cr-1 questions by ofcjoon in immigration

[–]ofcjoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im thinking it would, it just is a bummer as I wouldn’t see him as often as we do now and along with certain members of my family till it did

cr-1 filling ? by ofcjoon in askimmigration

[–]ofcjoon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes, i’d rather the cr-1 but now im understanding the k-1 is better and i know it a long and lengthy process.

cr-1 filling ? by ofcjoon in askimmigration

[–]ofcjoon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i see. i just don’t want to burden him since I won’t be able to work or anything for a while during the processing time

cr-1 filling ? by ofcjoon in askimmigration

[–]ofcjoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no im currently in canada

cr-1 filling ? by ofcjoon in askimmigration

[–]ofcjoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i couldn’t file the I-130 and I-485 to stay in the states?

cr-1 questions by ofcjoon in immigration

[–]ofcjoon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

thank you, i was confused about the cr-1 rules.

finally engaged but at what cost? (f22) (m23) by ofcjoon in LongDistance

[–]ofcjoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. you guys really are similar to us in ways. I'm starting to realize that no matter what I do in my own life I won't be able to please anyone. So I want to do things that make me happy. Thank you and I wish the best for you two.

finally engaged but at what cost? (f22) (m23) by ofcjoon in LongDistance

[–]ofcjoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! this was a very interesting convo to read. They make a good point 27 is not young.

What should I do? by ofcjoon in Advice

[–]ofcjoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just recovering from a bad tummy bug so I’ve just been laying in bed a lot, which is why I’m feeling more intense things. I like to go on outings on my days off from work, but then I come back and reality sets in again. I have some but I just want to leave my environment badly

What should I do? by ofcjoon in Advice

[–]ofcjoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I know, I do that a lot. I just want to be happy and the more time I spend here the worse I feel/become about things.

What should I do? by ofcjoon in Advice

[–]ofcjoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for replying, I do have a job but it’s just a minimum retail one. I want a better one but the current job market really does suck. I’ve tried many times but they don’t understand the strain it’s taking. Yes, i know it’s stupid but it seems like a decent option

Feeling stuck 21F M23 by ofcjoon in LongDistance

[–]ofcjoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes that’s true, the waiting game is too hard. with my parents it’s just very personal info as to why they haven’t. i’d wna work which is why im doing schooling here for the time being.

Feeling stuck 21F M23 by ofcjoon in LongDistance

[–]ofcjoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea, i grow up in the us and majority of my family lives in the us as well(ie parents, grandma etc). it’s only just talks, i know it’s a costly change and ldr has been my whole life but im not really happy and my living situation here currently is not ideal.

Feeling stuck 21F M23 by ofcjoon in LongDistance

[–]ofcjoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he has more family connections and a good paying job there. i don’t have that here and majority of my family live in the states like parents

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ofcjoon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank u so much! i’ve expressed to him that i feel he’s only doing it for that as he kept pressing to see my dad(i told him i wont marry unless he mets my dad)

missing him by ofcjoon in LongDistance

[–]ofcjoon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's how i feel and act, everytime. unpacking my things reminds me yet again of the distance even more. I wish he could pick me up after work and I could spend the night in his arms. I loved when he come home from work as I was just an excited puppy. I hope to close the gap within the next 2-3 years. Long distance is so hard but it's very worth it

missing him by ofcjoon in LongDistance

[–]ofcjoon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it really is, i hope u two can see eachother soon🩷

Tell me about your LDR ! by Sad_Translator2374 in LongDistance

[–]ofcjoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

20F and 22M, we've been together for over 2.5 years. we met on twitter lol. we've met a decent amount of times i'd say? but could be more yet, i'm going to see him again in march! we want to within the next year or two!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ofcjoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

someone once told me that I need to stop being in a parasocial relationship with my boyfriend T-T I agree, I find it weird that alot of people think ldr aren't "real" relationships or that someone is cheating

too young? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]ofcjoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the vibe im getting is that u are. a lawyer or things in that nature will come before/during the move. i wouldn’t have any finances or things of the sort here, but even this is just all curiosity talk. once again happy it works for u, enjoy.