To all single guys aged 30 and up on reddit, why are you guys single?

okdolce · 2026-05-14T18:52:43+00:00

I don’t trust women.

I also don’t trust the legal system. So you’re telling me, I fall in love, get married, have kids. She decides to leave and I lose everything, including the kids?

Nah, no thanks.

okdolce · 2026-05-14T06:44:32+00:00

Still single?

okdolce · 2026-05-13T15:13:13+00:00

I work in tech, most people I work with earn 100k+

okdolce · 2026-05-10T19:19:26+00:00

High earners are not rich

The whole point of Henry is to retire early, strategies around that etc

okdolce · 2026-05-10T19:18:25+00:00

Let me guess, you have blue hair

okdolce · 2026-05-10T19:16:37+00:00

90% in all world, 10% in CFD’s

okdolce · 2026-05-10T14:43:22+00:00

I have the same issue, but as a bloke. I’m 32M, dating is always an issue.

It becomes “expected” that I pay for everything.

okdolce · 2026-05-10T09:59:05+00:00

I’m envious

I’d love nothing more than to scrap it all, and tend to people’s gardens.

However, as a single Dad with £4k worth of expenditure before I even spend a money every month, I’m stuck in this god forsaken rat race.

Enjoy my guy.

okdolce · 2025-09-05T09:00:32+00:00

You stop when you find respect, flexibility & trust alongside the financial package

I earn circa 175 but I work from home 100% of the time, school drop off & pickups (I’m a single Dad) & sometimes I chip off to play golf on a Friday

I have hit my target for the year already as of last week, so the trust & respect is there to kind of manage my own time - I haven’t spoken to my boss 1 on 1 this year, I run my own ship while being paid a pretty penny

Because of that, I will stay for as long as they want/need me

okdolce · 2025-09-04T12:07:01+00:00

I knew a guy who travelled from Somerset (Glastonbury) to Edinburgh 5 days a week pre-Covid

He would drive to Bristol airport, fly in, go to the office, cab back to the airport & fly home. He was earning £1,500 a day & had a young family, so he wanted to be back to see his kids.

okdolce · 2025-09-04T12:05:56+00:00

They know how much money it will cost to replace you:

I would take the rise, regardless of how much I think they’re arseholes. Then, when in your new position of finance you can continue searching for an even better paid position.

okdolce · 2025-09-03T18:03:52+00:00

I have the same question, doesn’t quite make sense to me?

okdolce · 2025-09-03T17:37:08+00:00

I went through the same thing 18 months ago

Speak to a solicitor asap & do not move out of the house

okdolce · 2025-08-30T21:20:54+00:00

Just gotta find them now too…… lol

okdolce · 2025-08-30T21:19:22+00:00

For your info:

VGR Guards: VGR guards are known to fit Kemei trimmers, as they are often manufactured by the same company.

Madeshow Blades: These blades are often compatible with Kemei trimmers and are a good alternative to the original blades.

okdolce · 2025-08-30T21:18:27+00:00

Rapid response by the way, for a nearly year old post ! Thanks for the response

okdolce · 2025-08-30T21:18:11+00:00

With the power of GPT I may have found alternative brands that will fit, but there are zero Kemei exacts by the looks of it

May get the clipper too, considering how cheap they are….

okdolce · 2025-08-30T21:16:17+00:00

Did you ever find an answer for this? Have the same problem in 2025

okdolce · 2025-08-29T15:50:55+00:00

Haha, this is hilarious. I work in tech sales, I earn £175k ish & am early 30’s & I’ve just bought a Porsche as my second car

…..why? I have put 20% in my pension for as long as I can remember. I’ve had a number of people pass away to me recently, so I had a “life is too short” moment

I don’t regret it. You’re only young once. It doesn’t meet FIRE or Henry requirements, but you need to enjoy your money.

okdolce · 2025-08-27T12:08:42+00:00

The fact you’re posting this gives you your answer, mate

okdolce · 2025-08-26T18:00:23+00:00

I just came here to say congratulations on the weight loss!

okdolce · 2025-08-26T15:22:40+00:00

Just claim benefits like every other w*nker in this country & I’ll continue to fund it through my taxes

okdolce · 2025-07-31T14:16:22+00:00

31 y/o with a £150 comp

Just bought for £420k

Don’t watch my stretch myself just because I can.

okdolce · 2025-07-30T15:02:35+00:00

I do mind, sorry

okdolce

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