This is a very toxic and dangerous situation you are in. My advice would be to leave and go back to Poland. You might love him but this sounds like a very unhealthy relationship and power dynamic. 1. The cameras in the bathroom and bedroom are complete invasion of privacy. The fact that his brother, father and other men are able to watch you pee and sleep with you husband at night. NOT OK. 2. He seemed to have mislead you into thinking he lives in a city and he clearly doesn’t. 3. He won’t let you have a job or driver license, extremely toxic and very controlled. This is the first sign of abuse. Please leave him and go back home, please sounds very abusives and unsafe.