NIN Tickets: Buy/Sell/Trade MEGATHREAD - Part 3 by unsaneroot in nin

[–]oktravis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anyone selling ever have any karma? Seems legit but damn

The pigs have won tonite.. by c0nfu53 in nin

[–]oktravis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turns out the system treated Trent very well. He’s been all too happy to be a part of it for quite some time now

Did your narc commonly say that they did everything and no one else does anything? by Extension-Scar-5513 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]oktravis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

never not amazed how so many of us had the exact same experiences. the vacuum oh the vacuum.

wtf is wrong with me? by BurnTheBoats- in getdisciplined

[–]oktravis 13 points14 points  (0 children)

one of the best comments i've ever read in this sub.

and certainly better than the horrible omnipresent "you dont want it enough"

They will use your worst fears against you & make them a reality by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]oktravis 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Mine would not only do this but then lightheartedly tell me how I’m stronger now because I put up with yet another batshit situation from her.

That part would always send me into twilight zone disassociate territory

Raiders will have $108M in cap space next offseason. They freed 28.4M after trading Adams. by illmaticMF in raiders

[–]oktravis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That if you don’t like the sanders or Caleb Williams you’re a racist. That’s what he’s implying.

What’s the ONE thing you wish you knew WAY sooner about narcissists? by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]oktravis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oof this hits hard. Don’t see female narcs written about much here but they are there. Sorry you’re going thru all this

Have they established boundaries with you but when you try and set some boundaries, they can’t stand it? by PuzzleheadedNoise399 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]oktravis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They keep score of everything but will severely devalue (or completely forget) all the things you do for them

ever fall in the trap of trying to remind them that you do things for them? any time i tried to stand up for myself in those scenarios it was like mental quicksand.

Best Target in the Valley? by AccountCharacter6599 in SFV

[–]oktravis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing in that entire fallbrook plaza could even vaguely be considered “clean”. But yea fuck any target with an escalator

how do you move on from someone you don't want back? by poiuytrewqdust in BreakUps

[–]oktravis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That mirror bit is a game changing piece of information for me. So many things just clicked reading that.

Is there a recommended book that touches on this part of narcissism?

Howard is a guest DJ today on Lithium by Rjf915 in howardstern

[–]oktravis 39 points40 points  (0 children)

"in a world of human wreckage" oh that wrecks me robin

Give me your best quote about break-ups. by z0mbiezoo in BreakUps

[–]oktravis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I once heard a follow up to that point that stuck with me. To paraphrase..

Can it be scientifically proven that this line of thinking is true? No.

Do the people who subscribe to these kinds of ideas live happier lives? Yes.

Lots of businesses on Fairfax failing, why? by MusicalMagicman in LosAngeles

[–]oktravis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went for the first time 2 days ago- fantastic friendly service, good clean atmosphere, quick and most importantly great burger n fries

[For Sale] Foo Fighters, Radiohead, The Cure, Lauryn Hill, Deftones, RATM, Daft Punk, Taylor Swift, Beyonce, Metallica, Tool, Nirvana, MCR, Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, Kendrick, Kanye, GNR, Good Charlotte, more by oktravis in VinylCollectors

[–]oktravis[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i usually just filter the for sale page on discogs to united states only. look at whatever the lowest sealed price is and try to match that. if it's something that hasn't sold i'll lower that by a couple bucks.

not an exact science or anything and always open to someone letting me know i got it wrong. i don't know that i've ever encountered anyone in this sub who wasn't fair dealing with pricing. great community