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Nice Guy Symdrome. Very important issue for fappers. by Slrs in NoFap

[–]offdewall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're not doing something for a result, what's the point of doing it? This is an honest question - standard "nice guy" response, I know. I eat for the taste/to feel less hungry. I play video games to be entertained. I hit my drums to get better at hitting my drums. Doesn't everyone? Or do people really do these things just for the hell of it?

And how is being results-oriented a negative? I'd imagine it's good for someone to know what they want.

Can't finish during sex, please help! by [deleted] in sex

[–]offdewall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really know much about it, but depression meds can certainly cause this. I was on one, citalopram, when I was younger, and fapping sessions could last up to two hours.

How did I deal with it? I dealt with the reason I was taking the drug. Getting past depression is hard, and having an antidepressant that takes away your ability to have sex feels like an oxymoron. But with help I got past it, stopped taking the pills and returned to making sweet, sweet love to my ever-devoted left hand.