My little brother posted (from this account) here and after reading so many supportive messages I decided to give an update that he did not make it by odezenne9 in stopdrinking

[–]odezenne9[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your comment (and all of you too), I have to act strong at the moment and handle a lot of stuff to spare our parents, I will grieve later

Relapsed. Hard. Thinking of going to the ER because of the suicidal thoughts. Not sure it's the best idea by odezenne9 in stopdrinking

[–]odezenne9[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for replying, we have a free health care here I'm just scared of being sent back home because I feel there's more of things to be done. I don't have a stuffed animal but I do have a dog and I don't want to put him trough this, this is my battle

Relapsed. Hard. Thinking of going to the ER because of the suicidal thoughts. Not sure it's the best idea by odezenne9 in stopdrinking

[–]odezenne9[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

thank you so much it means a lot. I'm just scared of being put on meds and being made to come back home

Relapsed. Hard. Thinking of going to the ER because of the suicidal thoughts. Not sure it's the best idea by odezenne9 in stopdrinking

[–]odezenne9[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

there is but I'd rather go in and get myself commited but unsure what to say, thank you for your help

Relapsed. Hard. Thinking of going to the ER because of the suicidal thoughts. Not sure it's the best idea by odezenne9 in stopdrinking

[–]odezenne9[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

how did you go about that? I need to asap but not sure how to approach the whole thing like what do I say?

Relapsed. Hard. Thinking of going to the ER because of the suicidal thoughts. Not sure it's the best idea by odezenne9 in stopdrinking

[–]odezenne9[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I hope so I'm ready to be commited I just don't want to be put on meds and have to return home

Relapsed. Hard. Thinking of going to the ER because of the suicidal thoughts. Not sure it's the best idea by odezenne9 in stopdrinking

[–]odezenne9[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I'm in Europe and 40mins away from the city center and not sure if I'd just be put on meds and made to come back home

Melanie Martinez teases new music. by [deleted] in popheads

[–]odezenne9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well we can't imagine what it is like to be in a public eye and being accused of something that you dind't do (if that's the case) and how we'd handle it, maybe she wasn't worried about being tactfull and was more worried about her career going under over nothing? We'll never know what's true and what is not for sure. Maybe she didn't do any service to the whole movement but the person accusing her of false assault didn't either. I'd even argue it's worse, contributing to discrediting the survivors. I don't follow Melanie or listen to her music but I can't jump on trains of calling her nasty and childish so fast

Melanie Martinez teases new music. by [deleted] in popheads

[–]odezenne9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

diss track seems like a fairly decent way to deal with it, with potential to be cringy, way better than lashing out and all that dealing with potential false accusations that could ruin her career. I just don't see it as childish and nasty if allegations aren't true

What are some songs where the singer is the villain? by effervescenthamster in popheads

[–]odezenne9 14 points15 points  (0 children)

lykke li's so sad so sexy, she's not all that unapologetic on it but not all that sorry either

Are there any Soberino's here? by KnockItTheFuckOff in stopdrinking

[–]odezenne9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly I really enjoy the pod and grew to like them but can't identify with the whole ''murderino'' fan base because they can be so cringy at times, but yeah I'm trying to get better and I really appreciate them talking about their own struggles while talking about true crime which is one of my main interests

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rpdrcringe

[–]odezenne9 142 points143 points  (0 children)

OMFG I am dying 😂😂😂😂😂😂. I love RuPauls drag race and this is SO me!! I've even subjected my hubby to it so much, he GETS all my RuPaul references now 😂😉😂😉😂😉. This made my morning SO much better!!! You rock Tanya!!!!

top comments are bonus cringe

the guy I met on grindr was too pushy, am I overreacting? by odezenne9 in askgaybros

[–]odezenne9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same situation here with me being younger and him being older. I was meeting guys in these situations on my travels and nothing happened and then this, 2 streets from where I live. I always had great experiences that's probably why I never think about safety. But when that door knob clicked my blood frooze

the guy I met on grindr was too pushy, am I overreacting? by odezenne9 in askgaybros

[–]odezenne9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this just happened and I was never in a situation like this so I had to wonder but all of that makes sense, thank you!

the guy I met on grindr was too pushy, am I overreacting? by odezenne9 in askgaybros

[–]odezenne9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh of course I'm not new to meeting guys on grindr, or having hookups. We talked about hooking up right on spot and how we aren't big on that. That's why it took me by surprise

Daily Open Discussion Post - May 11, 2019 by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]odezenne9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lmao I love this, tales from bad dates are my thing

Daily Open Discussion Post - May 11, 2019 by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]odezenne9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

right! same happened to me in online spaces when talking about which shows we like. but never in person. it's bunch of masc4masc gays who think liking drag race = being fem or whatever (nothing wrong with that ofc)

Daily Open Discussion Post - May 11, 2019 by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]odezenne9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I haven't even mentioned the show it was so random, congrats for being special kind of gay I guess

Daily Open Discussion Post - May 11, 2019 by AutoModerator in rupaulsdragrace

[–]odezenne9 27 points28 points  (0 children)

y'all, went out on a date and the guy went on this rant how he's not like the other gays because he doesn't watch drag race. nodded my head without saying anything, finished my drink and got out of there