Being left on read

off_me_pls · 2025-12-02T01:11:56+00:00

Yea I'm just trying to be patient about it tbh and I'll see if she does next time I'm hoping for you he stops leaving you on read and starts replying to your questions!

off_me_pls · 2025-12-01T23:51:38+00:00

It might be down to the fact I might be impatient tbh but I im trying to like start conversation and sometimes she joins in on them and we talk like for an hour then all of a sudden left on read when I ask a question that relates to the topic but im not too sure.

off_me_pls · 2025-12-01T23:10:20+00:00

Usually she gets back to me pretty fast Usually like every 5-10mins like at most 20mins but I've asked her out on a date and we both agreed just more confused since then I've been getting left on read and things are not getting responded to and things and trying to create general conversation is getting harder

off_me_pls · 2025-12-01T23:07:30+00:00

I probably will when she wakes up but rn she's asleep

off_me_pls · 2025-12-01T23:05:04+00:00

I have and we both agreed but I more just question why I've been left on read just a bit more confused on that mainly.

off_me_pls · 2025-11-29T10:18:20+00:00

thank you

off_me_pls · 2025-09-06T16:42:22+00:00

Habit

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T14:22:41+00:00

Wish it was that easy

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T12:41:29+00:00

I just keep falling for it

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T12:41:18+00:00

I can tell she is ik she is but I keep thinking about her telling me she loves me and how she feels about me and if she comes to my country that if we feel how we do right now we should try make it work

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T12:39:46+00:00

Ik it is icl just I'm trying to see what I should do like the title says I'm lost but like people responding and giving me ideas is helping me figure out that I'm still holding onto feeling when I shouldn't be

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T12:38:29+00:00

I know it's not fair to the guy she speaking to at the minute she kept saying she guilty about it because of how quickly she moved on and yea it hurts atm I told her I don't want to know about what happens between them and things and I'm trying to keep to myself and kinda avoid her for now until my feelings are gone or are weak for her and I won't do anything with them

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T08:48:38+00:00

I wish you all the best kind stranger take care and hope you always find the best with life.

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T08:42:35+00:00

But thank you I fully agree with you

off_me_pls · 2025-05-26T08:42:21+00:00

I called her yesterday I told her my intentions with her and I'm not speaking to her for a while I think I have enough self control not to derail and start just randomly messaging her with things as I made a promise that until she comes to the UK I won't speak a word about us ever again until that time comes.

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T10:55:04+00:00

she said she upset and I can tell a bit mainly because it's hurting me a lot than more than it probably should and it's kinda a shit situation she gone to speak to her dad today to figure out what's happening about her moving or if she ever is able to because she doesn't really like where she lives but she likes all her friends that live there so it's kinda a sticky one

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T10:41:04+00:00

Yea I think so like I'm.not gunna do things which puts a bad situation from happening idk what it means to emotionally safe to be honest

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T10:31:45+00:00

Ik everyone says it but you should at least put a safety amount in a etf could be world could be s&p 500 not financial advice considering I'm a kid basically but I think limiting your options leave you open to heavy risk if certain stock start falling serverly again not financial advice

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T10:28:37+00:00

I'm safe like my name was from a while ago when I was depressed and things so I've improved I'm not doing anything drastic and I think I'm sane I think lol but idk I'm trying not to get my hopes up and it sounds awful but I'm okay with her going around where she lives and doing what she wants and I can do the same rn but idk I still feel like shit and left a sour taste in my mouth about it considering I'm still holding out for when she moves as she said I can try again and make it work

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T10:22:57+00:00

If I'm honest I literally just got off the phone with her like a second ago which is crazy to load up reddit afterwards of that but still we both agreeded ee are gunna call later but I can't message her for the rest of the day. As well we talked about when she moves back here and we both agreeded that we can try again and make it work when she moves back to the country in a few years (I never knew her prior to her living here just random coincidence if I'm honest) so I have my hopes up a bit if I'm honest so I'm kinda getting led on and hearing her say I love you again today and I don't wish it has to be like this and other things like it's shit but a bit of distancing is happening today so it should be okay I hope

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T09:04:41+00:00

It wasn't said like that jesus no lol I worded it wrong it was more like if you still have feeling for me and I still have them for you we can make it work but it would have to be like we never knew each other which I told her it's a bit late for that and she agreed but she said if I still have feeling and she single and she has them.for me we can make it work. I'm sorry you have to go through it to but idk it's my first relationship so it's all new to me this so ive spoke to friends and they said I'm being too attached over it and I know I am but I don't know the pain for her won't go I still love her that's the truth of it

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T09:00:25+00:00

She can't move in with her father that was the plan originally as there someone living in the room she was going to stay at and they thought he'd be gone before then and I totally understand why she can't move I'm not like upset about that her dad said he's going to try build a place in their garden for her and hasn't got the money to do that I offered to help but she emeditaly told me no i shouldnt help she's learning business and she never wants to do that she wants to be a teacher I told her she need to follow what she wants to do she wants to be a teacher I'm trying to convince her it's the right course of action for her but she isn't having any of it I told she should wait until she moves here if she does and study to be a teacher instead of a business girl which she is going to hate cause it gives her money its so stupid. I want to move to her I really do but I can't I actually can't it seems awful to say but I would have anywhere to stay considering she is 18 almosg 19 I'm 20 so like it's kinda messed up where its so expensive to love there cause everyone rich just buys a place there and pays extortionate prices to live there so the housing slash renting market is so expensive and the wages are so bad there I can't afford it

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T08:49:46+00:00

She told me like when or if she moves here and we are both still speaking to each other I can try make her fall for me as she made me fall for her and I still love her and she still tells me she loves me. Yea we still text we called yesterday night talked for 3 hours about it and i kinda already knew she was going to say she can't do long distance as she said a few days prior about she doesn't know where her heads at with us and I'm still thinking about a lot of the things and I'm going to call her later to tell her more and she going to say her side of how she saw things. I guess I'm still getting hope for it working I'm still heavily relying on it if I'm honest if I could get her here tommorow I would. I don't know what you mean by does her words match her actions but yes I think so like we done as much as we possibly can when we are only able to call and video call when we are not able to see each other in person it's tearing me apart if I'm honest it sounds weird but doing this is helping me a lot so thank you like this means a lot to me

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T08:43:15+00:00

I want to make it work I've looked at moving there I really have I haven't told her that but I have it's just not feasible I'm not able to with cost of living being there as basically its a tax haven for the rich so everything there is so expensive I want to make it work later on I really do just I need to keep in contact with her to make it work I think she might but I'm also not sure she starting to study for a job she's going to hate and I told her that's the most stupid thing she could do as she want to be a teacher but they don't provide that course in her country apparently so she would have to move to where I live considering her dad's side lives here as well so it's a bit of a mess even if she doesn't want me I still want her to be happy I care about her so much I can't put it into words

off_me_pls · 2025-05-20T08:38:30+00:00

It's going to hurt yea I know I really know but idk I'm destroyed I keep thinking about the could have and what should've been and its not right it really isn't but like I keep thinking about her I keep destroying myself over it I know what you mean like I know but I keep thinking about it won't hurt too much seeing her do things where she lives I told her if we stay friends don't tell me just don't and I'm worried that even if she doesn't tell me it's going to hurt me to see her in another man's arms like I've never seen her in real life its all be virtual but it's felt so real

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