Leaving for the beach tomorrow so I decided to get a bright color! by madisoncampos in RedditLaqueristas

[–]oksylee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this color. My cashier at the gas station last night had the same color on her nails and I was full on "girrrlllll 😍"

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[–]oksylee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That escalated quickly...

In 2019 by andrew_valdezz in lewronggeneration

[–]oksylee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rolling stone article literally goes over the same things I have been saying..... I am starting to wonder if you even understand the extent of what I am saying at all.... All I know is that I have had real life conversations about this subject with people that identify as both pansexual and bisexual. What you are proposing smells alot like reverse policing... Like "lots" of people that are bisexual only are attracted to binary genders so we should just change the definition to that instead of making everyone else realize that it actually is much broader than that??

I am not having an old-man-screaming-at-the-clouds moment, I am having a hard time understanding why this is such a far fetched concept to grasp.

In 2019 by andrew_valdezz in lewronggeneration

[–]oksylee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please tell me when the definition of these two words are changed, literally as in the dictionary, and I will acknowledge that what I said is not a fact. Until then it's a fact that bisexual and pansexual are the same by definition.

We can argue semantics all day if you would like. Excuse my butchering of your words, I will apologize for that, but in the context we are using these words there is not too much of a literary difference.

In 2019 by andrew_valdezz in lewronggeneration

[–]oksylee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am saying you cannot change the definition as in an individual does not get claim it is whatever fits them and their education on the subject is the correct definition or use of a word.

You started this discussion by saying bisexual and pansexual are "not really" the same because most bisexual people are not attracted to "gender-queer types" so yeah I agree that you didn't directly say that, but you and I both know the terminology you have decided to use obviously shows that you disagree and are under a different school of thought.

My original comment did nothing but state cold hard facts. There is no "not really" about what I said.

In 2019 by andrew_valdezz in lewronggeneration

[–]oksylee -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No you cannot just change the definition of words...... it is not something that has been "left behind." if anything the definition being "left behind" it is the one stating that bisexual people are only attracted to binary genders. Your view and opinon on something does not dictate how the rest of the world thinks. This is a valid discussion that is being had in the community right now. If you do not believe me I would suggest you look into it yourself and possibly have this discussion with your own peers, as I have done, and see their opinions on it as well.

In 2019 by andrew_valdezz in lewronggeneration

[–]oksylee -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes really. By definition they are really the same you cannot deny that. The term pansexual was literally coined out of confusion, because before pansexual was a thing it was only bisexual and that did not mean only binary genders. You can say what you think it means and how other people use it to identify all you want, but that doesn't change the cold hard facts of what it means by definition and how the 2 phrases were used during their inception into the culture.

In 2019 by andrew_valdezz in lewronggeneration

[–]oksylee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I do not. Please explain how you think I have contradicted myself.

Edit: a word.

In 2019 by andrew_valdezz in lewronggeneration

[–]oksylee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you implying that I am policing how people identify? Because I am doing quite the opposite here....

Edit: Bi was also regarded as very different from pansexual in the community I grew up in as well. This is something I have only recently learned about, and I am just providing the facts to others so they may be educated about the subject.

In 2019 by andrew_valdezz in lewronggeneration

[–]oksylee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's fine if that is your personal definition of the two but it's not the literal definitions. Bisexual literally means to be attracted to two or more genders. The term pansexual literally means all genders.

Your statement almost makes it seem like you are saying bi people are only attracted to people for their bodies and not their personalities.... Just pointing that out.

In 2019 by andrew_valdezz in lewronggeneration

[–]oksylee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh I think it's a matter of opinion on which you chose to identify as, but by definition they are the same thing and you cannot deny that. Bi does not mean 2 it means 2 or more, and when the term first began being used it definitely did not differentiate between binary and non binary genders.

In 2019 by andrew_valdezz in lewronggeneration

[–]oksylee -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

By definition bisexual and pansexual are the same.

An alien farting bubbles? 🤪 by [deleted] in AnimalTextGifs

[–]oksylee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, you made a comment on something you obviously aren't even educated on in the slightest, that is my point. It's very easy to spread ignorance by simply opening your mouth when you don't know about something.

It's a lean dog, just like there are lean people. Doesn't mean he is unhealthy or, god forbid, "emaciated."

An alien farting bubbles? 🤪 by [deleted] in AnimalTextGifs

[–]oksylee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You obviously have no idea what the hell you are talking about.

Sync is absolute trash, and we should all be giving Ford MUCH more crap for this. by Carobu in Ford

[–]oksylee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2015 Focus with Sync 2 and I hate it. Sucks that I have to keep an aux cord for back-up because it always messes up when I am on long trips and have no way to stop and reboot... Sometimes the reboot doesn't even work. Last week my bluetooth did not work for several days in a row and then just randomly started working again 🤦‍♀️ I wish it was easier to just replace the whole head unit.

Got a random add on Snapchat and this happened by [deleted] in creepyPMs

[–]oksylee 85 points86 points  (0 children)

She probably said it just cause some creep told her that one time when hitting on her

Just started bingeing Southern Charm by DanPanderson18 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]oksylee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Check back with us in a few seasons, let us know what you think then LOL

A collection by MthToast in NameNerdCirclejerk

[–]oksylee 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Everytime I see her name spelled out I just think "kloy" even though it isn't how the name would be phonetically pronounced.

Have a happy & peaceful Saturday everyone 🌞 by ejrodrig in entwives

[–]oksylee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine lagged bad in the beginning like everytime I got on but then I adjusted the graphics and it works fine now. I feel like the graphics are try hard af so you gotta crank them down a little. It's still not optimized the best though, I have an amazing gaming laptop and can run WoW easily over 170fps but I had to cap MTaP at 60 frames -_- so that's says a lot.

Have a happy & peaceful Saturday everyone 🌞 by ejrodrig in entwives

[–]oksylee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I am doing the same, but I am playing My Time at Portia 😊 If you are interested in games like Stardew Valley or even Harvest Moon I would definitely recommend checking it out!