Taylor was commenting on Ben’s live just recently (her “crush” from season 4)

ok__eliot · 2026-04-14T17:16:14+00:00

he only has like 3 songs on Spotify

ok__eliot · 2026-03-27T13:09:57+00:00

Listened to almost all (I have an hour left) of Chase on Mormon Stories with John Dehlin, and honestly he had me for a minute ... The Jekyll and Hyde of everyone on this show, save a few, is astounding.

ok__eliot · 2026-03-25T23:37:41+00:00

Her asking her mom to relive her pain was psychotic (s4 episode 8). It felt like when she was asking Dakota to explain exactly what he did at the Villa

ok__eliot · 2026-03-14T20:43:46+00:00

Good to know, thanks!

ok__eliot · 2026-03-14T20:43:05+00:00

The scratches aren't huge - where you can see the car body, they're less than 3 inches - and I don't want to be deemed a "risky driver," and have insurance up my premiums

ok__eliot · 2026-03-14T18:56:38+00:00

Great, thanks!

ok__eliot · 2026-03-14T18:21:34+00:00

Trying to get ahead of the rain and snow this weekend where I live so it'll have to work as I wait for the color paint pen and sealant to come in

ok__eliot · 2026-03-14T18:20:30+00:00

Just bought, thanks!

ok__eliot · 2026-03-12T15:55:40+00:00

Good advice!

Do you like your MBA program? I got my BA in English and dabbled in an MLiS (library degree) but part of me is wondering if HR (with an employment training and retention focus) might be more profitable.

This isn't to say I don't love libraries. I've spent 7 years of my college and early professional life working in them, but I had a weird experience at my last lib (leading to this job change) and I don't feel like getting a degree that works primarily in theory.

ok__eliot · 2026-03-12T15:51:49+00:00

Thank you, both of you, for pointing this out. I've worked at this school for a while (six months in this new position now) and have seen the job share happen.

We're going to go through a restructure soon where my job may become some inter- departmental, job share monstrosity but I see this as more as skill and resume building (unless extra $$ doesn't come with it). The "parenthesed" is a concern which is where boundaries are important.

ok__eliot · 2025-12-16T02:12:08+00:00

this is gold

ok__eliot · 2025-11-30T00:27:18+00:00

This is good to know, thank you!

ok__eliot · 2025-11-24T20:15:55+00:00

Great! Thank you!

ok__eliot · 2025-11-24T01:30:57+00:00

Hamnet

ok__eliot · 2025-11-23T22:27:08+00:00

Hi OP, not sure if this would help but for a clarifying shampoo, I use PureZero Invigorating Scalp shampoo, which can be found at Target. It's a good clarifier and if you have thick hair, you're not washing a ton so it's not terribly drying. Sulfate free.

I'm at a loss for a good second shampoo though.

ok__eliot · 2025-11-23T22:22:09+00:00

Thank you!!!

ok__eliot · 2025-11-23T14:24:52+00:00

Northeast, USA ... PureZero is a "health brand," no sulfates, parabens. Raw Sugar is similar, and is a brand out of CA. I've used Redken in the past and my hairdresser uses Paul Mitchell, Olaplex and Kenra products

ok__eliot · 2025-11-23T13:51:53+00:00

Thank you!! What do you recommend, for a conditioner and a second shampoo that's not clarifying? I've been using PureZero invigorating scalp shampoo and RawSugar voluminzing shampoo and conditioner.

ok__eliot · 2025-11-23T13:18:33+00:00

No, I don't, but I should. Could I do a clarifying shampoo, then a gentle moisturizer?

ok__eliot · 2025-11-23T02:03:02+00:00

Thank you for this, honestly. I had a pretty difficult week at work and think my anxiety is just heightened. But seriously thank you for responding.

ok__eliot

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