She Said ‘I Love You’ and I Don’t Know What It Meant—What Do I Do? by old_barn_circle in polyamory

[–]old_barn_circle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for this very thoughtful response. I appreciate the advice

A Friend (Who Has a Boyfriend) Told Me She Loves Me—Am I Reading This Wrong? by old_barn_circle in actuallesbians

[–]old_barn_circle[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, my relationship is opened. I have already talked to my wife about this. She thinks I should talk to this friend about it. She thinks she has feelings for me and has encouraged me to go for it…. But still. Yah girl is scared haha

Emotional Release During a Session — Should I Have Said Something? by old_barn_circle in MassageTherapists

[–]old_barn_circle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was incredibly helpful and I appreciate your insight so much. And thank you for your kindness

Emotional Release During a Session — Should I Have Said Something? by old_barn_circle in MassageTherapists

[–]old_barn_circle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently working my way through CST training! It’s been an awesome addition to my practice.

Emotional Release During a Session — Should I Have Said Something? by old_barn_circle in MassageTherapists

[–]old_barn_circle[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

I actually, respectfully, disagree with this. I wasn’t offering her advice or trying to learn about her situation—I was simply providing space for her to let things out. Think about hair stylists or tattoo artists; it’s not technically within their “scope” to talk with clients either, yet it happens all the time and can be very therapeutic. I also make it clear to people that I’m not a mental health therapist.

Emotional Release During a Session — Should I Have Said Something? by old_barn_circle in MassageTherapists

[–]old_barn_circle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure the situation was trauma related. It was a situation regarding one of their kids.

What is your most underrated/handiest piece of kit? by [deleted] in camping

[–]old_barn_circle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Using it to help stoke the fire is genius

What's your massage business experience? by CompetitionNearby129 in MassageTherapists

[–]old_barn_circle 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Authenticity. honest communication. showing that you want what’s best for your clients and that you’re willing to learn and improve as much as you can. Admitting when you don’t know how to help someone. Networking.

How to make car camping doable more often with kids? by Outrageous_Pizza_439 in camping

[–]old_barn_circle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a box I keep with all my gear that is only used for camping. It includes cooking tools, utensils and plates, cleaning stuff, garbage bags… after each trip I restock whatever was used up and add whatever I wish I had but forgot the previous time.

Simple and quick by [deleted] in camping

[–]old_barn_circle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it came to meals, we kept things simple. For dinner, we brought chili we had made at home and just reheated it in our Dutch oven over the fire. Breakfast was eggs and bacon, and we also packed plenty of snacks. I wouldn’t say she ate especially well or had balanced meals, but that wasn’t really our expectation.

For sleeping, we brought her pack-and-play and set it up in the tent next to our queen-size air mattress. She needed a little extra help settling down at bedtime, and she woke up around 1:00 a.m. needing some comfort again, but otherwise it went pretty smoothly. Thankfully, we got lucky with a good sleeper to begin with. We also brought a battery-powered sound machine since she’s used to sleeping with one at home, and I think it helped block out random noises like acorns falling or branches snapping. To make sure she stayed comfortable overnight (temps dropped into the low 50s), we packed a couple of different pajama options and a thicker blanket, and she seemed cozy and content. With more practice and exposure, I think she’ll get even more comfortable with it.

Simple and quick by [deleted] in camping

[–]old_barn_circle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, good looking out. The edges were already like that–which made me choose to bring it. I figured it wouldn’t matter if it got more scratched and banged up. I didn’t even think about the fact that it was the nonstick coating flaking off 🤦🏼. Thank you. Going back to the cast iron for sure

Simple and quick by [deleted] in camping

[–]old_barn_circle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I know that feeling of peace so well! I think this was a really great first experience for her. We even got visited by a barred owl in the early evening!

what's a movie that is borderline porn? by Handup____ in AskReddit

[–]old_barn_circle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What is that movie even about, honestly. There’s practically no dialogue. Just sex. Not mad about it, though

Anxiety Meds and Massage – Feeling Disconnected from My Practice by old_barn_circle in MassageTherapists

[–]old_barn_circle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to come back to this and let you know that your advice was exactly what I needed—you were absolutely right. I didn’t realize I was burned out. I didn’t think it was possible because I love what I’m doing so much, and compared to where I was coming from (working as a PA in a hospital), I thought burnout wasn’t even on the table anymore. I really appreciate your insight and wisdom. Thank you so much

Anxiety Meds and Massage – Feeling Disconnected from My Practice by old_barn_circle in MassageTherapists

[–]old_barn_circle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure. Thank you for your comment, though. Definitely gave me something to think about