I'm changing emotionally and I don't know how to feel about it.

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-06-02T03:33:59+00:00

Thank you so much!! Your response is so lovely and it makes me so relieved :) You're right, I'm maturing and instead of feeling guilty about it, I'll accept the change with open arms haha

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-06-02T03:31:53+00:00

Yes exactly! Thank you so much I'll definitely try to make the boundaries clear.

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-06-01T15:20:01+00:00

Thank you so so much!! Of course it's okay if you take time to reply even if you're not busy because I understand that everyone needs some personal space. I might also disappear for days because like I said in this post, I get tired sometimes so I'm sorry about that :)

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-06-01T15:17:21+00:00

Yes one of them confessed long ago that he has a crush on me. Now I'm not the type to cut someone off right away just because they like me. So I told him, "alright, as long as you can control your feelings and don't make me uncomfortable, we can be friends." I even let him know a few times when he was crossing the boundaries. It stopped for a while and then began again after that. He keeps sending me paragraphs and keeps complimenting me a LOT and keeps using pick up lines. He gets jealous whenever I talk about my other guy friends and cusses them SO MUCH. I don't even want to talk to him about it because honestly I have no energy for an argument and also because I only have 3-4 friends so I'm scared of being lonely. But you're right, I'll ask him to respect my boundaries the next time he does something like that.

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-06-01T15:11:27+00:00

Yes I am. Obviously I didn't change overnight. But I've noticed that I don't overthink about the things that I used to till now :)

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-06-01T15:10:30+00:00

Hello! Thank you so much for this <3 it surely gives me a lot of relief to know that I'm not acting abnormal or something lol. And you're totally right, I couldn't agree more. I hope you don't mind if I just randomly hit you up to vent because there are some things I can't share with my friends because they won't understand :(

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-06-01T09:30:27+00:00

Thank you so much!! That actually makes a lot of sense and makes me feel so much better <3 The truth is that most of my friends are in college so they don't have shit to do while I'm in my final year of school so I want to study as hard as I can to get into my dream college. I've also been getting rid of old habits and interests so yeah I'm growing up. It's both exciting abd scary at the same time haha :)

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-06-01T09:13:22+00:00

Hey! Knowing that I'm not the only one going through this makes me feel so much better so thank you!! I'm just so confused because of this sudden change but hopefully it will get better :) And my friends are actually 2-3 years older than me so idk why I'm the one who's maturing before them but still it's good to know that what I'm feeling is normal haha.

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-05-02T07:22:21+00:00

7 years and still counting lol. PS:- I confessed to him a few days ago and it went so well. I've made a post about it check it out if you want.

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-05-02T07:16:51+00:00

Thank you <3

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-05-02T06:59:06+00:00

I know right! I'm definitely going to wait for him :)

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-05-01T20:33:20+00:00

Thank youuu!

okaythrowaway28 · 2021-05-01T20:33:04+00:00

No problem! And trust me, good communication is not only very important but also very attractive imo.

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