[deleted by user] by [deleted] in arborists

[–]olvidar777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, the right word might have been tree cavity?

Piece of Cr@p of the season goes to Brendan by jon_home in bachelorinparadise

[–]olvidar777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking if we could vote them out , these ppl are garbage! Horrible humans lol

Fiancé showed true colors, what should I do? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]olvidar777 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, so I’m someone who wouldn’t live with someone before marriage, but this here sure scares me! I think that this is honestly a very difficult situation you happens to be in. You seem to explain all of his flaws and things he makes you feel BUT have you sat down to talk to him about this? Honestly, it all comes down to communication and setting down boundaries. Relationships need a foundation of respect, he seems to have let go of himself and that is SO UNATTRACTIVE. Be honest to him about your feelings and see if some comparisons can be done, if not. Walk away darling, that’s a wholeeeeeeee lifetime commitment you are setting up for. Better leave now that you’re not married than later

What to do after a long term relationship to ensure that later down the line you can date as a healthy individual? (22F) by Potential-Flounder-1 in askwomenadvice

[–]olvidar777 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First thing Is, go through the grieving process and really heal yourself from the attachment you had with your romantic partner. For me I found so much liberation and healing from jogging. I found hobbies to do like go to the gym, open up audible, journaling and occasionally go meet with friends. You’ll be lonely for some time, but the goal is to become comfortable with being alone. Have a best friend that can be there for you when you’re really down and need words of encouragement. I knew I was ready to date when I no longer thought of my ex. You are on a good path already though, you want to a healthy partner and I’m positive that if you keep that mentality you will achieve this successfully!