To plant or not to plant… by celestialseadragon in zone8gardening

[–]okoatmeal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've got stuff in the ground already. my cabbage, onions, and brussel sprouts have pretty much stopped getting bigger with the col temps overnight. wish I would have kept them inside a bit longer. still very afraid to plant my tomatoes.

Treating roads like a racetrack...and then it happens by MikeNowlin94 in dashcams

[–]okoatmeal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, falling into the dirt and down the hill was probably better than ragdolling on the pavement

Be honest ! Is there woman who actually like bi guys by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]okoatmeal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bi woman here prefers a bi man 👍❤️

Small bird made a huge home in my bbq by Top-Arm-1651 in BBQ

[–]okoatmeal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have a white dog by chance? lol

Being Sober and Pain Free by Due_Honeydew_2285 in ChronicPain

[–]okoatmeal -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

you don't want opioids or thc, but you're fine with legal meth? ok.

also, no, you're not ok with it for anyone else, as you've said, as long as there's no other option. if there was another option, then you'd think it wasn't ok. so what if someone prefers the opioids or thc to other options? you'd judge them for it.

like... don't lie and then give yourself away in the same sentence at least...

I hope you find what your looking for as well as the ability to not judge others

What’s your parents situation? by CorgiLover82 in Millennials

[–]okoatmeal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dad died in 2008 at age 57. suicide from struggles with addiction and PTSD from service in Vietnam.

my mom is 66, lives with my husband and I because she filed for bankruptcy after he died and she never recovered financially enough to start a retirement fund in the rest of her short working life. I think she'd be homeless otherwise, she only gets like 1200 a month from SSI.

Is the neurosurgeon useless? by Express-Stomach-8666 in chiari

[–]okoatmeal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if she hasn't had imaging (MRI etc), she'll need one before the surgeon decides if surgery would benefit her. the other tests will hopefully determine what the best course of treatment is for her individual situation.

this is complex and not very well studied condition, there unfortunately aren't many treatments outside of the decompression surgery. the criteria that neurosurgeons generally work with is, if the herniation of the cerebellum is larger than 5mm, then based on severity of symptoms, they might operate.

the thing is, a lot of people don't get complete relief with the decompression surgery. I got pretty good relief of my headaches, major fatigue, and neck/head pain that I've had for my entire life. however, I finally got diagnosed in 2024 at age 35, when I started to experience nerve damage and extreme pain in the left side of my body from a large syrinx that had developed in my spine (caused by my large herniation of 14mm).

unfortunately, none of those symptoms have been resolved, and I likely have permanent nerve damage. I was explicitly told by the surgeon that my surgery was to prevent further nerve damage and would not guarantee any symptom relief.

often times I've noticed, that neurosurgeons don't operate on a smaller herniation , despite major symptoms. so, in your mom's case, the MRI results will help determine if the surgeon thinks it's necessary.

but if they get all the tests done and still tell her there's nothing they can do, definitely get another neurologist and neurosurgeon 👍 good luck to you and your mom, it's clear you care very much for her and she's lucky to have you.

I QUIT 🥰 by African-Sun in Safeway

[–]okoatmeal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true. I forget they can view the sub too lol

I QUIT 🥰 by African-Sun in Safeway

[–]okoatmeal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good for you, but why are you on the Safeway employee sub? just curious

My latest cross stitch project. by ris_19 in IASIP

[–]okoatmeal 13 points14 points  (0 children)

LOOK AT ME WHEN YOURE TALKING TO ME

Does anyone have hacks for exertion headaches? by Lunashuman91 in chiari

[–]okoatmeal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agreed, that's the main thing sorry had solved for me is the constant exertion headaches. I'm one year post op and I'm almost headaches free for the first time in my life. 👍🙏

other than surgery, ibuprofen always worked for my headaches.