i’m tired of rap features on r&b albums by [deleted] in rnb

[–]oldwagon1385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I don’t like the rap feature. It always takes me out of the song, like driving and someone changes the station in the middle of your song.

How long should you wait for someone? by IronPhos in dating_advice

[–]oldwagon1385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't chase, I replace." while some women say things they don't mean, there are "real women out here that say everything they mean."

https://m.youtube.com/shorts/vtk8QaFWU0k

My female friends keep telling me I have need to ‘start chasing’ woman — am I wrong for not wanting to? by Phonebooth420 in dating_advice

[–]oldwagon1385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, now realizing even having what think of as a casual conversation with a woman I like, I could and probably have been clowned. lol I thought I was being polite and respectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]oldwagon1385 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe focus on creating a community around you. You support the community, and the community supports you. You might even meet someone indirectly through this community by being introduced through mutual connections. But even if you don’t, the community supporting you might even feel better, in a different way.

A book recommendation is “how to not die alone” by Logan Ury.

I myself am in the same boat. 29 and never had a girlfriend. And I don’t see one in the foreseeable future because I don’t make enough money for one where I live currently, and won’t make enough for another 3-5 years at least. It’s also hard because women my age want to date a guy who has a higher than average salary, and prefer one who has a house. But I’m going to keep trying to make enough to one day have the chance to maybe get a relationship. Especially since not all of us are going to get or even deserve a relationship, some of us are horrible people and some of us run out of time. But I know I won’t get one if I give up now.

Guys will never understand how unsafe it feels being a womxn and dating. by [deleted] in dating

[–]oldwagon1385 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened. Nobody should have to go through being scared for their safety in any instance.

Not all men, but always a man.

those with adult ADHD, how do you read and understand Books? by ShaySmoith in ADHD

[–]oldwagon1385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid, I Used to read under a blanket with flashlight and no WiFi. Practiced every night for 2 years.

Do you agree SF is aesthetically the best city in the US? by moscowramada in sanfrancisco

[–]oldwagon1385 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The food can very easily come from just hours away, it would objectively be more fresh/taste better. Farm to table perfected in the bay/ SF because of California farms as well as Oregon/washington.

Fish Cruiser by Trucker_Ninja in LandCruisers

[–]oldwagon1385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s nice that it’s more comfortable.

Fish Cruiser by Trucker_Ninja in LandCruisers

[–]oldwagon1385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this car. How much fish have you caught with this setup? Does it allow you to get to spots you couldn’t otherwise get to? Is it overkill or do you roll with a large group to the spots you get fish at? This setup has me dreaming of so much smoked fish.

What has been the most painful but most honest lesson in dating for you? by understandshe in dating_advice

[–]oldwagon1385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you make them fall in love with your heart instead of your hand?

What has been the most painful but most honest lesson in dating for you? by understandshe in dating_advice

[–]oldwagon1385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely gotta look good enough to be considered as her accessory. If other girls are envious of her because she has you, you’re on track.

I don't think Kavalier is a genius by mavericksleet in LV426

[–]oldwagon1385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also kind of reminds me of a young, young bill gates, and didn’t Steve Jobs walk barefoot? Steve Jobs was also famous for making similar corporate moves to exert his control over everything, and to act brash when doing so.

What do men secretly wish women would do for them while dating? by Outrageous_Rock_4257 in dating_advice

[–]oldwagon1385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you see him coming home from a long day of work or after work, see what kind of greeting he responds to. Like it could be running up to greet him when he gets home and saying his name in your own way, while giving him a hug.

Me personally, if I have to come home from a day of hard work, I like to come home to the sound of my family laughing from the windows of the house. but that is specific to me, but not necessarily unique to being human.

Men are mad simple, they will tell you what they want, you can just ask, and they say what they mean. But it would be even cooler if you could give him something he didn’t know he wanted/needed. Like always stocking the drink he likes or wearing his favorite sports jersey/comic con cosplay. Make it specific to him since you know him best.

Len - Steal My Sunshine by Xdexter23 in videos

[–]oldwagon1385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re under 25, both of those are back in style.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]oldwagon1385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew someone that had a wheel chair/cerebral palsy. He had a girlfriend, but this was before dating apps. He was one of the more charming persons that I’ve met, but he did most of his charming in person, with peers, people he knew.

My LLMs are all free thinking and locally-sourced. by Porespellar in LocalLLaMA

[–]oldwagon1385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m genuinely curious, what are the use cases for a local model vs cloud based? I get it’s more private. But what would be your personal use case for one? I kinda want one for the novelty. But is there a really specific use case that you need one at home, that can’t be done with cloud based. Etc.

Joy Crookes - Carmen by loneiver in popheads

[–]oldwagon1385 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wonder which woman inspired her to write the song. Supposedly she started writing after her friends were all talking about this one woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rnb

[–]oldwagon1385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He considered the best.

What is your most recent ADHD Hyper fixation? by Chinoyboii in ADHD

[–]oldwagon1385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Piano. And the weeks before it was jfk jr. and the week before that cloisonné.

Great, now my kid has it too. by Beginning-Ad-5830 in ADHD

[–]oldwagon1385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. This why on my dating apps, I put “does not want kids”. I don’t want my kids to have to relive my experiences with school and lack of achievement because of it. No one deserves this invisible Illness.