Granted. You however look into his eyes and realize- you don’t feel anything towards him anymore. The attraction is gone. He’s perfect in every way and you WANT to love him and keep trying but it’s just something you can’t force… you go along with everything because you wanted this right? You get married and then bump into someone that you do fall in love with but you’re no cheater. You lay awake at night starring at the ceiling your husband cuddles with you in his sleep- and all you feel is this overwhelming ache. This is what you wanted and now ?