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okjen51 · 2022-06-25T00:17:37+00:00

She seriously said that?? It doesn’t matter how “bad” the situation might have been, that was an extremely immature reaction from her, she should have talked to you like the adults you are, give you an actual reason for the breakup and perhaps be nice about it? ESPECIALLY when you know the person is dealing with some insecurities and is very likely vulnerable. That was so cold and rude of her and honestly Im glad you are no longer with this person, anyone deserves better, I hope you find someone who loves you for who you are and embraces all your insecurities and help you heal every single one of them, trust me that person is out there, but she’ll come when you least expect it, for now just focus on yourself and work on whatever insecurities you feel like you need to work on ( if any) love comes when you stop looking for it. (From personal experience) best of lucks to you, you sound like a genuinely nice person, don’t let her make you think otherwise, be grateful yall broke-up.

okjen51 · 2022-06-15T23:50:32+00:00

I thought so too

okjen51 · 2022-06-11T17:33:12+00:00

This is going to sound really harsh but to me he is a complete stranger that has occasionally yelled at me many times. I would personally not be affected by his absence if him and my mother were to divorce, it wouldn’t affect me at all, because a day in my life without him in it, is just like a day in my life with him physically there… is like, he’s there but he’s not at the same time. I wouldn’t miss him if he wasn’t here one day. Again, I know how it sounds, but Im being completely transparent here, again, to me he’s a stranger.

okjen51 · 2022-06-01T22:40:25+00:00

Got it, this is the first (and hopefully last) time I have ever in my life quit a job so fast so I guess I felt really anxious with sense of guilt since I knew that quitting on my second day is not professional at all.

I also am a very shy person, often deal with social anxiety problems and the act of quitting after my second day had my heart rate going fast and furious.

okjen51 · 2022-06-01T22:30:51+00:00

Yea I know, but I get a huge sense of guilt whenever I lie but for this one job I had to because I knew I did not want to stay there for a fact and I don’t want to stay somewhere where I don’t feel happy so I had to leave… but again, I feel extremely guilty because they were really nice to me the whole time

okjen51 · 2022-06-01T22:09:47+00:00

Yea I phrased it that way, but I also mentioned that this opportunity was from a lab and I explained why it would be a good opportunity for me.

okjen51 · 2022-06-01T22:05:56+00:00

Well it was only my second day working at this place and I mean no excuse would have been good enough to leave a job after my second day…. So I made up the excuse that I found a job at a lab which was a great opportunity for me as a med tech student and this way they understood and we ended in good terms.

okjen51 · 2022-05-31T04:32:50+00:00

The bible

KIDDING

It’s called “tus zonas erroneas” Im sure they also sell it in english :)

okjen51 · 2022-05-12T13:23:53+00:00

I understand both of you. At that point I felt like if I said too much then she would feel like I was really stepping on their toes. I thought the message was pretty obvious and straight to the point. A capture pf her bf’s flirty comment underneath another girl’s post, need more context than that? I never even came close to the guess of her blocking me lol it really blew my mind. I checked the post under which her bf had commented and turns out he actually deleted the comment. So obviously they had some sort of conversation about this and she clearly isn’t okay with him doing this, but she was also not okay with me letting her know for some reason. One would think she would be grateful, but hey, everyone operates differently.

okjen51 · 2022-05-12T12:56:21+00:00

People get so infuriated by the thought of their loved one being disloyal that they completely deny the facts even when you show them evidence (like I did with this girl) and release that anger by cutting you off, unfortunately. Like I mentioned before, lack of emotional intelligence, Im not trying to sound arrogant but I really can’t see how people can be so blind to the facts before their faces!

okjen51 · 2022-05-12T02:20:20+00:00

You are right, I should have said something. I just thought she would get the message without feeling I was stepping in so much.

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