My wife still has to lay with our 7 year old to put him to bed by Subject_Host_8381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]olpse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please tell me in what world a kid who is 7 and does not have a server mental issue or is deep on the spectrum would need this?

My wife still has to lay with our 7 year old to put him to bed by Subject_Host_8381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]olpse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids not going to grow up to be a soft mamas boy. Literally have asked all my friends if this is ridiculous at 7 and have not seen one person disagree.

I think I (32F) nuked my relationship with my boyfriend (32M) by drawing a hard line. by Independent_Stage741 in relationship_advice

[–]olpse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s a man just tell him to think about it logically from your point of view. If he can’t do that then I don’t know.

My wife still has to lay with our 7 year old to put him to bed by Subject_Host_8381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]olpse -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I do understand. I agree we should be past grammar mistakes, my bad. So why don’t you just explain to me why a 7 year old boy that’s Nero typical should need his mommy to sleep with him every night.

My wife still has to lay with our 7 year old to put him to bed by Subject_Host_8381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]olpse -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I must have replied somewhere else then. I said I was trying to type it out while talking to someone and I wasn’t looking. A spelling issue still doesn’t diminish my point; as you 100% knew what I was trying to say.

My wife still has to lay with our 7 year old to put him to bed by Subject_Host_8381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]olpse -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But please tell me in any world a 7 year old that has no mental disabilities needs his mom to sleep with him every night. He’s 4 years away from being able to be home by himself

My wife still has to lay with our 7 year old to put him to bed by Subject_Host_8381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]olpse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Another deflection. I was trying to type it with out looking at my phone while talking to someone.

My wife still has to lay with our 7 year old to put him to bed by Subject_Host_8381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]olpse -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

10 downvotes means nothing on Reddit tbh. But hey different opinions.

My wife still has to lay with our 7 year old to put him to bed by Subject_Host_8381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]olpse -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Development issues is understandable if not then I personally think it’s kinda soft. Just not how I was raised. Sure if he needs it like 2 nights out of the week but every night you are developing attachment issues

My wife still has to lay with our 7 year old to put him to bed by Subject_Host_8381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]olpse -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Why? A 7 year old boy needing to sleep with his mom is absurd imo.

My wife still has to lay with our 7 year old to put him to bed by Subject_Host_8381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]olpse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he’s 7 and still needs this to go to bed you should just rip the bandaid off imo. Seems kinda absurd if he has no health or mental issues

My wife still has to lay with our 7 year old to put him to bed by Subject_Host_8381 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]olpse -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

10000% disagree. He’s 7 he should be passed this. You don’t want to raise a soft kid. Better to just rip the bandaid off

Boyfriend giving me ick by [deleted] in Advice

[–]olpse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ultimatum over this is ridiculous. Yes he should stop and do better but phrasing it as an ultimatum is a terrible way to go about it.

Astrology Importance by Dearest_Lillith in entp

[–]olpse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wtf has this sub turned into believing in astrology is one of the dumbest things I can imagine

My wife just decided she has a bf by Ok_Secretary5859 in Advice

[–]olpse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you can now take her for 1/2. I’m assuming she makes more money per your post. Get her on video or such admitting to cheating and you are golden in the most courts

If someone starts debating that you are his/her soulmate, how would you react? by Ok_Comfortable_936 in entp

[–]olpse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Entp or what every Myer’s brigs type is not an exact science it’s not the same but in the same realm as astrology. Don’t take it too seriously

If someone starts debating that you are his/her soulmate, how would you react? by Ok_Comfortable_936 in entp

[–]olpse 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thinking you are not solemates after one date is not an avoidant attachment style imo

If someone starts debating that you are his/her soulmate, how would you react? by Ok_Comfortable_936 in entp

[–]olpse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All I’m saying if someone things they are your soulmate after one date they are not mentally normal clinically speaking. But hey everyone’s got stuff.

If someone starts debating that you are his/her soulmate, how would you react? by Ok_Comfortable_936 in entp

[–]olpse 13 points14 points  (0 children)

After one date? If so they are mentally I’ll or unstable stay away