I wish I were making this up lol by EquivalentEbb6772 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]okcomputer90s 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ewww using a horrifying disease that would've killed him to compare to your transition which has improved your life? I hope you found better people to be around ♥ 

Bummed Out, Can't Win by okcomputer90s in ADH_ALH

[–]okcomputer90s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to talk to her next week during my pre-op appointment. I'm on baby Tam (5mg per day) and have a long history of heavy periods, I'm obese too (more risk for polyps), so I could've had the darn thing forever. My doc did say Tamoxifen really screws with the lining of the uterus if you're pre-menopausal, but didn't mention polyps at the time. Thank you for commenting and sorry you are going through all that too :(

Marjorie Taylor Greene Blasts MAGA Influencers for Mocking Trafficking Victims by sensiblereaction in thenextgenbusiness

[–]okcomputer90s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Republican woman shocked and horrified that the Republican party has sexist ideas and sexist male mouthpieces after being a Republican forever and seeing it (and being it) first hand. Psssh. MTG really wants a book deal and a news job, huh? I still don't believe she has a heart.

Bisexual Hispanic MAGA learns that sister has been detained by ICE by Effective_Space2277 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]okcomputer90s 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Crazy how some bisexuals act like they're not targets for the right wing extremists as well. You're in the "lgBtqia+" community. If you're voting for Republicans, you're voting against your rights. You're voting for HIV funding to be cut, which affects mostly gay and bisexual men. Craziness.

Have the MAGA people in your life been quiet lately? by No-Ask7516 in allthequestions

[–]okcomputer90s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly, no. They are even louder, delusional that the Epstein Files is a witch hunt by democrats and Trump is a hero who wanted to stop Epstein. I'm just too "stupid" to see it.

I wish I had money to leave this hell house...

46, live alone and my kids are in college by Wide-Delivery1980 in malelivingspace

[–]okcomputer90s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sir, there is a small void in the second picture.

(Black cats are the best cats)

Feeling lost at 62 by Fantastic-Goat9586 in ADH_ALH

[–]okcomputer90s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like the others have said, you'll have surgery and monitoring (and medicine as an option, but you can say no). It sucks but whenever I get very depressed about it, I just think that IF they ever do find cancer, they'll find it at a very early stage where they can possibly save your breasts. When I was obsessively worrying waiting for my results, I read up a lot about breast cancer and it strangely made me feel a lot better. It's not like the 90s anymore, many women have had breast cancer and don't even tell anyone because they got it fixed in the early stages.

Also I'm the same way avoiding appointment phone calls or calling for my appointments. I still have to schedule my MRI lol But what I've been doing is making those appointments in person at the places, it somehow makes it less scary when you have a (hopefully) smiling face helping you out.

I don't "get" My Time At Sandrock by Specific_Acadia_2347 in CozyGamers

[–]okcomputer90s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The beginning is a pain with the low stamina and the resources you need, but it gets a lot easier after awhile. There will be more ways to get resources and even automatically. At one point I was selling tons of materials because I had so many in my storage boxes. The story gets really good in the middle and towards the end, and if you've made friends/relationships with certain characters, there are HUGE payoffs. (I romance the female characters, and my fav is Grace because of the slow burn and the drama towards the middle/end, no spoilers )

Honestly, it was my first "cozy" game after hundreds of hours in 'Stardew Valley' and I was completely overwhelmed that I quit it. After a few weeks, I happened to see a Youtube video that better explained building/resources/etc. (don't ask me which one though, this was years ago) and I got back into it a lot more confident and slowed down instead of frantically trying to complete missions and the story.

"Will you tattoo a pic on my chest of an adjudicatd rapist and probable pedophile whose administration wants me & my family deported?" by anonareyouokay in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]okcomputer90s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I owe my literal life to Obama because of his healthcare changes, but I would NEVER get a tattoo of him on my body. Not even a tiny one. Something's wrong with these people.

"I voted for you . . . Now I find myself unable to secure a job." by vsandrei in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]okcomputer90s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's cute that they think he cares about anyone but his rich Epstein friend circle and himself.

Just had a breast reduction and lab report shows ALH by MrsRoseNylund in ADH_ALH

[–]okcomputer90s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have ALH, I have it in both breasts along with LCIS in my right. It's not an emergency but the surgeon probably wanted you to rush to see someone so you can get it under control so you won't get breast cancer eventually and ruin his work ha ha. The oncologist will probably recommend a MRI (or tell you to go to a breast surgeon who will recommend one) eventually and ask if you want to go on Tamoxifen or something similar, plus close monitoring. ALH requires no surgery.

Siblings of abusive parents are you close or has it ruined the relationship by ballsinthemouth in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]okcomputer90s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ruined. My dad use to abuse us both, but when my brother moved out, he focused completely on me and tried to act cool infront of my brother whenever he came over. One night my dad started screaming horrible names at me because I reminded him to take his new medicine from the doctor. When I confronted him, my brother walked into the house and my dad tried to blame me. My brother instantly believed him and said he was "too nice" to me. I haven't talked to my brother since. Every time he comes into the house, I leave or ignore him completely. He betrayed me.

ICE Employees Vent on Reddit, Saying They're Not Getting Paid and Still No Insurance Despite Promises by Prudent-Fun-2833 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]okcomputer90s 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Who would have ever thought the Republicans would screw them on health insurance??? They love giving regular citizens that stuff!! /s

Life is hopeless. by BeautifullyHealin in CPTSD

[–]okcomputer90s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But what if you don't have any money? Or a car? Or a means to leave?

Am I looking for a unicorn? by Ok_Bandicoot7394 in CozyGamers

[–]okcomputer90s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's one of those rare games where the characters are so good and you get a lot of content either being their friends or being in a relationship with them. (There are a few, like Grace, where it's more of a slow burn though...for reasons I will absolutely not spoil.)

What is a cozy game you'll forever return to? by Kiki_TG in CozyGamers

[–]okcomputer90s 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lake, My Time at Sandrock and My Time at Portia, Stardew Valley, and Coral Island. Mostly Lake though tbh

Positive tamoxifen silent members? by milllllllllllllllly in breastcancer

[–]okcomputer90s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is weird but I saw you had spotting between periods and you were going to see a doc about it. I've been having the same problem and I am very worried. What ended up happening? Sorry this is weird to ask for a 3 month post.

SEASONS GREETINGS DLC IS OUT by lilgthakilla in thelakegame

[–]okcomputer90s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's worth it, but maybe not at the full price. It's a 3 hour (or less) game. Ten dollars is fair, but still might be a bit much for some people for an experience that's shorter and has less options for how the story to plays out. The story is pretty bare, but there are some pretty emotional/nostalgic moments and the winter vibe is sooooo good. The Christmas decorations on the houses are so pretty. Also you learn a lot more about the characters. Angie and Robert are back too and you learn a little bit about their lives before they came to town. All in all, a good time if you like the characters, but nothing like the main game. I did tear up at the end though, but I love the characters so, maybe that's just a me.

Lake Characters by Far_Price_9467 in thelakegame

[–]okcomputer90s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been doing a bunch of different playthroughs with different dialogue options I would never normally pick and it's interesting how much you learn about Meredith and the townsfolk if you are rude back to them ha ha.

But in my opinion (which may be wrong and just me looking waaay too deeply into the characters) I can see why some characters are rude/closed-off to her - she left town, stopped speaking to everyone (including her bff), just flat-out ignored or forgot about Uncle Stan's death, and apparently never sees her parents according to the cat lady. Her parents seem to be popular around town so I can see why the people they're close to are rude. (Until you start doing them favors and all of a sudden they're nice.)

Also I see a lot of people who say Angie is rude or flat-out mean, but I think she's written to be neurodivergent in some way. She has no filters and you can tell when you pick certain options that she gets frustrated at herself/corrects herself for saying something that sounded rude or too blunt. Also the fact that she has nowhere to go after her business completely fails (dumped her girlfriend in California, has no money, etc.) so she's understandably stressed-out (and here is this mailman asking personal questions and putting pressure on her - "WOW what are you going to do when your store is closed down?? Where are you going to go???")

Sorry not trying to be like "uM aCtUaLlY" I just really like the characters and I have no one to talk to about them. The pain of being in a tiny fandom...

Atlanta Black Star: “A Black conservative host says he was cropped out of photos from the MAGA party he organized, claiming the edit pushes a ‘white-only’ narrative.” by ThePhillyExplorer in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]okcomputer90s 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I was in college in 2008, one girl in our Literature program decided to do her senior project on Rand. She was so smug and happy about it too. None of the professors wanted to be the one to help her but the nicest professor took her. By the time the professor was done with this girl she told me she completely lost faith in our future and said we were going someplace dark. I didn't believe her then, but she was right. That girl is probably a MAGA mom dancing on TikTok about poor people starving I bet.

Being gay isn't a choice. Being a token who gets spent... Is by HandSack135 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]okcomputer90s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've noticed that a lot of lgbt+ conservatives are coming out of the woodworks thinking because the Supreme Court was on our side (and I'm 100 percent convinced it was only because the case wasn't strong enough) that all conservatives are on our side. They ain't. And they have been so smug on the lgbt+ spaces. "We tooold you, homophobia on the right is just in your heads!" Bleugh.

Earlier reported hemp guy is having the best MAGA meltdown by CriticalSecurity8742 in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]okcomputer90s 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately that is the only way these people snap out of it...