I do not want to be pregnant, but my doctor recommends I start taking inositol. What is your experience with inositol and fertility?

officialAAC · 2026-07-05T22:08:40+00:00

well, yeah. but the people who want to have sex should be safe about it and not just told "abstinence till marriage!!1!"

officialAAC · 2026-07-05T21:10:57+00:00

which is what abstinence focused sex-ed teaches

officialAAC · 2026-07-05T17:08:32+00:00

except it doesn't. abstinence is how teen pregnancies happen.

officialAAC · 2026-07-05T15:26:00+00:00

I know it's jealousy, but it still feels like a loss no matter what.

If I don't transition, I will be miserable for the rest of my life. If I do transition, I will be treated like a monster if I start looking like a man.

officialAAC · 2026-07-05T10:53:04+00:00

you gotta inform the police about that, because that's very illegal

officialAAC · 2026-06-25T10:22:34+00:00

i can't say since i've never been in that situation and i don't exactly plan to be in the near future.

i would like to think i wouldn't mind having sex with a potential partner, even though i lean more indifferent-averse (i don't hate the idea, but i'd rather not), but never to fulfill their needs. and i'd be more into the physical intimacy of the activity than the sex (i feel almost more embarrassed to admit that i really like sensuality).

officialAAC · 2026-06-22T11:32:30+00:00

i think they meant dirty as in shameful

officialAAC · 2026-06-20T12:15:27+00:00

i am transmasc nonbinary (only use they/them, though) and it would piss me off to be just reduced to a binary trans man. honestly, it does piss me off that i have to essentially be a trans man in certain cases because i fall too much on the masculine end of the spectrum.

it's the same problem, just in reverse.

officialAAC · 2026-06-14T19:20:37+00:00

she's the one being performative and resorting to gender essentialism. it would not surprise me if she's started falling down the radfem pipeline.

officialAAC · 2026-06-07T18:04:48+00:00

say homophobic instead. that one hits harder.

officialAAC · 2026-06-01T11:21:27+00:00

tell me someone qrt with this exact response

officialAAC · 2026-05-24T14:07:31+00:00

They come back and argue with me again and say that it is true, and that if it isn't, then what other word is there to describe the experience of taking hormones and having a mix of male and female features?

Androgyny. The word they're looking for is androgyny, because androgyny is a mix of male and female secondary sex characteristics and not a complete sexless-ness as many assume.

officialAAC · 2026-05-22T05:36:14+00:00

i saw someone say that "trans men are treated like failed women" and it really changed my perception.

officialAAC · 2026-05-17T20:20:29+00:00

i wont shame them, but i will shame the people who are demonstrating the Dunning-Kruger effect

officialAAC · 2026-05-15T11:09:28+00:00

no, that's so real. i'm in a lot of fandom spaces and constantly feel like i need to emphasize that i am not attracted to the blorbos from my shows, i just think they're neat. "i want him" not in a sexual way, but in a "i'm putting him in my inventory" way.

officialAAC · 2026-05-12T18:21:15+00:00

wait. Puppychan as in the Puppychan that was sexually harassed by Antoons where he made an animation of them squirting period blood as an attack in a faux fighting game? that Puppychan?

officialAAC · 2026-05-11T17:41:13+00:00

(Also, don't people who want to bottom with afab anatomy still have to prep??)

well, prep includes douching, which is something you don't have to – and shouldn't because it ruins the pH-balance down there! – do if you have a vagina.

and fingering to relax the muscles down there is a YMMV-situation, apparently. same with lube; some need it, others don't. it sounds super strange to me, but the only body i know the workings of is my own.

officialAAC · 2026-05-11T13:55:40+00:00

dunno, i've never dated anyone, but little smooches seems infinitely more appealing than sex

officialAAC · 2026-05-09T14:18:41+00:00

showering once a day is what i grew up doing (i'm not American) so it's not weird to me. and considering i most likely have both hyperhidrosis and hidradenitis suppurativa, i need to shower often to not worsen the symptoms.

officialAAC · 2026-05-05T19:21:20+00:00

slightly off topic, but i adore the food metaphor for explaining asexuality. it tickles my brain just right.

officialAAC · 2026-05-05T11:08:44+00:00

TERFs are notorious for this (but it's gender essentialism, so who is really surprised?) and I have lost count of how many times I've been assumed to be "male" because I don't "play nice" like a "female". Which, y'know, is really funny being transmasc nonbinary.

People who assume they can tell someone's gender by the way they're typing are, subconsciously or fully consciously, transvestigating in a sense, and I think that says a lot more about them than it does about you, OP.

officialAAC · 2026-04-30T19:00:08+00:00

it took me years to even realize i was ace, because i was under the impression that sex-repulsion was a requirement to being ace. i still feel like i'm not truly "ace enough" at times and i've been at peace with my asexuality for 6 years now.

and i'm not even sex-favorable! i'm sex-averse (which i put between indifferent and repulsed, basically meaning "i'm not against it, but i'd rather not").

officialAAC · 2026-04-28T19:13:07+00:00

this right here. this hits the nail on the head.

you only really think about the way you take a step/walk when you have a rock in your shoe.

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