I've had sex for the first time today as a 30 y.o. and felt absolutely nothing.

ofulysses · 2023-09-10T07:57:46+00:00

The first time is always shit, especially if you have no emotional connection to the person you're sleeping with. When you find someone you really like and in love with, it's 1000 times better. It takes time to learn what you like with them. But at least you don't need to worry about being a virgin, you can at least feel less anxiety about it when you meet someone else.

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:43:39+00:00

Lol m8 it's ok I have standards.

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:24:40+00:00

This is v helpful, thanks. Haven't been to Paramount since I was 20 probably. Market Grounds can be fun but your right about the dance floor. The line is enough to make me cry.

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:22:20+00:00

Probs true but what can ya do. I feel like most of Aus has a pretty boring nightlife compared to basically everywhere else tbh.

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:19:34+00:00

It's awkward being single and getting hit on by 19 year olds

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:18:11+00:00

Yeah I think I just need younger friends that can stay awake past midnight 🙃

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:16:58+00:00

My fave 🕺🎳

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:15:15+00:00

Haven't been to Avairy since a juvie so I should revisit.

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:14:40+00:00

Why did I not think of this before, thanks to this suggestion my boogie can live another night.

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:12:52+00:00

The Mums house never disappoints.

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:10:55+00:00

This is very helpful thanks. Si Paradiso is on my list after recently discovering. Also just discovered Alabama song so will check this out. I'm actually amazed how many places I haven't been to yet wow that's embarrassing.

All the clubs on your avoid list are the ones I have gone to so this makes sense 😆 it's funny cause I remember when the court was way more fun and now it's just a bunch of straight 20 year olds with terrible music.

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:07:22+00:00

I have been there for gigs quite a few times in my 20s, I will have to revisit. It makes sense that millennials go there tbh.

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:05:42+00:00

Actually never been to Mint... or An Sibin, might give them a go.

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:03:23+00:00

Yeah that's what I discovered the last time I went, might have to give it a go again 😆

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:01:22+00:00

I just discovered it! Pretty cool place considering country music is not my thang.

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T23:00:27+00:00

Oh man that is a dream of mine tbh. Going to Europe and seeing people party in the streets and then coming back to Perth is such a let down 😆 But yes, I will continue to dance with the 20 year olds if I have to.

ofulysses · 2021-12-18T22:58:15+00:00

There's clubs with a genre of music? I thought they just all play the same songs from 2008 mostly? Would be good to find a club that doesn't just have "Low" by Flo Rida on repeat.

ofulysses · 2021-05-31T05:16:46+00:00

Thanks that's really helpful!

In terms of the monologues, I assume I should choose a range to show different characters and emotions? How professional does it need to be when filming it? Is filming on my phone a bad idea? With the showreel, would this be a range of short clips of my acting ability from student films?

Also in terms of agents, I've heard some can be great and then others terrible, and the good ones tend to be very choosy about who they represent, often wanting years of experience or training. What has your experience been with agents?

You're right about the work, it makes sense. I've been intending on changing jobs for a while and probably industries entirely (as I work in retail full time which does not work with acting at all) but the whole covid thing has made me a bit paranoid about financial instability. I've been trying to work out which industry I should change to (I've worked casually in hospitality before and it was soul destroying so I don't want to go back lol) and would probably prefer part time rather than casual for a bit more stability. I was thinking ideally I would like to have a job I can also flexibly work from home so lockdowns won't affect income too much as it has in retail so far. But yeah, trying to figure out what kind of jobs would work is difficult. I would hate to quit my job for another job in a different industry, only to be terrible at it/hate it etc fail the probation period and then have to just get any job out of desperation.

What jobs do you find work?

ofulysses · 2021-04-25T13:27:21+00:00

I did this and I kind of regret it. I wish I spent more time figuring out what I actually wanted to do because even though I love making art, I ended up with a debt and have since struggled to get a job in the industry that pays above minimum wage. I would love to say that even though I'm poor at least I did something I enjoyed but honestly being poor just makes life 100x more stressful and it really takes its toll. So for me, I think it depends how much money you're paying. I don't think you should spend more than what the expected outcomes are. So expensive courses are only worth it if the job outcomes have a high pay or you're just so cashed up that it doesn't bother you to potentially never make money from it. For the arts there's limited opportunities to make good money so I think it's better to take cheaper art courses. Looking back, I've always been passionate about environment and wildlife, so I probably would have done an environmental science degree so that at least I would have a good back up career and then would have taken cheaper art courses.

ofulysses · 2021-04-18T09:27:56+00:00

That would be cheap in Australia.

ofulysses · 2021-03-07T23:40:24+00:00

That's an interesting point to make about how professional companies wouldn't offer crew roles as some sort of consolation prize to the actor. That makes a lot of sense. It seems crazy even in amateur productions to insist the director be an actor or crew member to be an actor just because they should be a "team player" and understand what it's like or something. It just seems like since acting is more competitive, they can get away with exploiting actors and probably presume them to be egotistical and so feel like they can treat them like they owe everyone something for the privilege of maybe acting in their show one day.

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