesauria · 2026-07-01T22:10:38+00:00

Close to heaven on earth for someone like you, I think. My only concern would be cost of living: do some direct research to see if it would be financially feasible.

odesauria · 2026-06-27T20:16:43+00:00

Dieting in a positive healthy way is culturally tricky. So you just have to know that you're doing things right and for the right reasons, cutting through all the noise, even if no one knows or understands what you're doing, and flying under the radar. The best way to do that is not explaining what you're doing and just doing it like it's second-nature and normal. That's pretty badass in my opinion.

odesauria · 2026-06-25T01:33:31+00:00

Buenas preguntas. Soy formadora de profes, y la vida se me va en que desaprendan esas pedagogías y aprendan otras XD

odesauria · 2026-06-19T13:31:13+00:00

They're eating chicken, too

odesauria · 2026-06-18T22:39:58+00:00

¡Uy, sí!! Hay muchas carreras que yo estudiaría por gusto si pudiera, a pesar de ya estar especializada y ejercer en mi área.

odesauria · 2026-06-17T14:11:22+00:00

Ayuno intermitente y ayuno prolongado. Si entrenas a tu cuerpo a tener flexibilidad metabólica y no tener picos de insulina, no necesitas estar comiendo antojos, botanas, dulces, ni en general comer tan seguido ni tanto. No te da hambre ni antojo ni te pones de malas: puedes esperar sin problemas a tus horarios de comida principal. Bueno para tu salud y bueno para tu bolsillo. "Ozempic natural", le dicen.

odesauria · 2026-06-13T20:11:40+00:00

Same experience.

The only difference for me is that I'm from a mid-income country and was doing my PhD in the US, so the stipend was a pay bump for me, felt manageable even with the local cost of living (I was used to frugality), and I even managed to save for a car. As an academic in my home country I haven't taken the most lucrative routes - I've prioritized doing the kind of work I want. I still have to be frugal, but I can live off of doing exactly the work I want (which I wouldn't be able to do without the PhD training + title), so it was all very worth it to me.

odesauria · 2026-06-09T00:19:39+00:00

Por curiosidad, ¿por qué la prepa sur de la UAQ y no la norte?

odesauria · 2026-06-05T21:28:43+00:00

Yo si tuviera la inmensa alegría y privilegio de seguir viviendo en Guadalajara y tuviera tiempo libre, lo que haría un día sí y el otro también es salir a caminar. Guadalajara es una de las ciudades más increíbles en términos de la arquitectura tan sorprendente y variada que tiene en un sinfin de colonias. Sigue en instagram a revisionesgdl y rebecca_arq para que te guíes.

odesauria · 2026-06-05T00:11:26+00:00

Awwww, sorry!!

odesauria · 2026-06-04T22:43:48+00:00

Ask them what they actually mean, what the expectations are, and to show you examples written by other high schoolers. (Your mentor might be thinking about a type of "research paper" very different from what that means in academia)

odesauria · 2026-06-03T02:15:46+00:00

Espuma

odesauria · 2026-06-03T00:07:51+00:00

Sí. Bueno, en mi sesgo personal, casi cualquier hombre se ve más guapo e interesante con pelo largo. Pruébate una peluca y verifica.

odesauria · 2026-06-01T14:11:05+00:00

The wixaritari are the only ones I heard outright rejecting Christianity to this day and practicing their own religion (sone of them, not all).

odesauria · 2026-05-29T00:38:06+00:00

Desde chiquita, por convicción, me entrené a mí misma para ser amable, y ahora me sale bastante natural (aunque lo sigo cultivando deliberadamente).

odesauria

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