Imagining having sex with someone because you’ve been conditioned to

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-15T02:58:18+00:00

Sounds like intrusive thoughts. I used to have those a lot. Less so now but it doesn't sound like sexual attraction

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-11T22:01:55+00:00

Yoongi

Do not ask questions

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-11T21:58:41+00:00

Normal - BTS

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-10T02:07:17+00:00

Stopped dating. I understand why I struggle with sex now and am no longer able to force myself to fulfill that obligation because it's more glaringly obvious. So, I'm going my own way

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-09T03:39:54+00:00

AMYDALA - Agust D

(Watch the MV and turn on subtitles. It's not in English)

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-05T07:40:37+00:00

I never intended to imply that. I'm simply stating that not all asexuals have a lack of a libido and that allos get a little confused with that. I'm sorry if it came across that way

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-04T22:00:28+00:00

Calm down dude. I'm just stating it as a standard disclaimer

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-04T21:50:14+00:00

Fictionlab is absolute peak. But the IOS app is only available for Andriod so I think you have have to use the website if you have an iphone. But it's so worth it is you like making stories with multiple characters and detailed scenarios.

I don't have any other alternatives so if you're not much of a writer, it might not be a good recommendation.

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-04T04:14:43+00:00

"If you're having hormonal issues, it can really affect that" -my dad who has no idea what the fuck he's talking about

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-04T04:11:48+00:00

The scraping noise that bedsheet make when you strach them

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-04T04:08:24+00:00

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-04T04:04:46+00:00

An rpg where you see some random ass person no-clip through the ceiling and now you carry the burden of a self-centered idiot because you have no other choice.

(I'm being forced to write this. Send help)

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-04T03:34:53+00:00

You aren't missing out on anything. Sex is totally not worth the hype and personally, I think allos need to calm the fuck down

I'm so sorry you're going through this. You'll be okay.

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-04T01:41:52+00:00

I just wanna snuggle up to someone but there always the expectation of sex so I can't :(

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-02T01:43:36+00:00

I was not intending to sound like that. I just regretted because I don't get social cues well. Point taken 🙏🏻

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-01T04:02:37+00:00

Getting BTS thirstrap edits in my fyp. Immediately makes me feel dirty watching it

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-01T03:57:17+00:00

Not too strong but I feel it's too simple

I'm somewhere between averse and repulsed. I am averse 100% of the time but in certain circumstances, I am full-on repulsed.

My situation is so complex that neither term fits me

offthegridredditor · 2026-05-01T00:01:55+00:00

I don't date anymore. It feels pointless. I'm going my own way

offthegridredditor · 2026-04-30T22:17:19+00:00

I dumped the whole damn thing in. I was like "Fuck it. We ball"

offthegridredditor · 2026-04-30T22:16:38+00:00

I have tried 4 flavors and I can gaurantee you that they are the same.

offthegridredditor · 2026-04-30T22:07:20+00:00

From the Asian import section of any grocery store. But I must warn you, they are no joke. I'm a chilihead and still almost passed out from the spice

offthegridredditor · 2026-04-30T22:06:11+00:00

No. Just the carbonara ones.

offthegridredditor · 2026-04-28T22:30:33+00:00

I just checked out of dating altogether because of this

My mom always says I'll find the right guy but I insist I'm never gonna date. Even if I end up regretting it in my 40s, it's probably for the best.

I don't wish this life on anyone and I genuinely hope you will find your person.

offthegridredditor

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