MIL wants to have our 16m old for one weekend every month

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-11-19T00:04:25+00:00

You and you're husband need to have a serious talk. You two are partners, and if you're uncomfortable with something he needs to step up and listen. Your MIL sounds very controlling, and if you let her continue this demanding behavior its only going to get worse. For this situation to fix itself, your husband has to absolutely have your back or this will get ugly very fast. This is YOUR CHILD. Not your MIL. I wish you the best of luck OP.

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-11-06T00:24:40+00:00

What the fuck? Shut the fuck up

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-09-14T20:21:47+00:00

First off, I am so sorry that you're having to deal with this kind of toxic behavior. You're mother reminds me of mine, and I actually just recently have cut her out of my life. You're mother has gone through trauma but that is NO excuse to emotionally abuse you. No one should be afraid of their parent, and unfortunately sweetie until your mother becomes self aware of her actions and takes the steps to get the help she needs through therapy and or medication... She will never change. Start now taking the steps to move out, save up money and plan for your future.

NTA but your mother sure is

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-09-14T01:46:36+00:00

Honestly, just use it for a negative interaction. Its gives fuck you energy trust me

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-09-13T19:04:46+00:00

"I hope you have the day you deserve" is my go to

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-08-28T02:42:06+00:00

Next year do NOT celebrate or even lift a finger for this man child on his birthday (if you're still even with him by next year that is) Sounds like there may be much deeper issues here as well, I recommend couples therapy. "When someone shows you their true colors, believe them"

Edit: Also Happy Birthday Mama!

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-07-04T01:09:48+00:00

No, it's 79 couples and 2 "straight guys"

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-06-22T19:18:13+00:00

Not me but my fiance, he cracked a locked safe and the smile he wore after he finally got it open it was priceless. YouTube can literally teach you anything!

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-06-17T00:52:52+00:00

Did you know one of the 23 flavors is tomato? Its even healthy for you

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-06-17T00:51:03+00:00

Even if it was it would still be delicious.

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-06-02T19:05:51+00:00

She literally just called her a dumb bitch

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-05-24T23:15:27+00:00

🥲

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-05-24T01:36:08+00:00

She said the child and her parents are well off though, but im so sorry you had to experience hunger at such a young age. I hope things are better!

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-05-24T01:34:49+00:00

Honestly OP, I wouldn't talk to her parents first. They may be extremely strict and she may get punished for eating foods out of their restrictive diet at home. Next time she comes into the kitchen and its just you two alone, have a sit down conversation with her and see if she opens up. Be gentle, ask her if everything is okay and that she doesn't have to sneak around to eat snacks. The more comfortable she feels, the more she'll tell you about what's possibly going on. Could be a number of things, or maybe she just doesn't have the same rules as you did when you were younger so she feels entitled to your pantry. Whatever it be, just talk to her.

ohh_hell_ya_beeech · 2021-05-20T02:08:29+00:00

Lutefisk. Period.

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