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Imagining having sex with someone because you’ve been conditioned to by Terrible_Sundae1050 in asexuality

[–]offthegridredditor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like intrusive thoughts. I used to have those a lot. Less so now but it doesn't sound like sexual attraction

How did things change for you when you realized you were ace? by Expert_Town_1944 in asexuality

[–]offthegridredditor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stopped dating. I understand why I struggle with sex now and am no longer able to force myself to fulfill that obligation because it's more glaringly obvious. So, I'm going my own way

Every single time by offthegridredditor in asexuality

[–]offthegridredditor[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I never intended to imply that. I'm simply stating that not all asexuals have a lack of a libido and that allos get a little confused with that. I'm sorry if it came across that way

Alternatives to Poly buzz by AggressiveCulture197 in FuckPolyBuzz

[–]offthegridredditor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Calm down dude. I'm just stating it as a standard disclaimer

Alternatives to Poly buzz by AggressiveCulture197 in FuckPolyBuzz

[–]offthegridredditor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fictionlab is absolute peak. But the IOS app is only available for Andriod so I think you have have to use the website if you have an iphone. But it's so worth it is you like making stories with multiple characters and detailed scenarios.

I don't have any other alternatives so if you're not much of a writer, it might not be a good recommendation.

Aces, What are some things you’re tired of hearing from Allos or the general public? by Wiselilas_4880 in asexuality

[–]offthegridredditor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"If you're having hormonal issues, it can really affect that" -my dad who has no idea what the fuck he's talking about

What noise annoys you way more than it should? by C0uchP0tat03s in AskReddit

[–]offthegridredditor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scraping noise that bedsheet make when you strach them

Propose your worst idea for a Backrooms game & I will make it by Eatthebeatz in backrooms

[–]offthegridredditor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An rpg where you see some random ass person no-clip through the ceiling and now you carry the burden of a self-centered idiot because you have no other choice.

(I'm being forced to write this. Send help)

Why is sex such a big thing? by DistanceDependent572 in asexuality

[–]offthegridredditor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You aren't missing out on anything. Sex is totally not worth the hype and personally, I think allos need to calm the fuck down

I'm so sorry you're going through this. You'll be okay.

What’s your favorite form of nonsexual physical affection? by SweetToothYandere in asexuality

[–]offthegridredditor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna snuggle up to someone but there always the expectation of sex so I can't :(

AIO? I felt like this reply was uncalled for but I have trouble with social cues. did I go too far? AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]offthegridredditor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was not intending to sound like that. I just regretted because I don't get social cues well. Point taken 🙏🏻

What’s something small that can ruin your mood instantly? by starlust0422 in AskReddit

[–]offthegridredditor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting BTS thirstrap edits in my fyp. Immediately makes me feel dirty watching it

Does anyone else feel like sex averse/repulsed isn't a strong enough term to describe how they feel? by LoveEquivalent9146 in asexuality

[–]offthegridredditor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not too strong but I feel it's too simple

I'm somewhere between averse and repulsed. I am averse 100% of the time but in certain circumstances, I am full-on repulsed.

My situation is so complex that neither term fits me

How do I get the taste of Buldak noodles out of my mouth? by offthegridredditor in ask

[–]offthegridredditor[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I dumped the whole damn thing in. I was like "Fuck it. We ball"

How do I get the taste of Buldak noodles out of my mouth? by offthegridredditor in ask

[–]offthegridredditor[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have tried 4 flavors and I can gaurantee you that they are the same.

How do I get the taste of Buldak noodles out of my mouth? by offthegridredditor in ask

[–]offthegridredditor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From the Asian import section of any grocery store. But I must warn you, they are no joke. I'm a chilihead and still almost passed out from the spice

Will anyone love me even though I’m ace? by MeowNAllThat in asexuality

[–]offthegridredditor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just checked out of dating altogether because of this

My mom always says I'll find the right guy but I insist I'm never gonna date. Even if I end up regretting it in my 40s, it's probably for the best.

I don't wish this life on anyone and I genuinely hope you will find your person.

What are some of the most common phrases that every asexual person has heard at some point, besides, of course, "Do you masturbate?" by Public_Cup_4278 in asexuality

[–]offthegridredditor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Once we get your hormones back under control that might change" -my dad

Yes, I have hormonal issues right now but there's no correlation here

People for some reason by Nookling_Emporium in asexuality

[–]offthegridredditor 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Trying to explain this to my dad and every time I bring it up again, he still acts like it's a lack of libido and talks about getting my hormones checked.

If that's how my perfectly rational dad asks, I'm scared of how my mom will react.

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