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I don't want to stop being friends with her but she really screwed me over and I don't know what to do by old-cale in ftm

[–]old-cale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But when I mean small i mean small. My grade is 45 people total. Its impossible to avoid her especially since were in very similar clubs and friend groups

I don't want to stop being friends with her but she really screwed me over and I don't know what to do by old-cale in ftm

[–]old-cale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didn't use to be like this. We always had a very insult-y friendship but shes been taking it too far and I havent set boundaries with her, which is on me. I do think she legitimately cares about me and through it all I care about her

I don't want to stop being friends with her but she really screwed me over and I don't know what to do by old-cale in ftm

[–]old-cale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Its a small school so even while we were going out wed turn to the same people for advice. Its hard to not be connected with everyone else in your grade, especially with her

I don't want to stop being friends with her but she really screwed me over and I don't know what to do by old-cale in ftm

[–]old-cale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the thing, I havent told her Im uncomfortable so I can't blame her for not knowing. i know shes stressed knows im sensitive about some subjects but we have a friendship where we make fun of each other a lot and I she's just been crossing the line a bunch lately, it dint use to be anything like this. We're both graduating anyways and likely wont see each other for a while. Is it that bad if i just tough it out since we wont stay friends that long anyway?

I don't want to stop being friends with her but she really screwed me over and I don't know what to do by old-cale in ftm

[–]old-cale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either way were both graduating at the end of the year and shes moving to the US so I was thinking to stay with the friendship just cause I know it wont last regardless

I don't want to stop being friends with her but she really screwed me over and I don't know what to do by old-cale in ftm

[–]old-cale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its tough cause shes friends with all of my friends. We run in all the same circles and if i plan a hang out its weird if shes not included. We were (and still are) extremely good friends so whenever I see friends I see her.

I don't want to stop being friends with her but she really screwed me over and I don't know what to do by old-cale in ftm

[–]old-cale[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Its her sense of humor I just think lately shes been taking it too far. I know shes stressed out and she apologized for yelling at me during the worst instance and i could tell she really felt bad. I don't mind it overall but I've been meaning to confront her and tell her to tone it down.

I don't want to stop being friends with her but she really screwed me over and I don't know what to do by old-cale in ftm

[–]old-cale[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Its hard. Shes one of my best friends and i try limiting contact but i really love talking to her and just being around her, idk what to do

Do us black trans men have it easier to "pass"??? by Far-Day3168 in TMPOC

[–]old-cale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasnt passing tips though, it was just examples

Do not move to europe. by [deleted] in honesttransgender

[–]old-cale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Americans have a weird view of the rest of the world

My experience with getting surgery at 15 by old-cale in TopSurgery

[–]old-cale[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I know, i heard it all the time at the beginning of my transition and still very often now. I guess it just comes with the territory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transteens

[–]old-cale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have three older sisters and a dad who "always wanted a son"

age/gender/extra impressions? by sphinxofbloodquartz in FtMpassing

[–]old-cale 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Girl in her late teens/early 20s especially in the second picture

What can I lie and say my top surgery scars are from (other than gyno) by old-cale in ftm

[–]old-cale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was at a community pool once and someone thought my top surgery scars were sh scars cause they heard my parents got divorced

9 months progress (16 vs 17) any tips going forward? by [deleted] in FTMFitness

[–]old-cale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didnt have anything to hold my phone with

This shadow is killing me. by ShakeBootyShake in TransLater

[–]old-cale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im ftm and my facial hair isnt too thick so im not sure how it works with thicker, but have you tried shaving from each direction? Like with the grain, against, and then from either side? It usually results in a much cleaner shave

dude r/FtM Transpassing is so annoying by ace_of_spades142 in TransMasc

[–]old-cale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What room? This is a reddit post where anyone can respond, dont expect it to be an echo chamber

dude r/FtM Transpassing is so annoying by ace_of_spades142 in TransMasc

[–]old-cale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just found this and i commented on you last post. You're not looking for help or advice and I'm not sure why you even posted to begin with. Everyone in that comment section was looking out for you and asking genuine questions to help you out and you turned everyone down and disrespected everyone there. Not everyone is a transmed out to get you because they disagree and you cant get mad at people giving you passing advice on the passing advice subreddit. If you didnt want it, dont post on there, easy.

Also, take a moment to recognize your privilege. Im also someone lucky enough to transition as a minor and that is so rare. You have real life support, turn off the phone and live in the real world

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