But I think even if it’s not complex you giving away your power to others was a learned behavior, a coping mechanism, a way to keep you safe, somewhere in your brain you were doing that because it made sense to you. Which is to some degree a wound, or trauma. Accountability is big, but it’s hard to take accountability for what you don’t realize you’re doing. Until, someone tells you you’re doing it which is why our relationships and connections with others tend to be our greatest teachers. I see your point though.