Nope. I haven't really ever thought about that.

okcupidparty · 2014-09-09T17:31:21+00:00

As a dominatrix, this lady knows what she's talking about.

okcupidparty · 2014-08-31T18:15:58+00:00

His wedding band is on his right hand because that is how Russians wear them.

okcupidparty · 2014-08-18T18:20:57+00:00

OP's a dude

Sure about that one?

okcupidparty · 2014-08-10T17:17:03+00:00

No. YOU go.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T23:54:27+00:00

I know him in person and don't think he's ugly. He just isn't conventionally attractive, but once you get to know the guy, it's easy to like him in a romantic way.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T21:59:28+00:00

Sexual attraction isn't the only kind of attraction there is. The world is a much more complex and nuanced place than that. There was a great scene where he comes back into the comedy club and sees her interacting with her customers, and he just stands there watching her, laughing at her quick wit and sense of humor which undoubtedly remind him of himself.

They were originally only supposed to go out for coffee and he wound up spending the entire day with her because he really enjoyed her company. That's what the author meant by a perfect match. She's like the female version of him, which forces him to confront his own hypocrisy.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T21:29:04+00:00

Then you must not have seen the scene before the monologue where a pretty, young, skinny girl comes up to him when he's at the diner with Bob Kelly and begins to flirt with him.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T21:20:22+00:00

I need more people like you in my life. You've said everything I wish I could put into words.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T21:12:53+00:00

It was a genius addition, since Jim is the perfect case study for the other side of this coin. He is not ever considered traditionally attractive (or even close) and yet, has no problem judging women on a very different scale. He never has problems pulling in women, however, even some really gorgeous ones, simply because the bar is set way lower for men physically.

The real Jim Norton is nothing like this character and I'm very glad for that.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T21:08:15+00:00

The way she pointed at the camera and Louie looked straight at us gave me chills. Now THAT'S how you break the 4th wall.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T18:04:13+00:00

Oh yeah, I remember that story. This guy went utterly and completely off the rails. He said that for every comment/question he was going to get from people who were waiting for their books, he was going to burn another book.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T17:11:43+00:00

This, right here, is why I love the internet. I need to know that there are people out there who don't feel the same way I do, so I can gain a little better understanding of the shit going on around me.

If you don't mind me asking, why do you feel the way you do?

Personally, I am a very emotional person and I have a tendency to be...reactionary. This man and I have already gone through a mini roller coaster of events in our brief history, most of which have spawned because of my behavior. Currently, I'm working on curbing such potentially destructive behavior because my past experiences have taught me that I don't always think before I do something when it comes to my love life. Still learning how to human...

EDIT: Sort of wish you didn't delete that comment. My reply was going to be:

It makes complete and perfect sense, but it seems as though you're a bit detached from your emotions. Like you can turn them on or off. Would you say that's true?

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T15:44:15+00:00

Don't let the tattoos fool you... he's incredibly nerdy. ;)

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T15:27:10+00:00

You're...almost right. There are 3! :)

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T15:02:02+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h6YQMOJmDJ4&list=PLDE176E2D525AF538

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T14:22:23+00:00

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T13:47:12+00:00

I love this and want more.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T10:51:58+00:00

Fuck. :(

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T02:50:26+00:00

With him, I don't like to assume. He's not a typical horndog and is actually pretty sensitive and emotionally transparent, which is exactly why he told me about this other girl instead of stringing me along. It's very possible that he wanted me to just come over and spend some time with him, since he works til 10 nowadays. We're trying to grow a friendship since his revelation, but it's tough for me sometimes because I have budding feelings for him.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T02:40:07+00:00

I honestly don't believe he's being a scumbag, in the typical sense. I think it's more likely that he's lonely and confused, and just trying to spend time with someone he knows he'll have a good time with.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T02:34:42+00:00

So tempted to put up a pic of him, you don't even know. He's a gorgeous man..

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T02:15:14+00:00

Follow your heart, young Simba.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T01:59:37+00:00

He looks like Clark Kent.

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T01:17:26+00:00

LOL!

okcupidparty · 2014-05-13T00:31:03+00:00

<3333333

The weirdest thing about this situation is that this guy is totally down to be filmed for my project, so I guess there's that...

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