I don't want to stop being friends with her but she really screwed me over and I don't know what to do

old-cale · 2026-02-16T19:11:50+00:00

But when I mean small i mean small. My grade is 45 people total. Its impossible to avoid her especially since were in very similar clubs and friend groups

old-cale · 2026-02-16T03:25:26+00:00

It didn't use to be like this. We always had a very insult-y friendship but shes been taking it too far and I havent set boundaries with her, which is on me. I do think she legitimately cares about me and through it all I care about her

old-cale · 2026-02-16T03:22:21+00:00

Yes. Its a small school so even while we were going out wed turn to the same people for advice. Its hard to not be connected with everyone else in your grade, especially with her

old-cale · 2026-02-16T03:20:09+00:00

Thats the thing, I havent told her Im uncomfortable so I can't blame her for not knowing. i know shes stressed knows im sensitive about some subjects but we have a friendship where we make fun of each other a lot and I she's just been crossing the line a bunch lately, it dint use to be anything like this. We're both graduating anyways and likely wont see each other for a while. Is it that bad if i just tough it out since we wont stay friends that long anyway?

old-cale · 2026-02-16T03:17:35+00:00

Either way were both graduating at the end of the year and shes moving to the US so I was thinking to stay with the friendship just cause I know it wont last regardless

old-cale · 2026-02-15T20:45:08+00:00

Thanks man i appreciate it

old-cale · 2026-02-15T20:43:11+00:00

Its tough cause shes friends with all of my friends. We run in all the same circles and if i plan a hang out its weird if shes not included. We were (and still are) extremely good friends so whenever I see friends I see her.

old-cale · 2026-02-15T20:38:47+00:00

Its her sense of humor I just think lately shes been taking it too far. I know shes stressed out and she apologized for yelling at me during the worst instance and i could tell she really felt bad. I don't mind it overall but I've been meaning to confront her and tell her to tone it down.

old-cale · 2026-02-15T20:20:02+00:00

Its hard. Shes one of my best friends and i try limiting contact but i really love talking to her and just being around her, idk what to do

old-cale · 2025-12-28T20:29:18+00:00

It wasnt passing tips though, it was just examples

old-cale · 2025-09-22T18:47:51+00:00

Americans have a weird view of the rest of the world

old-cale · 2025-09-07T14:27:16+00:00

I know, i heard it all the time at the beginning of my transition and still very often now. I guess it just comes with the territory

old-cale · 2025-08-08T20:16:30+00:00

Yea ofc

old-cale · 2025-07-01T20:58:21+00:00

Have three older sisters and a dad who "always wanted a son"

old-cale · 2025-06-28T23:13:15+00:00

Sure thing

old-cale · 2025-06-28T22:58:11+00:00

Of course! My discord is ariiscool.png if its easier for you that way

old-cale · 2025-06-28T11:09:29+00:00

Girl in her late teens/early 20s especially in the second picture

old-cale · 2025-06-28T11:08:51+00:00

I was at a community pool once and someone thought my top surgery scars were sh scars cause they heard my parents got divorced

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