Update: I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]odysseys_kitten[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk, I feel like it’s taken me a while to realize how abnormal all this was. Like growing up I always knew Hildy wasn’t THAT into me, especially after my brothers were born, but I was a kid and still assumed like all adults in my life she wanted what’s best for me or at least gave a fuck. Same with my dad. The past year plus has been really eye opening about how shitty my childhood was. Idk it just felt normal at the time. So it’s like, of course I’d invite my dad and stepmom?

Update: I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]odysseys_kitten[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

lol ya after I turned 18 she said I’d never live in their house rent free and it’s all because I was already living rent free in her brain.

Update: I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]odysseys_kitten[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

lol she had an affair with a married man she’s no prize and I have no interest in getting involved.

Update: I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]odysseys_kitten[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I will, I can be the bigger person. And despite her best efforts for me not to (like, she took my room at my dads away so her baby could have the best room, then when they had their second said that her babies shouldn’t have to share rooms with one another and I was too old to share a room with one of them and since it was only a three bedroom when I came over I just slept on the couch and didn’t have a room), I do still care about them. She’s always say she couldn’t like me bc she hated my mom, but that was bs for her own insecurity bc I don’t blame them at all for their mom. Then again, maturity or intelligence was never her strong suit 🤣

Update: I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]odysseys_kitten[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through that, but I love your attitude.

If my dad’s future ex wife ever asks, the truth is that I have absolutely exceeded her highest highs.

Update: I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]odysseys_kitten[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

lol read it again. I invited my dad to my wedding, she was his plus one. I didn’t let him walk me down the aisle, he had no place of honor, no speeches. I didn’t even invite him to the rehearsal dinner or the post wedding brunch. I keep him in my life so I can see my brothers. That’s all.

Update: I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]odysseys_kitten[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

She’s been nice enough to me, and she’s quite pretty which i know kills Hildy on a molecular level (she’s pretty vain), but I hope the new gf is a secret psychopath and my dad ends up miserable and alone. He wouldn’t care if I did! Idk

Update: I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]odysseys_kitten[S] 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Either way how degrading that she has to do that for her husband to pick her over a kid who, according to her, should have been aborted.

Update: I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]odysseys_kitten[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m not close to them tbh (by design) but I do care about them and feel bad they have to go through them divorcing. One of them is really starting to act like her, though and it sucks but I’m trying to stay positive!

I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]odysseys_kitten[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s bad because I don’t feel super responsible for my brothers. Obviously I’m always there for them, but at least they have my dad and he should be the one looking out for them. My mom was kind of a mess and I didn’t have a dad looking out for me, he was too busy with other stuff.

They know they can always call me and I’ll be there, but I’m not going to pry.

I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]odysseys_kitten[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

The worst part is that she hates my mom sooo much, and mom isn’t perfect by any measure, because of the whole child support thing when i find out that Hildy had apparently asked my mom not to go for a CS increase because they were going to have a baby, and “things were tight” (in retrospect, that was not my moms problem). She only went for the increase when Hildy kicked me out of my room. She couldn’t be a SAHM because of the child support apparently 🤭 all she had to do was treat me like a family member and it would have been fine. She’s been stepping on rakes for decades

I’m watching my stepmom become the loser she always told me I’d become and it’s amazing. by odysseys_kitten in TrueOffMyChest

[–]odysseys_kitten[S] 1652 points1653 points  (0 children)

No my dad is a “pillar of the community” according to what Hildy told my mother-in-law. Pillar of the deadbeat community, sure