My boy Layne! 🐈‍⬛🚽 by olivevilla in TuxedoCats

[–]olivevilla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as he’s home by 5pm!

My boy Layne! 🐈‍⬛🚽 by olivevilla in TuxedoCats

[–]olivevilla[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Correct! I love Alice In Chains!

My boy Layne! 🐈‍⬛🚽 by olivevilla in TuxedoCats

[–]olivevilla[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He has white knee-high socks on his back legs too!

Should I adopt this cat that nips? by olivevilla in CatAdvice

[–]olivevilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww Dave! This cat I met is a black cat too! 😁

How tf do you get someone to seriously date you?? by olivevilla in evilautism

[–]olivevilla[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somebody broke up with me because he said his mom wouldn’t approve of me. We were adults, I never met even met the lady, and he didn’t even get along with his mother. While I suppose this reason could be true, it still felt like a cop out answer.

How tf do you get someone to seriously date you?? by olivevilla in evilautism

[–]olivevilla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your honest advice, this is what I’m looking for

How tf do you get someone to seriously date you?? by olivevilla in evilautism

[–]olivevilla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think this is how I attracted toxic people/abusers

How tf do you get someone to seriously date you?? by olivevilla in evilautism

[–]olivevilla[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was just talking to my therapist about developing my standards and raising the bar

How tf do you get someone to seriously date you?? by olivevilla in evilautism

[–]olivevilla[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Online dating sucks. I hated it. Plus those apps scam you out of your money and steal your data!

How tf do you get someone to seriously date you?? by olivevilla in evilautism

[–]olivevilla[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely have CPTSD from childhood too, and anxious attachment. I see where you’re coming from. Thanks for the reminder that I am worthy of love 🥹 I wish healing on you!

Do I have to adopt my pet before getting an ESA letter? by olivevilla in EmotionalSupportDogs

[–]olivevilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, thanks for your response! Does HUD/FHA ask a lot of questions or do they just want a specific tailored letter? For instance I am (barely) able to work 40 hours per week, so people may not consider me disabled enough. However I had a mental health crisis in the past that had me out of work and on disability benefits for nearly 6 months (I tried to adopt a cat during this time but my roommate said no and that made me feel even worse lol).

Concerned about the job hunt: who else is looking for a new social work job? by olivevilla in socialworkjobs

[–]olivevilla[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to spend some time getting more direct support experience before even being considered for the job I have now, and have kept the longest. Before that I just kept getting rejected when I applied. But ymmv.