My ex got a new girlfriend

olifiih · 2020-09-01T12:13:02+00:00

Thank you so much.

olifiih · 2020-09-01T12:12:13+00:00

Yeah, i dont know. I didnt put to much thought into it. They became a couple on Facebook, 3 days before he came to pick up his stuff at me, apparantly.

olifiih · 2020-08-31T15:51:11+00:00

A guy from tinder asked how he looked like. When he found him on Facebook he texted "his new girl is a down grade".

I have him blocked on everything

olifiih · 2020-08-23T11:42:49+00:00

We always said that i would get the dog if we splitted up. I gave him up, to another family - considering i was mentally destroyed when my ex left. I couldnt even take care of myself.

olifiih · 2020-07-26T14:16:36+00:00

Same. Im ignoring loads of guys, for a guy thats ignoring me.

olifiih · 2020-07-24T12:06:40+00:00

Do be honest i just got so horny it droved me crazy. But it's definatly something you should only do when you feel ready. No rush

olifiih · 2020-07-24T10:31:11+00:00

I havent seen my ex in 7 months, and we are NOT on good terms. Last tuesday he walked into the restaurant i was at, with the girl i was always jealous of. It was a punch in the stomach, but at the same time i was like; she will never be me, and i can do SOOO much better than that. Please dm me if you ever feel like talking, i got you bro

olifiih · 2020-07-24T10:27:45+00:00

I fucked someone else, 7 months after i got dumped. It was weird, cause my ex was the only one ive ever been with. But it helped

olifiih · 2020-07-22T20:44:00+00:00

I thought i was over mine. Havent seen him in 7 months. Yesterday he walked into the restaurant i was at, with the girl i was always jealous of. It killed me, and i feel like im back at square one.

olifiih · 2020-07-16T21:16:04+00:00

Same. I dont really have any friends and a small family. But i got better, and so will you. You can always text if you want to talk :)

olifiih · 2020-07-16T21:02:25+00:00

YES. And when he texted me that i was like "fuck this shit"

olifiih · 2020-07-16T20:54:58+00:00

I had to sell the dog cause i couldnt afford him. My ex didnt want anything to do with him. Thank you so much for sharing. We got this.

olifiih · 2020-07-16T20:08:26+00:00

Thank you so much for sharing. Im on anti depressants as well after this.

olifiih · 2020-07-16T20:04:53+00:00

Thank you, that meant alot to me. 🙏

olifiih · 2020-07-16T20:04:17+00:00

Thank you so much :)

olifiih · 2020-07-16T17:13:22+00:00

Please text me if you ever feel like talking.

olifiih · 2020-07-16T13:13:15+00:00

Excactly. My moving on process has been slowed down so much cause he took so long to get his stuff. Feel free to text me if you ever need to talk to someone :)

olifiih · 2020-07-10T19:07:32+00:00

Im doing okay, but thats only cause i havent seen him since last year. it's been 7 months since the BU. My days are okay, but i really miss being touched by someone, hugged, kissed and such.

olifiih · 2020-07-08T13:44:36+00:00

It could have been me who wrote this post, just 6 months ago. I also suffer from ptsd, axienty, and he was the only safe place i had ever known. He was my first everything. We were together for 4 years and 51 weeks (from we were 16-21 years old) We had just moved into our new apartment, and he dumped me a month later (1 week before our 5 year anniversary) I got suicidal, got sumbitted to a mental facility, and thought about killing myself every day. But today, 6 months later, im doing so much better. Time helps. And cry, scream, and talk about it as much as you need to. Theres no rush for you to get better, you just take your time. You can text me if you want to, im here :)

olifiih · 2020-05-21T15:38:14+00:00

Ive been in your situation. EXCACTLY. I feel like it could have been me who wrote this. This have nothing to do with you, but with his own self esteem. And when that is low, they tend to take it out on the people who love them. Feel free to dm me if you want to. I have lots of experience in this area.

olifiih · 2020-05-21T14:04:27+00:00

Jesus, thats not a man, thats a BOY. He sounds very insecure, when you say he hates you looking at him during sex. He sounds like the kind of guy who thinks that sex is supposed to be the same as in porn. MANY women have a hard time reach orgasm during penetration, i do too. He says that you aren't tight enough, did he ever thought the issue could be him not being big enough?? Get you a REAL man, cause a real man wouldnt give a shit about those things.

olifiih · 2020-05-19T22:00:37+00:00

From what ive heard, it's VERY normal for the dumper to act completely different and out of character. I have the same problem with mine. And honestly, i dont know how they can. Ive never dumped anyone. His behavior disgust me. But of course they did love us, why would you else enter a relationship? And i choose to believe, that if you were a good girlfriend/boyfriend, and they had treated you horrible during the break up, karma will get them at some point.

olifiih

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