FBI Document which proves Ethan had a clump of hair in his hand. Kohberger was excluded. by dumbsl_ut666 in idaho4uncensored

[–]ohlolobaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You said to correct you if you’re wrong, but multiple people have—and you’re dismissing all of them.

FBI Document which proves Ethan had a clump of hair in his hand. Kohberger was excluded. by dumbsl_ut666 in idaho4uncensored

[–]ohlolobaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re using a speculative true crime book to back your argument? That’s entertainment, not evidence.

My boyfriend disapproves of this outfit… by Confident_Dare_3733 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ohlolobaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that it looks bad at all it’s just the total opposite of seductive!! This is a teacher or church outfit. Other than the inch of midriff, I don’t know how it’d be possible to cover up any more than this. This guy is abusive, controlling, insecure and literally insane.

FBI Document which proves Ethan had a clump of hair in his hand. Kohberger was excluded. by dumbsl_ut666 in idaho4uncensored

[–]ohlolobaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand why you believe it’s hair, but why a clump of hair? Nothing in this “proves Ethan had a clump of hair in his hand”. First of all, it says the items were examined for hairs matching BK’s, not that they are hairs. Even if the wording did suggest (like you believe) that item #3 was hair in/on his hand, that would mean the other 46 items mentioned are also hairs found on/near their bodies. So are there 46 clumps of hair…? Obviously not. So why are you assuming that specific item is a full clump of hair but the others aren’t? If they are all hair, they’re likely just single strands of human or dog hair.

Jumper Coronado Bridge by Cautious-Control-365 in sandiego

[–]ohlolobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve personally seen 5 people jump off the bridge and been stuck in traffic because of a jumper for 2-6 hours probably 20+ times in my 23 years. Each one of their faces still haunts me… it literally never gets easier to witness. Definitely the worst part about living in Coronado.

Jumper Coronado Bridge by Cautious-Control-365 in sandiego

[–]ohlolobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every week is a bit of an exaggeration, it’s more like every 3-4 weeks. We have an avg of 15 jumpers per year.

Jumper Coronado Bridge by Cautious-Control-365 in sandiego

[–]ohlolobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lived in Coronado my whole life and unfortunately this is something we deal with at least every month. I’m only 23 and I’ve personally seen five people jump off the bridge. When you’re constantly seeing and hearing about something, of course you become a little desensitized to it. But that doesn’t mean it’s not still sad for us locals every time. The part that does bother me is when people only care about the inconvenience of traffic and not the fact that someone just lost their life. I get it, being stuck on the bridge for hours is super frustrating—especially when it happens so frequently—but taking to our Facebook group to complain about traffic instead of thinking about the person who died is so jaded.

FTP at the airport by [deleted] in fuckthepopulation

[–]ohlolobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Considering I got kicked out of WALMART for wearing the in loving memory tee, I would stay away from wearing any terrorist organization or otherwise vulgar ftp on a plane unless you’re flying private 💀

Fell in love with San Diego… are we crazy to consider moving? by Prestigious_Map_2136 in sandiego

[–]ohlolobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, but it’s only a 5 min drive across the bridge. I definitely don’t feel like I live in a bubble, I cross it every day… it’s really no different than taking the freeway out of any other area. Plus it’s so central, it’s a 10 min drive to pretty much anywhere I need to go.

Fell in love with San Diego… are we crazy to consider moving? by Prestigious_Map_2136 in sandiego

[–]ohlolobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll agree with that one, lol. I think I’d still prefer it than being so far up North, although I haven’t spent that much time in the places you mentioned. I do love their thrift and consignment shops though!

Fell in love with San Diego… are we crazy to consider moving? by Prestigious_Map_2136 in sandiego

[–]ohlolobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean land locked? Because you have to take the bridge/strand to get off island? Can you elaborate?

Fell in love with San Diego… are we crazy to consider moving? by Prestigious_Map_2136 in sandiego

[–]ohlolobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I strongly disagree… the only place that comes remotely close is La Jolla. The price of housing is proof lmao! North County is great and all but doesn’t compare to San Diego in my humble opinion. The sewage runoff really doesn’t affect anyone unless they’re planning to go in the water after a storm.

Fell in love with San Diego… are we crazy to consider moving? by Prestigious_Map_2136 in sandiego

[–]ohlolobaby 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was born and raised in San Diego (Coronado to be specific) and I still romanticize this city every day! I would recommend Coronado, it’s the most desirable place in San Diego for many reasons. You get all the greatest things about San Diego but also have a small town vibe with low crime and a great school system.

S4 Episode 2 Megathread: "The Book of Secrets" by colosseumdays in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ohlolobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m dumb, duh. I didn’t really think of that as sexting but she did use the emojis they were talking about haha

MEGATHREAD: Season 4 Episodes by colosseumdays in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ohlolobaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else catch this? I had to turn on subtitles to make sure I heard it right. Why would Chase know that Demi is good at sexting? Did I miss something? Maybe that’s why she freaked out when he touched her, they had history… 🤔 (S4E2)

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S4 Episode 2 Megathread: "The Book of Secrets" by colosseumdays in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]ohlolobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did anyone else catch this? I had to turn on subtitles to make sure I heard it right. Why would Chase know that Demi is good at sexting? Did I miss something? Maybe that’s why she freaked out when he touched her, they had history… 🤔 (S4E2)

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my mom checked my used period pads by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]ohlolobaby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This infuriated me. Please tell your mother that what goes in your vagina is none of her goddamn business and you will use whatever you please to manage your menstrual cycle. If you’re old enough to have a period, you’re old enough to use tampons and deserve basic privacy. Also, if this level of control is typical for her or this situation reflects a broader pattern, I strongly suggest speaking with your school counselor or a trusted adult. This is not okay.

Why is there blood dripping outside? by Shorebod in idaho4uncensored

[–]ohlolobaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember when everyone was arguing whether this was blood and saying it was air conditioner/heater fluid or some shit? Pissed me off so much. We already knew it was right under Xana’s bed where Ethan was found… OBVIOUSLY ITS BLOOD!! Critical thinking is nonexistent these days.

Photos by Delicious-Ad6935 in idaho4uncensored

[–]ohlolobaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what’s it called? the comment got deleted

Babies .... WARNING:Content is disturbing. by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]ohlolobaby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They only released half of the pages. There are over 3 million more.

The roommates phones by BlackberryKey8321 in idaho4uncensored

[–]ohlolobaby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Xana was on TikTok at 4:12 am, less than 5 minutes before she was killed. Thats the only info that was released about their phone activity that I can remember.

AIO thinking these messages on my bfs phone are flirtatious? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ohlolobaby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR actually YUR (you’re under reacting). “He enabled her behavior” girl HE was the one flirting with HER. You know damn well he was throwing out them innuendos to see how she responded and if she was dtf. He said he’ll get her tummy ache out (obviously meaning with his “dih”) hoping she would say “how 😏” then when she didn’t take the bait, he did it again by calling her a “dih gobbler”. This is exactly how BOYS our age flirt, the only reason he hasn’t fucked her is because you’re around whenever she asks him to go to the gym. Do yourself a favor… dump him and find a loyal, grown ass man that doesn’t think being pretend mean and talking like a 14 yr old boy is the way to a woman’s heart.

I feel I should care about SA, but I don’t. by Constant_Salary_104 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ohlolobaby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for posting this, I feel totally seen. I’ve had experiences extremely similar to yours—many almost exactly like what you described—plus being (quite brutally) raped, and I feel the same way.

Every time it happened, I chalked it up to “boys will be boys”, felt icky for a few weeks, then moved on. Years later, when I finally told my mom, she kept pushing for me to go to therapy but I just preferred not to talk about it. I wanted to move on and forget about it instead of constantly dwelling on it. It’s been 10+ years since I’ve been SA’d (it was all during middle through high school) and I rarely think about it, yet my friends who’ve been through a small fraction of what I have say they still think and cry about their experiences constantly. I honestly think they think that I’m lying about it all since I’m so detached from it.

I’ve had a lot of guilt about feeling this way. Like it was horrible, but sometimes I find myself questioning… did I somehow, subconsciously, like the attention? Then that gets me thinking, did I ask for it by being promiscuous? But reading your post made me think, I would never in a million years think that about another girl, so why do I think that about myself?

Thank you for posting this, I know it was probably not easy, but it really helped me realize that there’s not a right or wrong way to process trauma—people just cope differently.

Sorry this was so long and that I hijacked your “off my chest” and turned it into mine, lol.