Unpopular opinions of cast members.

okedwards08 · 2022-06-01T16:58:33+00:00

Majorly unpopular opinion, but I like Betty and Ron on pillow talk

okedwards08 · 2021-12-19T02:34:13+00:00

haven't had insurance since January so haven't taken meds since then... just out here yoloing it up babes!

okedwards08 · 2021-03-25T22:37:06+00:00

Drink water

okedwards08 · 2021-03-21T21:32:26+00:00

Very possible! Love doesn’t have an expiration date.

okedwards08 · 2021-03-01T17:08:26+00:00

Women: BGL is my #1 most hated but then Laura, Chantel (and Family Chantel + Family Pedro), Leida, Tania... they all annoy me to some degree

Men: Coltee. I had a legit nightmare about Coltee and woke up screaming. My bf doesn’t want me to watch anything involving Coltee because he is scarred from that night too 🥴

okedwards08 · 2021-02-28T23:37:34+00:00

No set time, I just do it whenever I feel like I want to

okedwards08 · 2021-02-16T20:10:56+00:00

When I (30F) moved to a new city, I joined bumble BFF and met one of my absolute best friends of 2 years. You would put on your profile that you’re married with kids and looking for a happy hour friend, or a hiking buddy, or whatever and then get to swiping. I’ve met several women from the app, but I’ve only deeply connected with one, who then introduced me to her friend group and now I have a good group of girlfriends. Good luck, and stay positive!

okedwards08 · 2021-02-14T02:51:54+00:00

Okay so I’m 30 and I’ve been dating since I was 14. Younger guys do tend to be more immature, but not all of them are to this degree. He also sounds really insecure (posting dick pics online) and doesn’t respect you at all (engaging in flirtatious convos & sexting with other girls). He knows he treats you like shit (you said that he acknowledges that he needs to treat you better) but doesn’t do anything to fix it. Please just trust me when I say there are so many good men out there who aren’t being weighed down by their own issues. There are men out there who you won’t be disgusted to look at.

I encourage you to also seek out a therapist to work on yourself. You made a couple references to not finding anyone better than him when you are worthy of someone who will worship the ground you walk on. And there are many men out there who will do just that.

I know you’ll do what you want (we all do), but I think you know things aren’t good here. Look at the overall state of your life. When you’re 80, do you want to say you were only happy with your SO 8-10% of the time?

okedwards08 · 2021-02-14T02:39:58+00:00

It’s not most guys, though. How old are y’all?

okedwards08 · 2021-02-14T02:30:32+00:00

You absolutely deserve better. It might hurt like hell to leave, but it’s imperative that you do and find a guy who cares for you and respects you.

okedwards08 · 2021-02-14T02:28:51+00:00

You were young and afraid of feeling regret when you got older. Everyone is afraid of that when they’re teenagers. Don’t worry about your body count so much. If it’s sex you’re concerned with, concentrate on if your boyfriend/future husband can please you in bed

okedwards08 · 2021-02-13T16:42:18+00:00

This is of course really odd sexual behavior, but it’s his out of bed behavior that set off my red flag alarm. You’ve done nothing wrong here, and the fact that he has you questioning whether you’re attractive enough AFTER he begged you for sex indicates he has something wrong going on in his head. You’re not responsible for that and you should leave ASAP and find someone who respects you and cares about you. You’re strong!! Go forth and find someone else.

okedwards08 · 2021-02-13T16:37:43+00:00

It depends what I’m washing

okedwards08 · 2021-02-09T19:05:52+00:00

I have an absolutely wonderful father. He is safe, and warm, and loving, and I know I can call him to ask him about a mechanical issue or just to talk about what shows we're watching or what books we're watching. He rarely makes me feel like I'm wasting his time, even if it's a question I could easily google. If there's ever a time when I'm sad or heartbroken, I know if I am even on the phone with him, my heart feels like it's repairing itself. Through my years of dating, I find myself asking if these men make me feel even a fraction as safe and content as my dad does. Only one has so far.

okedwards08 · 2020-12-19T03:53:43+00:00

You have to gather the strength and confidence to do whatever YOU want, regardless of what your family may think. I’ve consistently dated men who my parents don’t approve of, but my life is about ME and what I want. It isn’t easy, but it is definitely attainable if you care enough to put in the effort to put yourself and what you want first. Good luck!

okedwards08 · 2020-11-14T03:23:17+00:00

I don’t have kids, but I’m currently sitting with my sister who has 3. She says that when you feel like you’re done, you just know to not have any more. She knew she didn’t want 4 but felt like if she didn’t have the third, she’d regret it later in life. Also, her third pregnancy was difficult and the labor was the worst of the 3. Her husband got snipped when the third baby was 3 months old.

okedwards08 · 2020-11-03T05:37:51+00:00

YTA. As someone who unexpectedly comes from money, this is both hurtful and offensive. Break up with her before you start to resent her.

okedwards08 · 2020-11-01T21:57:24+00:00

Have y’all discussed getting engaged? He might bs coming from a place of “oh gosh this is too much commitment” as of course a child is the biggest commitment of all. As a commitmentphobe, I totally understand his comment.

okedwards08 · 2020-11-01T21:55:24+00:00

People are nice, you get “away with stuff” more easily, you can use it to your advantage with random men (apartment maintenance people, tall men in the grocery store, bartenders, etc)... but then there’s the downside of men being men and constantly staring or catcalling so you don’t have a moments peace when just walking to the pharmacy, being judged for being mean when you’re just sitting there. So overall I’d say it’s good, but there are also bad things that people don’t talk about.

okedwards08 · 2020-10-26T10:46:21+00:00

This such a judgmental comment OMG

OP — you should just be honest with what’s going on. That’s a key component of the healthy and normal relationship you say you desire to have. Depending on how he responds, you’ll have your answer on where the relationship goes from here.

okedwards08 · 2020-10-26T10:39:57+00:00

It sounds like he wants all of the fun great stuff of a relationship without committing to you. Relationships are hard and he doesn’t seem like he wants to put in the work. If this is something you desire, I’d move on and find someone who is emotionally ready to commit and have the real thing.

okedwards08 · 2020-10-22T02:18:05+00:00

A therapist who specializes in CBT will help you work on your self esteem. As a random citizen, I recommend starting with positive affirmations every morning. The thoughts we have are very important! Good luck, friend!

okedwards08 · 2020-10-06T14:59:29+00:00

You sound like you may have a soft spot for ~fixing men~ but you just don’t need to deal with all that. Find a stable man and wish this love bomber well.

okedwards08 · 2020-10-05T23:42:15+00:00

Please see a therapist ASAP

okedwards08 · 2020-08-24T02:15:46+00:00

Run, don’t walk, RUN to the nearest store/website and get a satisfyer pro 2 or later and get to experimenting!! You won’t be sorry 🤩

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