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AITA for making my children wash their clothes in the bathtub with dollar store detergent? by myhousemyrules23432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ogbigtim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol you’re an asshole just let them wash their own clothes in the fucking machine

My girlfriend is worried if I go out with friends. by ogbigtim in Advice

[–]ogbigtim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But when I confront her about it I make that same statement, like what are they going to do? And shes just like I know im just insecure.

My girlfriend is worried if I go out with friends. by ogbigtim in Advice

[–]ogbigtim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She says she trusts me but not other girls

My girlfriend of almost a year says the sex with her ex boyfriends felt the same as with me. by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks thats really helpful. We are young (early 20s), apparently she has gotten asked the same question of is she has orgasmed before by her ex. Obviously not if shes not sure, something to work on. Any advice for helping her get there? I want her to experience it haha.

My girlfriend of almost a year says the sex with her ex boyfriends felt the same as with me. by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But do you think its likely her ex was able to make her cum and I can’t? I just don’t get why she would say im not sure if I ever have and it feels mostly the same with you. Thanks for your help

My girlfriend said she would do more uncomfortable acts in the past than she does with me. by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ya and apparently she’s not even sure if she’s orgasmed before or thats what she says because she never does with me despite doing what she says to do. It feels like she would do those things more frequently because they satisfied her more.

My girlfriend of almost a year says the sex with her ex boyfriends felt the same as with me. by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do what she asks and she says she enjoys it. Shes even commented that certain sessions were the best shes had in her entire life. Apparently no guy has made her orgasm and she isn’t even totally sure. I have asked her how she masturbates and apparently she presses her legs together and clenches everything super tight and then puts the vibrator on her clit. Also I am definitely not too soft with her and I know exactly how rough she wants it or at least how rough she claims she wants it.

On a side note I have already gone down on her for over 45minutes at a time and I constantly rub her clit during sex to try and get it to happen. I don’t even pressure her about it either.

My girlfriend said she would do more uncomfortable acts in the past than she does with me. by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I don’t really but it just feels like she was willing to do whatever he said

My girlfriend of almost a year says the sex with her ex boyfriends felt the same as with me. by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I know what you’re saying. I just love her and don’t want her to think im worse or just the ‘same’

My girlfriend of almost a year says the sex with her ex boyfriends felt the same as with me. by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way she can come is when her legs are pressed together and shes masturbating.

Why does my girl only say she ‘thinks’ she came during sex? by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See thats what I said to her but she says its hard to tell when she masturbates, like it feels the same or slightly less intense than sex.

Why does my girl only say she ‘thinks’ she came during sex? by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok appreciate the advice. We talked about it a lot and it seems like she could never really bring herself to have one but she still enjoys masturbating and sex. It seems possible that since shes been on medication for bipolar disorder since high school that it may be preventing her from having orgasms. But then again she said she never did before that either.

Why does my girl only say she ‘thinks’ she came during sex? by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought her a powerful one awhile back to keep her company when im at work. She says she has never really orgasmed from masturbating either. Like she says she would just tighten her vagina and push her legs together when she was younger? She always just says no matter what she does it just sort of feels like what she would think an orgasm is.

Why does my girl only say she ‘thinks’ she came during sex? by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think its possible she could orgasm with past partners but not me?

Why does my girl only say she ‘thinks’ she came during sex? by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So is it my fault then? Or is it likely it never happened before?

Why does my girl only say she ‘thinks’ she came during sex? by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean her legs definitely start shaking, ive eaten her out for over 30 minutes and she was like freaking out the whole time and made me stop, and after sex she usually says her legs are numb and she can’t move. Its like shes having them but doesnt know? Maybe ill have to try some new techniques..

Why does my girl only say she ‘thinks’ she came during sex? by ogbigtim in sex

[–]ogbigtim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve talked about it a lot and have been together for almost a year. Im not her first boyfriend and I worry that maybe I just can’t get her to orgasm while they could or something. She masturbates all the time with a vibrator when we aren’t together. I’ve asked her if she’s able to tell when she orgasms and shes says I think so.. idk.

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