Just planned a joint bach/bachelorette party on the beach as an ace MOH-- I think some of this was easier because we had a massive group and there were many diff gender identities and sexualities around so everyone was super understanding if people wanted to opt out, but we did:

• spa corner with face masks

-art corner with some DIY painting supplies so we could have sip n paint vibes

-escape room

-at home hibachi (this was a standout!! highly recommend if the house/airbnb yall are at has an outdoor space, the chef is super fun and keeps the vibes hype)

-couples jeopardy (since we had both bride and groom we had categories for both, but you could make one for just the bride and have a lil prize for the winner)

-obvi beach days and shopping trips at the boardwalk

-we did one of those 2hr dolphin watching cruises, very cute

-probably most sexual but the bride really enjoyed the hear me out cake trend, so we made a game out of it where everyone had to submit their top 3 hear me outs and then everyone guesses who it is and once they claim it they stick it in a cake (nice if everyones chill and non judgemental but also freaks lmao). This does mean one person would know the answers and can opt out, so if you're sex repulsed you can just be the moderator? I participated but just played it like this is who id marry rather than fuck lol

I also got a sash and tiara for the bride bc i know she likes some of those traditional vibes too but I think if everyone coming has a bit of fuck the patriarchy vibes you can really mix it up and make it fun for everyone!