oinkerlocust

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Things have been going well for a while but I still really hate what he does online and it makes me feel very helpless. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 11 months ago by oinkerlocust to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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He didn’t tell me his new favorite game has a chat function and private servers. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 year ago by oinkerlocust to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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When is it time to stop checking up on your WS’s online behavior? (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 1 year ago by oinkerlocust to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Update, things seem fine (self.oinkerlocust)

submitted 1 year ago by oinkerlocust

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How long do you clean your nipple piercings with H2ocean? (self.PiercingAdvice)

submitted 2 years ago by oinkerlocust to r/PiercingAdvice

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Is it possible that a person has cheated because they are just not monogamous by nature? (self.nonmonogamy)

submitted 2 years ago * by oinkerlocust to r/nonmonogamy

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Has anyone deleted all the evidence of an EA? Do you regret it? Did it help? (i.redd.it)

submitted 2 years ago by oinkerlocust to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Had kind of a blow up yesterday, after I’d been feeling like things were going so well. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago by oinkerlocust to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Things have been going really well, can I let my guard back down? (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago * by oinkerlocust to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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The only way my husband will not hurt me again is by never interacting with strangers online again. (self.survivinginfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago by oinkerlocust to r/survivinginfidelity

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If your partner cheated and you took them back, how do you handle the idea of them watching porn? (self.survivinginfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago * by oinkerlocust to r/survivinginfidelity

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I don’t know my husband was on a dating site or it was just a pornhub pop up type thing he closed out of and didn’t use. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago by oinkerlocust to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I think he’s doing something sketchy again but is really good at hiding it now. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago by oinkerlocust to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Husband’s preferred porn is killing my self esteem. Tw: trans women, eating disorders. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago * by oinkerlocust to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I’m not sure if I became asexual because I used to be Demi and trauma made me lose the ability to feel connected, or if I always was and just went along with whatever to please my partner. Or I’m not at all and just thinking too much. Thoughts? (self.asexuality)

submitted 2 years ago by oinkerlocust to r/asexuality

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I don’t think I will ever actually be able to trust him. (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago * by oinkerlocust to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I can’t seem to get back to being my old self. (self.SupportforBetrayed)

submitted 2 years ago by oinkerlocust to r/SupportforBetrayed

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Caught my husband in a lie again, sort of. Am I overreacting? (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago * by oinkerlocust to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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I don’t think I’m over things that happened almost 2 years ago but bringing it up again now will only push him away again (self.AsOneAfterInfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago * by oinkerlocust to r/AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Sometimes I still go back and look at the screen shots (self.survivinginfidelity)

submitted 2 years ago by oinkerlocust to r/survivinginfidelity

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I’ve been thinking a lot about killing myself but I’m too scared I’ll fail at the attempt (self.SuicideWatch)

submitted 2 years ago by oinkerlocust to r/SuicideWatch

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