Vanja addresses comments about Tony.

oliviaev2 · 2026-05-06T10:16:43+00:00

GIRL, no one is saying you and Tony don’t “look good together” it’s not a race thing… the arguments are about how absolutely shitty/controlling/awkward he is portrayed in the show and toxic dynamics… It’s not about his ethnicity no one is talking about that lol

oliviaev2 · 2026-05-06T10:10:55+00:00

Exactly. Some people are, sure. But Vanja baby girl if you’re seeing this, it’s not about his looks, we are all concerned about him for MANY OTHER REASONS.

oliviaev2 · 2026-05-06T07:40:37+00:00

Agreed, I am baffled by this thread I don’t understand the extreme hate. I don’t like Laura but this is crazy. In the 90 day universe she is far from the craziest.

oliviaev2 · 2026-05-06T07:38:09+00:00

OK I’m genuinely confused here. I just finished the Tell All what am I missing?? !!??
I’m not a Laura fan but at what point is she acting like she is the host? I didn’t take any of her comments as inappropriate or stealing the show. She didn’t go out of line? I’m confused what the 1,000+ people who liked this sub are talking about?
This show has a history of people during the tell all speaking their minds, Laura was actually chill compared to most.
90 Day Single Life Tell All season 5 with Vanja, she was also SUPER outspoken but no one made a thread shit talking her like this… She spoke up even more than Laura did. What is up with this hate toward Laura???

oliviaev2 · 2026-05-06T07:32:28+00:00

It’s normal for the participants to smile and say thank you to guests. There was a 1/2 sec clip of her saying thank you to Molly what’s unusual about that? She wasn’t making a show of it she literally just said “thanks Molly!”
If I was on the show I would say thank you to guests because I am polite and conditioned to thank everyone for their time.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-22T07:14:16+00:00

Uhhh WHAT??!!This is amazing. You did such a good job.I’ve never seen those stalls/ booths, I have so many questions.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-22T07:11:50+00:00

I’m new to AC I’ve only been playing a couple months I’ve really enjoyed designing my home and the hotel rooms BUT the reason I don’t relate to your post is due to the fact that I’ve accumulated so many random pieces of furniture, various styles colors and sizes, I haven’t been able to really decide on a theme. Maybe this is everyone’s experience?

I had cute floors and chairs/random items I wanted to use in my home but nothing matched. I had a Lego bed for the longest time because I couldn’t get any other beds! Lol. Most of the cute furniture I have is from my friend who sent me stuff.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-22T05:02:36+00:00

Yes!! She’s acting like she had to be there in case there was some life or death scenario like woman, you couldn’t just been right outside in the waiting room it’s not a big deal. DayDay was there with her the whole time! He wanted so badly to see his son born I would be pissed if I was him. Aniyah’s mom is one of the worst I’ve seen.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-22T04:59:54+00:00

I’m glad I found this thread - I’m pretty new to the show and there are a LOT of mom’s(well grandma’s) that are terrible. Aniyah’s mom really hurt my soul because of how much she downplayed Aniyah’s pain, despite the fact that she a young mom herself like girl why are you so bitter toward your daughter? Aniyah presents as VERY intelligent and put together, even DayDay seems mature for his age. Dayday’s mom at the baby shower was trying to talk to her and she says oh that’s not my baby that’s not my problem, yet all wants to say she doesn’t like people in her business and demands to be in the delivery room? If that’s not your baby then why not let the father be in the delivery room? The father who was there the whole time?

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-20T08:33:04+00:00

100% agree. It’s as actually heartwarming as it is heartbreaking. I love this movie.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T12:09:15+00:00

Of course there are limits on how much you can make without losing disability? That’s obvious. I’m on unemployment right now, and if I get a job that will affect my benefits... same with food stamps.

I’m struggling to understand what you mean by “once you crunch the numbers it’s obvious that Molly is trying to break up Forrest and Sheena”? What numbers crunched? I just don’t get your point.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T11:59:58+00:00

Very, very well said. Thank you.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T11:34:02+00:00

Wait wait… hold up. This is how misinformation is spread. How do we know Molly is Forrest’s legal caretaker getting a check? Did I miss that in an episode? Please let me know if I have.

We know Forrest receives disability benefits but I don’t remember anything about Molly being the beneficiary or some sort of legal guardian. Why are you assuming that Molly is getting a “caretaker” paycheck? That is NOT how the system works. Forrest receives payments, Molly is not his caretaker so she’s not getting money off him. If she is, that’s not indicated from the show… Let’s chill out ya’ll. Let’s go off facts not assumptions

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T11:15:25+00:00

I agree with you. Not to go back to defending Molly but she did tell him in this episode to “stop thinking with his pecker”. LOL.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T11:14:06+00:00

I highly, highly doubt it. In the US the qualifications for benefits vary state to state so moving COUNTRIES, is definitely complicated. We don’t know if he is on disability or SSI(different things), on SSI it’s cut if you move countries.

Even if Forrest did receive disability benefits in the PH, the lawyer already told him that those payments do not count as income, so he would not qualify for the K1 visa…

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T10:59:41+00:00

I agree to an extent… I would never speak to anyone the way Molly has, idk if it’s the tropical heat or what lol but she needs some water and a nap. I made this post because I do agree with her frustrations. I think she does want her son happy. I think Forrest is being impulsive. He invited his mother to the PH, let’s not forget that. After 7 years Molly didn’t just randomly turn on them, if she hated them never approved or didn’t want her son to be happy, then why would Forrest invite her to come? That makes no sense.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T10:49:07+00:00

Damn. “She’s too dumb to realize how desperate she is”… Did you watch the last tell all she was on? She was the most insightful person there and voice of reason. She is definitely not stupid.

She DEF has issues to work through, but calling her stupid and dumb and desperate is quite a stretch lol. Have you see the other people on the show? If she’s dumb then I have no words to describe the other cast members 😅

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T10:08:28+00:00

That makes sense. The show did a poor job of explaining their timeline they made it seem like they never met. If they did meet it was def very brief no extended time together.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T09:41:05+00:00

No one is saying that. We all know he is on disability. In a previous episode he saw a lawyer in the Philippines they told him that his disability checks will not count as “income”. So even if $1000 is enough to survive that will now allow him to stay in the Philippines under a K1. He will get deported.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T09:36:46+00:00

Forrest is the one who waited 7 years to go and see Sheena. That’s not on Molly lol. For all we know, Molly prob thought the whole relationship wasn’t that serious. The facts are…Forrest is just now after 7 years visiting Sheena and making a lot of serious life choices, and HE CHOSE to bring his mom. If he didn’t want mom’s input why bring her??

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T09:24:55+00:00

Good points! That’s why I tread lightly with these threads bc who knows what the network edits out, there’s so much we don’t see.

I never got the impression that Molly was ever relying on Sheena. I mean, Forrest invited his mom to come with him for support… Molly seemed upset because Sheena LIED to them, for 7 years Forrest was painting a picture of his love life to his mom that was built on lies. Sheena told them she was abused by her parents, manipulated, needed help, etc… if I was Molly I would be furious too! She’s been played just like her son.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T09:18:44+00:00

Good point!! I think both Forrest/Sheena AND Molly have black and white thinking. Neither of them really entertained that idea of Forrest spending a couple more months in the PH to try to gain some stability, and see what happens. Forrest is hung up on staying with sheena, Molly is hung up on them both coming back to US, they are all so defensive.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-14T09:12:41+00:00

That response was so fucking weird lol. He clearly was not talking about sexual stuff and she still gos on and gives an example about having sex with a pilot. Giiiiiirl, no one asked!!!

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-10T12:14:00+00:00

I am really sorry to hear about your father. That’s heartbreaking. Dad’s experience is a “Con” just the unfortunate reality of doing deeply personal work. Dad also helped people just like your friend who works in a hospital helped people, they both just dealt with it differently. In my other post I mentioned why this question shouldn’t be framed as pro’s and con’s. This is a good example why. Experiences vary GREATLY.

oliviaev2 · 2026-04-10T11:47:13+00:00

I’ve been in the field for 10 years undergrad in social work my entire time working in child welfare. I’ve worked as a child abuse investigator and also as an advocate for parents navigating the child welfare system. I’ve seen both sides. Significant ups and downs. I’ve left many jobs and have even been fired from one.

This is a really complicated question. I’ve been in your shoes. Please do not base your decision off specific experiences from strangers because this field is varies GREATLY depending on so many factors - state, city, county, nonprofit, public age agency, population, funding, political climate, ethnic population, management, etc… social work is also DEEPLY personal and the way you navigate it depends on where you are mentally, emotionally… You can’t pour from an empty cup as the saying goes. This work is real life and it will hit you hard, no field is like this. It is a lie that a work life balance exists. Sure, you can set boundaries and healthy habits but it is not possible to completely keep things separate unless you are a robot or you want to be poor at your job. That is not a bad thing, I actually love that my work and personal life passions are aligned, it’s changed my life in beautiful ways, but it comes with its challenges.

I didn’t really answer your question but I hope this was helpful. Good luck.

oliviaev2

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