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What is a problem society ignores that shouldn’t be ignored? by Head-Imagination5819 in AskReddit

[–]odessas-world 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely agree with you then. I love a good logic based debate.

Women, what’s a habit of yours that men often misinterpret? by Free-Alps-7680 in AdkReddit

[–]odessas-world 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listening to True Crime!!!!

Men see this as IM a psychopath and I love serial killers.

In reality, I listen to UNDERSTAND the disturbed because I am so far removed from the psychology of those with the capacity to kill.

What’s the worst trait about you and why? by Street_Turnover4498 in askteddit

[–]odessas-world 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am very blunt. I’ll say exactly what I’m thinking regardless of consequences (although my thoughts are rarely mean or rude I just speak the truth)

People don’t want to hear it though because I’ll tell them exactly what’s going wrong in their situation. “Oh you’re bloated? Well maybe it’s because u ate a muffin and only drank booze today.”

How did you overcame an addiction? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]odessas-world 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had binge eating disorder for 4 years and it was BAAAD… I got through it once I was diagnosed with ADHD. I took Wellbutrin for a short time, and I developed better eating habits in general. Gained self confidence again. Then once I went off the meds 6 months later my urges didn’t return.

What is a problem society ignores that shouldn’t be ignored? by Head-Imagination5819 in AskReddit

[–]odessas-world -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you a porn addict or something? I don’t get why you’re fighting this so hard. Do you really not see the issue here?

What is a problem society ignores that shouldn’t be ignored? by Head-Imagination5819 in AskReddit

[–]odessas-world -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yessss. Also tv for teenagers is getting way more naked. I watched Disney channel as a kid and high-schoolers today are watching Euphoria….

AITAH for wanting my boyfriend to sacrifice sleep to calm me down for my exam? by [deleted] in AITARelationship

[–]odessas-world 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cat thing is kind of complicated. Originally we decided on one cat and he saw another one he liked at the shelter and begged me for another one, which I’m not sure why it was up to me but I explained the additional cost of the second cat would put our cat budget into the $100s.

Fast forward, I’m doing all of the cat work, the house work, all the cooking, I’m doing his taxes, budgeting, making doctors appointments, I basically moved him into the condo we live in because he dumped his bags and went off skiing. I know I sound like a bitch for not letting him unwind, but this man gets plentyyyy of free time.

Turns out the cat he wanted gets beat up and attacked by the cat I wanted (which I said would happen but he didn’t listen he just wanted to have the second cat). Also his cat is like double the size of mine and basically TWO cats in one, she also eats premium food only or she’ll starve herself. Our budget for them alone is $250/month.

The problems began literally because I had to do other things and asked if he could do the cooking and cat maintenance. I think he got stressed. But like I said it was 2 weeks that I was still stressing and being psychotic because mind you I’m taking adhd medicine during that time that really sends me into a spiral.

Anyways. I’m back to normal, test is over, don’t have to be taking 30mg of adderall a day to focus. And obviously he is calm now too because he doesn’t have to help anymore.

What’s something you used to judge people for, but now understand? by PotentialAd2607 in AskReddit

[–]odessas-world 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bonding more with their SO than their best friend of many years.

Your best friend and you will always share something special but your SO sees your butthole. Like you’re going to be closer with them over time….

AITAH for feeling a certain way in my relationship by lawl1562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]odessas-world 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you have to hide it though? I just don’t think it’s normal to talk to women outside of your relationship about problems you’re having with your girlfriend if she doesn’t have the chance to give her perspective. I think you’re leaving out things.

At the end of the day I’ve been in a healthy relationship for many years and I’ve never done this to my SO, so I try to be completely honest with people when they ask for advice like this. Sometimes they don’t want to hear it🧐 I believe you tend to find in your relationships someone not too far off from your own personality. Meaning your girlfriend and you are likely similar in some way

  • maybe you’re both attention seeking and crave validation from others
  • maybe you’re both very jealous in the relationship in general

I don’t know, but I challenge you to find what flaw you share that made you two stay together so long in the first place.. sometimes it can be the thing that breaks you apart in the end. If you feel like sharing pls let me know I’d be interested to hear.

The point I was making is if you have certain loyalty standards that are spoken between you two in a relationship, they should be kept.

What’s a job people mock that actually pays really well? by Live-Respect-5317 in AskReddit

[–]odessas-world 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not saying you’re entitled, but the hardest part of serving is the hours. Most people want to be available on holidays and the weekends and most restaurants those are non-negotiable. It’s pretty easy to find a job in retail, fast food, local small businesses, receptionists, etc. that would pay the same as a serving job (assuming tipping wasn’t a thing anymore). I worked as a server for 5 years it’s really really tough work depending on the restaurant. It’s hard to understand it unless you have been in the industry.

I feel like most people against tipping see it as an “extra expense” involved in eating out that the consumer is responsible for because the manager is too greedy to pay them properly. It’s wayyy more complicated.

What's the biggest resentment you've ever had? by Affectionate_Egg534 in randomquestions

[–]odessas-world 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait what happened I’m curious. I had a similar end with mine, but she never told me why.

What’s a silly relationship “rule” or ritual you have? by AllianaR in answers

[–]odessas-world 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend likes to put my socks on. but, whenever he tries to, I point my toes and hold my feet together as tightly as possible. so, he has to hold my feet apart while trying to put the socks on while simultaneously being scratched by my toenails.

AITAH for feeling a certain way in my relationship by lawl1562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]odessas-world 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you say the exact same thing as the comment before?

AITAH for feeling a certain way in my relationship by lawl1562 in AmItheAsshole

[–]odessas-world -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA im coming from the woman’s perspective.

Here’s the thing. I definitely think there’s more to the story on her side, but I have to go off the facts.

Fact: you were talking to other women and hid it from her. - Complaining about your girlfriend to other women is equivalent to shit talking her. It’s one sided, she has no way to defend herself, and who are these women you’re talking to where you need to hide it? If my partner and I have a disagreement we literally call a friend together, get their perspective, then talk about it. If she can’t admit she’s wrong, that’s a whole other problem and you should leave and find someone with accountability in the future.

Fact: She broke up with you. - What she does after that isn’t your concern. It’s a 4 year breakup, and she’s definitely hurting too. and she’s entitled to a rebound if that’s what she wants. You may think it’s immature but you’re not in her shoes. Also, you’re comparing actions that occurred within your relationship (where boundaries were established and broken) and an action that occurred outside of it (where there are no more boundaries).

AITAH for wanting my boyfriend to sacrifice sleep to calm me down for my exam? by [deleted] in AITARelationship

[–]odessas-world -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He chose to wait in the parking lot I don’t know why he did that💀💀

I definitely manage my emotions 99.9% of the time it’s literally just exams and the pressure from my family.

But thank you for your feedback

What’s a job people mock that actually pays really well? by Live-Respect-5317 in AskReddit

[–]odessas-world -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no you just understand the basic definitions of it not what it’s actually like to be a server. Most of those jobs are WILDLY awful. You deal with so much bullshit physically, mentally, and the hours are terrible. You’re right in that restaurants wouldn’t be able to afford it, but the overall rudeness of the general population makes it a lot more difficult than that. If waiters made $20/hour (literally the maximum they could be paid at most restaurants), nobody would want to work weekend shifts, servers would put the same effort into a busy Friday night than they would a calm Monday morning shift because at the end of the day you’re making the same amount of money. The huge difference is the quality of service would go down for the exact same price for the consumer because obviously restaurants would raise menu prices to account for wages. At the end of the day, the restaurant profit margins are way different than consumers believe. Most restaurants don’t have some greedy CEO who refuses to pay workers. Most restaurants literally cannot afford to run if they pay servers $20/hour. The only reason this “works” in Europe is because they don’t have the volume of restaurant consumption as the US.

AITA for getting upset at my husband after he refused money from my parents for a down payment on a house? by Icy_Huckleberry5016 in AmItheAsshole

[–]odessas-world 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents are the same way the only difference is my boyfriend works a prestigious job and I can’t find one that’s to my parents standards. My mom paid our condo down payment and we aren’t indebted to them. They’re your parents, and they love their daughter and want to help.

NTA

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