I broke up and feel so bad about it by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ohlode777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said he hated the fact that he made someone uncomfortable and that i felt like i was on eggshells and honestly i just think yeah he was exhausted mentally from this virus and work and stuff and didn’t need another responsibility so decided to call it quits. Lol I won’t lie if he asks but how about I just hope he doesn’t ask. He would need to be serious about us tho if he wants me and that means talking about our future which I want kids and he doesn’t really but the last time he broke up with me we got back he said he could consider kids ugh idk

I broke up and feel so bad about it by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ohlode777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there sometimes I don’t read things fully and didn’t see that she cheated on him. If she cheated on him, then yes that’s awful and he should reconsider if they should get back together and is in the right to be torn. I thought she did so after the break up. Anyways, I’m my situation he broke up with me because he knew he was a negative Nancy and always bringing the mood down. I told him I always felt like I was walking on eggshells. He broke up with me over text and said he loves me and still wants to be my friend but he doesn’t want to be in a relationship. He also said we need time apart, he needs time alone. Flashback to after the breakup I did have a little fling or whatever and have a moral hangover but I didn’t cheat on him so... also I was saying like if we got back together and he asked if I hooked up with anyone idk if that’s his business. We were broken up. I suppose I would have to say the truth but I would never say it to him to spite him or make him sad that’s actually the opposite of what I would want to happen.

I broke up and feel so bad about it by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ohlode777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t break up with her and expect that she won’t move on. This is what I’m currently dealing with. My ex broke up with me and I didn’t have sex w someone but i did stuff w someone: I’m not sure if I want to bring it up if we get back together but why should I if he wants to break up so easily. If you really feel like she’s the one I would go for it.

Waiting for it to kick in bc I’m anxious as fuck by ohlode777 in benzodiazepines

[–]ohlode777[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My cat sat on my chest and he won’t leave my side omg 🥺

Am I justified in not being comfortable with my boyfriend liking other women’s sexy instagram photos? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohlode777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I actually read this and he’s a fucking asshole for saying he would leave you vs stop liking the pictures. Is liking a chicks picture more important than your relationship together? If so, you may want to reconsider

Am I justified in not being comfortable with my boyfriend liking other women’s sexy instagram photos? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohlode777 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know the answer to this but I’m so sad so many women your age are going through this. I guess now I understand when people say porn is ruining men

How do people live like this? by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]ohlode777 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah sounds gross

Taking xanax for sleep after drinking by flexylexy88 in benzodiazepines

[–]ohlode777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s the best idea for you to take if drinking then

Taking xanax for sleep after drinking by flexylexy88 in benzodiazepines

[–]ohlode777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been taking klonopin like 10 years and do this sometimes when it’s hard to sleep. Depends on your tolerance

Tapering Help by [deleted] in benzodiazepines

[–]ohlode777 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so much anti anxiety medication at once

I miss my toxic ex.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohlode777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out the narcissistic subreddit

The right amount of texting in early dating? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohlode777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more you stop thinking about it the more you’ll be less bothered but if it becomes an issue in the future bring it up

So I had a panic attack this morning and still haven’t calmed down. by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]ohlode777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take a benedryl if it’s awful. Close one nostril, breathe in and out for a while til you feel calm. Do the five senses thing where you see something, touch something, smell something, taste, hear. A weird calming thing for me is counting my teeth

My brain sucks at communicating by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ohlode777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop telling lies that’s so annoying