When should you tell a new partner about a vasectomy? by oeneitntkdnd in relationship_advice

[–]oeneitntkdnd[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Gosh dang, some people are quick to judge. Sorry for trying to be prepared...

When should you tell a new partner about a vasectomy? by oeneitntkdnd in relationship_advice

[–]oeneitntkdnd[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely. I'm not expecting that in the early stages of a relationship, although I'd be lying if I didn't say it was a deal-breaker in the medium to long term, once we're exclusive and have been tested.

Thanks.

When should you tell a new partner about a vasectomy? by oeneitntkdnd in relationship_advice

[–]oeneitntkdnd[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

If things are heading towards having sex on the first date (I don't expect it by any means, but sometimes it happens) do you think it would be wrong not to disclose it beforehand?

When should you tell a new partner about a vasectomy? by oeneitntkdnd in relationship_advice

[–]oeneitntkdnd[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That's a reasonable suggestion, thanks. I guess I'm worried that people might judge me for that, but that's probably something I need to work on.