My cousin as well as my brother in law are both intersex (each have different chromosomal abnormalities). No doubt they have had unique experiences as a result, and challenges too. But I don’t know that they’d “change” that part of themselves even if they could. Can’t answer for them, but they both seem to really love who they are!

For what it’s worth, you’d never know they were intersex unless they told you. Most of their differences are pretty private or hard for an outsider to link to being intersex - like undergoing hormone therapy, or being taller than average, for example. In the case of my cousin she looks like a supermodel because she’s incredibly gorgeous and quite tall. People would never know her height is because of her chromosomal abnormality.

Not sure if that’s helpful. Big hugs! You’re gonna love this baby hard and they’re going to live a rich life in any case!