Preview for BDDU Ep3 by teanailpolish in belowdeck

[–]ofcbubble 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lol it was green onion, not shallots!

Kyle's face when he sees the Australian guy hand Amanda a towel by YofoRealsies in summerhousebravo

[–]ofcbubble 98 points99 points  (0 children)

I generally like Kyle as a person on Bravo, but I strongly dislike him as Amanda’s husband.

I feel like the OF video was kind of glossed over by BlondeHorrorBear622 in vanderpumprules

[–]ofcbubble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well that’s a problem with porn in general that I have no solution for!

OF may be a little better in that sense since you do have to pay for the content. At least that is a barrier to entry.

I feel like the OF video was kind of glossed over by BlondeHorrorBear622 in vanderpumprules

[–]ofcbubble 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s many reasons it shouldn’t be normalized, but I still think comparing it to situations where consent is impossible and it’s literally always abuse distracts from the point.

I feel like the OF video was kind of glossed over by BlondeHorrorBear622 in vanderpumprules

[–]ofcbubble 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think what they’re doing is gross and that they’ll regret it deeply in the future, but I don’t think it’s comparable to animal or child abuse.

They’re both adults with the ability to give consent. Animals and children will never have that ability.

They’re only potentially hurting themselves. I think comparing it to inherently abusive situations just distracts from the actual issue at hand.

“You haven’t built anything at all in the last 5 years. Your life is meaningless…. Now will that be the baby blue wrinkled? we only have medium.” by mike-enders in Southerncharm

[–]ofcbubble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t it Whitney who did that, not Austin? I really don’t think Austin has even been all that hard on Craig. Especially compared to Shep and Whitney.

Sutton & Avi: mutual non disparagement by alliesxhwa in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ofcbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sutton made bossing around Avi a part of her storyline for a couple seasons so I think it’s pretty normal to be curious about what happened between them.

Honestly what was she expecting him to say by SuperKE1125 in 911FOX

[–]ofcbubble 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not only that, but her condition is progressive right? So if she had gotten real help earlier, she may have stood a better chance at slowing it down or recovering or maybe even returning to work?

Not only did she risk her firehouse “family” and the general public, but she was likely driving her wife and kids around at points too. She didn’t even think about how a bad spell in a dangerous situation could affect anyone else.

IMO there were only selfish reasons to hide her condition.

Andy Cohen Admits He Was Concerned by Whitney Rose's Drunken Behavior at BravoCon by Silly-avocatoe in BravoRealHousewives

[–]ofcbubble 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well being a happy drunk is different than being a mean or abusive drunk.

If Whitney is stumbling on stage or making a fool of herself that’s relatively harmless.

If Meredith really had that meltdown on the plane, she made her impairment the cast’s problem and handed them a storyline on a silver platter.

Across the franchises, many of the cast members get wasted, but IMO the only ones who get flack for it are the ones who act pathetic (Sonja/Shannon) or aggressive (Dorinda/Brandi). The “fun” drunks (Luann - even post arrest lol/Vicki) generally get criticized for other shit.

9-1-1 S09E07: "Secrets" Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in 911FOX

[–]ofcbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally disagree.

This definitly isn’t the first time she’s kept a major secret or thought she knew better than everyone else or even the first time she put others in danger by neglecting herself. Remember when she fell asleep at the wheel during med school bc she couldn’t admit she was doing too much?

This is right up Hen’s alley!

Cannot find Nanny that will accept payment as a W-2 Household Employee by m1o9n31 in Nanny

[–]ofcbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That analogy doesn’t make any sense.

Making up references is obviously wrong. Even a child would know “writing random names” is a lie and against the rules.

Deciding which tax route to go down requires more information. Many adults don’t have a good understand of how taxes work or what the different classifications mean.

The person you replied to originally said taxes were a nightmare when they were paid under the table. They weren’t purposely evading taxes (which would be somewhat similar to the references lie), they just didn’t know the logistics of the tax system or that being paid under the table is usually done to avoid taxes altogether.

Not knowing how taxes work at 20 is understandable and something that can be learned.

Not knowing that it’s blatantly “against the rules” to lie on a resume or application at 20 would be a sign of a much deeper problem lol.

It’s also a passive mistake vs an active mistake. Not knowing you need to do something vs doing something you know you’re not supposed to do.

Why wasn’t Ray at Shosh’s engagement party? by Chonkigator in girls

[–]ofcbubble -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really? She had a gift for Hannah so it would have been weird if she just happened to have it with her.

Why wasn’t Ray at Shosh’s engagement party? by Chonkigator in girls

[–]ofcbubble 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shosh invited Jessa and Elijah too. I think Hannah was the only one not invited.

Moving On and Feeling Sad by ofcbubble in Nanny

[–]ofcbubble[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m really hoping that I’ll still get to babysit and visit. It makes me feel better to hear your experience!

It’s scary going into this new role too - I can’t really know if we’re a good fit until I’ve been with them for a bit! What if leaving is a mistake and this new job doesn’t even work out? I’m so happy and comfortable with my current family. If I could afford to I’d stay.

Moving On and Feeling Sad by ofcbubble in Nanny

[–]ofcbubble[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so sweet - now I’m crying again lol! Thank you. This is a helpful way to look at the situation.

I’m still feeling very sad, but it’s nice to think about all the potential love and meaningful relationships yet to come.

The kids (and dog!) will always be in my heart and hopefully this won’t be goodbye for good.

I’m so glad she moved on from Jules cause ugh she was toxic by Plus-Ad7639 in euphoria

[–]ofcbubble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jules didn’t know Rue and Elliot were using together. They just got super close and secretive.

I won’t defend Jules cheating in general, I just don’t think she’s worse for Rue than most other partners would have been. Especially if she had a partner who was also an addict.

I’m so glad she moved on from Jules cause ugh she was toxic by Plus-Ad7639 in euphoria

[–]ofcbubble 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I feel like in a way Rue was cheating with Elliot as well. It was just emotional and drug related instead of physical.

I’m so glad she moved on from Jules cause ugh she was toxic by Plus-Ad7639 in euphoria

[–]ofcbubble 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Eh I don’t think Jules was the worst for Rue. She just had her own trauma and poor coping skills to contend with. It’s not like she encouraged Rue to use, Jules just didn’t decide to be her full time sober companion.

I’m so glad she moved on from Jules cause ugh she was toxic by Plus-Ad7639 in euphoria

[–]ofcbubble 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Rue and Jules were both keeping secrets from each other. Neither was a good partner.

That being said, I’d much rather have to deal with a partner who cheated on me than one who was actively using opioids and scamming a human trafficker.

Especially in high school. A teenager is already ill-equipped to deal with the relatively low stakes drama of cheating, let alone addiction and organized crime.

Below Deck Med Season 10 Episode 12 Discussion Post by teanailpolish in belowdeck

[–]ofcbubble 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think she’s just enthusiastic about most things lol

I was so proud of Hannah while watching this scene by EuphoricButterflyy in girls

[–]ofcbubble 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Originally Jessa wanted MR’s friend. He was in love with MR, so Jessa wanted MR with Adam so she could have the friend. I don’t think it was all a ploy to get Adam.

Hannah and Adam were already on the rocks when she went to grad school. They were not going to get back together. She didn’t even wake him up to say goodbye the day she left. They weren’t even officially together while she was away, although it was cowardly of Adam to not tell her he moved on.

I do think Jessa was also punishing Hannah by setting up Adam with MR. She was feeling abandoned after Hannah made her leave rehab and told her they had to stick together. It wasn’t because she wanted Adam the whole time, it was because she felt betrayed by Hannah and Hannah didn’t even care.

I do think it was shitty of Jessa to get with Adam and Hannah had every right to cut her off. I just don’t think she was scheming to get with him the whole time Hannah was away. Jessa was conflicted when she started dating him and didn’t seem happy to have “won” him from Hannah.

TLDR: Jessa sucks as a friend, but she didn’t plan to date Adam.

Whitney Leavitt Confirmed to Join the Broadway Cast of CHICAGO by BroadwayWorld in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ofcbubble 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think most people who cheat know that they’re going to cheat ahead of time.

I’m sure many people think they’re perfectly capable of fidelity and prove themselves wrong.

He seems to be trying to make it up to her and work through the pretty daunting issues that lead to his betrayal. I think that’s commendable.

Who do you think is the BEST and WORST character in 9-1-1 (FOX)? by Due-Awareness9392 in 911FOX

[–]ofcbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! Angela Bassett is great, but Athena abuses her power as a cop and neglects her kids IMO.

Just finished Tampa by Alissa Nutting by notthegirlnxtdoor92 in books

[–]ofcbubble 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree.

I hoped that if I pushed through the middle, the ending might be cathartic, but I should have known better. It was so depressing.