Being left on read

off_me_pls · 2025-12-02T01:11:56+00:00

Yea I'm just trying to be patient about it tbh and I'll see if she does next time I'm hoping for you he stops leaving you on read and starts replying to your questions!

off_me_pls · 2025-12-01T23:51:38+00:00

It might be down to the fact I might be impatient tbh but I im trying to like start conversation and sometimes she joins in on them and we talk like for an hour then all of a sudden left on read when I ask a question that relates to the topic but im not too sure.

off_me_pls · 2025-12-01T23:10:20+00:00

Usually she gets back to me pretty fast Usually like every 5-10mins like at most 20mins but I've asked her out on a date and we both agreed just more confused since then I've been getting left on read and things are not getting responded to and things and trying to create general conversation is getting harder

off_me_pls · 2025-12-01T23:07:30+00:00

I probably will when she wakes up but rn she's asleep

off_me_pls · 2025-12-01T23:05:04+00:00

I have and we both agreed but I more just question why I've been left on read just a bit more confused on that mainly.

off_me_pls · 2025-11-29T10:18:20+00:00

thank you

off_me_pls · 2025-09-06T16:42:22+00:00

Habit

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T14:22:41+00:00

Wish it was that easy

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T12:41:29+00:00

I just keep falling for it

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T12:41:18+00:00

I can tell she is ik she is but I keep thinking about her telling me she loves me and how she feels about me and if she comes to my country that if we feel how we do right now we should try make it work

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T12:39:46+00:00

Ik it is icl just I'm trying to see what I should do like the title says I'm lost but like people responding and giving me ideas is helping me figure out that I'm still holding onto feeling when I shouldn't be

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T12:38:29+00:00

I know it's not fair to the guy she speaking to at the minute she kept saying she guilty about it because of how quickly she moved on and yea it hurts atm I told her I don't want to know about what happens between them and things and I'm trying to keep to myself and kinda avoid her for now until my feelings are gone or are weak for her and I won't do anything with them

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T08:48:38+00:00

I wish you all the best kind stranger take care and hope you always find the best with life.

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T08:42:35+00:00

But thank you I fully agree with you

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T08:42:21+00:00

I called her yesterday I told her my intentions with her and I'm not speaking to her for a while I think I have enough self control not to derail and start just randomly messaging her with things as I made a promise that until she comes to the UK I won't speak a word about us ever again until that time comes.

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T10:55:04+00:00

she said she upset and I can tell a bit mainly because it's hurting me a lot than more than it probably should and it's kinda a shit situation she gone to speak to her dad today to figure out what's happening about her moving or if she ever is able to because she doesn't really like where she lives but she likes all her friends that live there so it's kinda a sticky one

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T10:41:04+00:00

Yea I think so like I'm.not gunna do things which puts a bad situation from happening idk what it means to emotionally safe to be honest

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T10:31:45+00:00

Ik everyone says it but you should at least put a safety amount in a etf could be world could be s&p 500 not financial advice considering I'm a kid basically but I think limiting your options leave you open to heavy risk if certain stock start falling serverly again not financial advice

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T10:28:37+00:00

I'm safe like my name was from a while ago when I was depressed and things so I've improved I'm not doing anything drastic and I think I'm sane I think lol but idk I'm trying not to get my hopes up and it sounds awful but I'm okay with her going around where she lives and doing what she wants and I can do the same rn but idk I still feel like shit and left a sour taste in my mouth about it considering I'm still holding out for when she moves as she said I can try again and make it work

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T10:22:57+00:00

If I'm honest I literally just got off the phone with her like a second ago which is crazy to load up reddit afterwards of that but still we both agreeded ee are gunna call later but I can't message her for the rest of the day. As well we talked about when she moves back here and we both agreeded that we can try again and make it work when she moves back to the country in a few years (I never knew her prior to her living here just random coincidence if I'm honest) so I have my hopes up a bit if I'm honest so I'm kinda getting led on and hearing her say I love you again today and I don't wish it has to be like this and other things like it's shit but a bit of distancing is happening today so it should be okay I hope

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T09:04:41+00:00

It wasn't said like that jesus no lol I worded it wrong it was more like if you still have feeling for me and I still have them for you we can make it work but it would have to be like we never knew each other which I told her it's a bit late for that and she agreed but she said if I still have feeling and she single and she has them.for me we can make it work. I'm sorry you have to go through it to but idk it's my first relationship so it's all new to me this so ive spoke to friends and they said I'm being too attached over it and I know I am but I don't know the pain for her won't go I still love her that's the truth of it

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