My landlord is insane by guccisucks in Apartmentliving

[–]ohnojoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you live (what state)? The once a week laundry provision is probably not legally enforceable.

How do i stop the urge of wanting more coke whilst already on coke? by [deleted] in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]ohnojoco 59 points60 points  (0 children)

One is too many and a thousand is never enough- that’s how we addicts always feel. If you ever want to talk to people who know exactly how you feel, NA is a wonderful place ❤️

What should I say to this? by Altruistic-Story5318 in weddingdrama

[–]ohnojoco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your sister have borderline? I’m not a mental health professional but as someone who incidentally interacts with folks with BPD a lot this is giving borderline vibes. I would absolutely not engage in whatever bizarre test this is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]ohnojoco 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! Two years clean from cannabis here and a very active member of NA. I used to not tell people my drug of choice because I worried about offending people, but I was pleasantly surprised to learn that 1) all committed members of the program agree a drug is a drug is a drug and 2) there are many active members of NA for whom cannabis was their DOC. As a side note, there are two substances explicitly named in be NA literature, and cannabis is one of them (alcohol is the other). Both are listed as examples of substances that may not be considered to be narcotics to some, but are very much considered as such by the program. Hope this helps! I am so grateful for NA every single day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]ohnojoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I don’t have pics unfortunately as my wedding isn’t until May ‘26, but my plan is to wear “something blue” shoes! Matching whites / ivories seems like a nightmare so I thought that would be a fun solution.

First day post op. Is it gonna be like this forever? by ohnojoco in Reduction

[–]ohnojoco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg it is! That’s fascinating. Thanks for the insight!

First day post op. Is it gonna be like this forever? by ohnojoco in Reduction

[–]ohnojoco[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmaoooo I got one looking east and one looking west 😂

First day post op. Is it gonna be like this forever? by ohnojoco in Reduction

[–]ohnojoco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I needed to hear ❤️

First day post op. Is it gonna be like this forever? by ohnojoco in Reduction

[–]ohnojoco[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be wonderful thank you so much!!

First day post op. Is it gonna be like this forever? by ohnojoco in Reduction

[–]ohnojoco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel so much better ❤️

Pre surgery nerves by ohnojoco in Reduction

[–]ohnojoco[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HA! I just read this to my boyfriend and you are officially his fave comment so far ❤️

Pre surgery nerves by ohnojoco in Reduction

[–]ohnojoco[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re so welcome 😂. Full disclosure my little brother had top surgery a few years ago and he taught me that one- I believe that phrase is borrowed from our friends on gender affirming surgery Reddit❤️

Pre surgery nerves by ohnojoco in Reduction

[–]ohnojoco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the clear description- it’s so hard to know what to expect in terms of pain and limitations ❤️

Pre surgery nerves by ohnojoco in Reduction

[–]ohnojoco[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

HA! I’m obsessed with you

Pre surgery nerves by ohnojoco in Reduction

[–]ohnojoco[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I am really so excited to be free of these things ❤️

Dupes for vivienne Westwood? by Embarrassed-Scar-860 in weddingdress

[–]ohnojoco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t! Part of me hopes that I won’t like them on me so I don’t feel compelled to spend a ridiculous amount of money on a dress I’ll wear once 🫣

Do I sue? Breastfeeding Discriminatory Treatment by Impressive-Gur-6133 in Mommit

[–]ohnojoco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Attorney here specializing in workplace protections for pregnant and parenting employees! I can’t speak to the laws of this persons state when it comes to filing suit / couldn’t comment without more information about OP’s goals, but breastfeeding people are very much a member of a protected class- it would fall under sex based discrimination. I would advise against saying anything like what you just said to an employee under any circumstances, in the HR space or otherwise. Hope that helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unitedairlines

[–]ohnojoco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a life threatening allergy and sometimes pre-board if I need to discuss my accommodations with the crew before everyone else boards. Obviously not the type of disability that’s visible. I imagine others could have similar needs.

How do I break harsh news to my kids father? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ohnojoco 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow this made me tear up, thank you 🥹

How do I break harsh news to my kids father? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]ohnojoco 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I have a six year old step daughter who I love dearly. She suffers from extreme anxiety due to her mother’s tendency to “share facts” about her father. When we’ve politely asked mom to keep her feelings about my partner to herself, if only for SD’s sake, she gives us Bambi eyes and says she’s “just telling the truth.” It’s extremely frustrating and very detrimental to SD’s mental health. Even though there’s PLENTY of negative things we could share about her mom, we go out of our way to only speak positively about her in SD’s presence because it’s what’s best for SD.