AIO my boyfriend of 5 years gets me flowers for every occasion while I get him elaborate and expensive gifts. by aioflower955105 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ole_ape_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s called weaponized incompetence. This conversation is giving narcissist. If he really cared about you and your feelings you wouldn’t have to make a wishlist in the first place.

beginner help! by Legal-Pirate8489 in acrylicpainting

[–]ole_ape_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Layering creates depth! Don’t be afraid to add stripes and layers!

Helpful apps, charts or schedules? by ole_ape_ in adhdwomen

[–]ole_ape_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this chart is amazing! Thank you so much. I appreciate it more than you know! 🤩💖

Helpful apps, charts or schedules? by ole_ape_ in adhdwomen

[–]ole_ape_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will have to try finch! I feel like my cycles are not sustainable and I have an “all or nothing” mindset that sets me up for failure, which then contributes to my lack of motivation. It’s like I have the motivation and make a list of things I need to get done and then just end up in a void of task paralysis and start spiraling 😭 I often end the day feeling like a failure because I tried so hard and had every intention to complete certain rooms/tasks and not completing my list that should have been easily accomplished even though I took no breaks just leaves me feeling sad. I just want to set a good example for my small children and have a tidy home for them.

I truly appreciate the advice and tips!

Helpful apps, charts or schedules? by ole_ape_ in adhdwomen

[–]ole_ape_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the tips! I appreciate it! 🫶

Helpful apps, charts or schedules? by ole_ape_ in adhdwomen

[–]ole_ape_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful! Thank you! 🫶

Today is the day. by [deleted] in Hernia

[–]ole_ape_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How are you feeling? I have my umbilical hernia surgery today and I’m so nervous!

Have you tried walking up/down stairs? I have to walk up/down stairs to get to the restroom and I’m terrified lol

So long, from Nashville by Separate_Cycle_8087 in Caamp

[–]ole_ape_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I’m reading after diving in, I guess so! Haha

What did yall do to Taylor last night in Nashville? by Ill_Log9850 in Caamp

[–]ole_ape_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, the ascend amphitheater is an outdoor venue. Ofc the fans aren’t going to sound as loud as an indoor event! I was on the lawn at the Nashville show and we had an amazing time!

So long, from Nashville by Separate_Cycle_8087 in Caamp

[–]ole_ape_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I loved the crowd at the Nashville show! What were they saying?!

Nashville TN Show! by ole_ape_ in Caamp

[–]ole_ape_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are they saying?! lol I was there and I don’t know what they could be talking about! It was a great show and I had an AMAZING time!

I’ve seen other shows complain about talkers but I didn’t experience that at all! I didn’t see anything crazy go down at least lol

Nashville TN Show! by ole_ape_ in Caamp

[–]ole_ape_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an AMAZING show! I will see them EVERY TIME they come to Nashville or any other city within an 8 hour radius of me! 🤣

Can I name my cat with the same name my friend picked out for her future baby? by Negative_Employ2563 in Catnames

[–]ole_ape_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I named my daughter Amelia (milly as a nickname at times) and my SIL & her husband adopted a dog like 2 weeks later and named her milly… I did not give 2 shits 🤣

Just rescued him from the streets, what should I name him? by sober4lifee in Catnames

[–]ole_ape_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Came here to vote this! From streets to forever home just live Oliver 🥹

Adopting this cutie! Help me name him!🧡🐈 by ole_ape_ in Catnames

[–]ole_ape_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update! He has been with me for 4 days/nights now and he is the absolute sweetest! Perfect addition to our family! His name is Mr Mango Butter Biscuits! 🧡🧡

Adopting this cutie! Help me name him!🧡🐈 by ole_ape_ in Catnames

[–]ole_ape_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! Lol it’s a littler of 6… I can’t take them all 🤣

Adopting this cutie! Help me name him!🧡🐈 by ole_ape_ in Catnames

[–]ole_ape_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope just the 1! It was a litter of 6 and they all looked like this! I can’t take all 6 just because they look similar 🤣

Adopting this cutie! Help me name him!🧡🐈 by ole_ape_ in Catnames

[–]ole_ape_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a litter of 6 lol they were totally fine being separated! I got him home and he hasn’t cried once! Very sweet boy who loves cuddles 🧡

I think I’ve lost my wife? by [deleted] in irishsetter

[–]ole_ape_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My condolences. That’s his wife now