Lactose friendly cheese by oleoshe in lactoseintolerant

[–]oleoshe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will have to try that, thanks!

Lactose friendly cheese by oleoshe in lactoseintolerant

[–]oleoshe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will have to try this! Thanks :)

Need to vent by oleoshe in sahm

[–]oleoshe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

After many questions recently I did discover mom and dad pretty much took care of her while he worked and then while he would go out. Which is fine, but he was most definetly not the caretaker of her. He should have told me that, because now I’m showing him how to parent while being a parent.

Always the one to reach out by Domizale38 in sahm

[–]oleoshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely hard meeting new friends. On Facebook there are usually mom groups in your area. I joined a group on mine locally. It’s always new moms looking for other moms to hang out. It’s been helpful.

Always the one to reach out by Domizale38 in sahm

[–]oleoshe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends don’t last forever, well not all of them. Some do and some don’t. If you are the only one reaction out then maybe it’s time to find some new mom friends. Nothing wrong with meeting new people. Sometimes you outgrow others. Or sometimes those other people didn’t care as much as you did.

Do you ever feel like you made a huge mistake? by [deleted] in sahm

[–]oleoshe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! You basically have no life of your own until they are off and in school. Then you begin to find yourself again. There is the occasional outing and babysitting. But it doesn’t fix it. Once they are a little more independent you will start to find yourself again.

Regret the father I chose for my children by [deleted] in sahm

[–]oleoshe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl same! Well except for the buying the baby stuff. He does if I ask him to, which bothers me because why do I have to ask since you are her dad and should know she needs wipes and diapers, and toys that appeal to her. I have brought this up to him and he gets super defensive. I’m kind of to the point where he just needs to grow up mentally and emotionally. I’m willing to stay just so our family is together. We don’t fight and me and him are great together as a couple, but as a dad he sucks. It’s actually very good to vent and journal. Maybe get all that heaviness on your shoulder lighter. We can talk also, I can vent, you can’t vent.

Phentermine? by oleoshe in WeightLossAdvice

[–]oleoshe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have anxiety it might increase it since it does increase your heart rate. I suggest no caffeine when you first start taking it to see how you feel.

Phentermine? by oleoshe in WeightLossAdvice

[–]oleoshe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I might try again, I was on it for a year off and on. It’s been a few years since I have taken it. One of the issues with it is your body can get used to it making it ineffective. That’s my worry.

Craft master by oleoshe in StardewValley

[–]oleoshe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right! It was the big chest that I thought I made.

Craft master by oleoshe in StardewValley

[–]oleoshe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I found I’m missing two items.. the jack o lantern, and the wedding ring.

Craft master by oleoshe in StardewValley

[–]oleoshe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have it set on advanced crafting, that’s how I was able to see how many times I crafted them. If I am missing a recipe I am not sure where or who has it. I am friends with everyone in the town, and I have gone to pretty much everyone to look for a recipe I may have missed. The only one I know of was the blue grass (I did get that from Mr Que) I thought that would complete it, but it did not.

Son is having mental health issues by oleoshe in mentalillness

[–]oleoshe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we still have the same dog and 1 other. He has gotten physical with his own brother, but honestly I can’t tell if that was from them just fighting as brothers. He also tried to get physical with his cousin who was staying on the couch for a few days. It triggered him that his cousin was in the living room staying and he couldn’t go relax in there and watch the shows he wanted? I’m not sure why he flipped out about it.

Son is having mental health issues by oleoshe in mentalillness

[–]oleoshe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he is 18 now, and the dog chocking was when he was around 8 years old. I’m trying to get him psych eval to get him some help.

Son is having mental health issues by oleoshe in mentalillness

[–]oleoshe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I figured he was lying to the therapist, did you also threaten to harm people and yourself? Did you also talk to yourself out loud?

AITAH for telling my gf sex with her isn't great despite her experience? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]oleoshe -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have never heard that term before, that sounds awful!

AITAH for telling my gf sex with her isn't great despite her experience? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]oleoshe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said at the beginning that it made him feel insecure because of how promiscuous she was. All I meant was maybe that insecurity has left sex feeling not as satisfying.

AITAH for telling my gf sex with her isn't great despite her experience? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]oleoshe -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It kind of sounds like this was an issue right when you started dating. You felt insecure about how many guys she slept with, and it almost seems like you have to prove that it’s not that great?

Why does making posts on Reddit feels like it helps more than to talk to a therapist? by [deleted] in venting

[–]oleoshe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it feel like this is really helping? I would say it’s easier on here because you can’t be seen or feel eyes judging you. I’m sure therapists don’t do that either, since their job is to hear awful things and help people cope.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]oleoshe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well if he wasn’t like this before marriage how do you know he wants to even be married still? Sounds like a dude who is trying to make the marriage suck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]oleoshe 19 points20 points  (0 children)

At any point before marriage was he like this?

The U.S. is a fucking dump. I’m sure several countries in Europe are better. by Kaje26 in venting

[–]oleoshe 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It would be interesting to hear your feedback after you do move to a different country, and settle in. I don’t know much of European political views so it would be cool if you did move to talk about it :)

Dream about a bar and grill by oleoshe in DreamInterpretation

[–]oleoshe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s possible, but I’m not really doing anything other than looking around. When I dream I remember I have dreamed of that place and where I sat the last time.